Tales of a non-helicopter mom

the trials and tribulations of just another ordinary mom trying to get her kids out in the world without killing them.

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This is not an auspicious way to start a trek. 😑 #mikecallsitawintercane #95isgoingtosuck (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/Brm7G-uH5ek/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=105l3i1oczkv2

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Somebody has noticed the suitcases are out.. #lifeofgeorgie #dogsofinstagram (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/Brl15YKnrxd/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=16thvz63ai5t3

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Good morning! Today is my friday, heading for PA tomorrow for Christmas! #viewfromthesaw (at Ponte Vedra, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrkbRpOHeKt/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=11poefuu4gllk

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How to be social when you don’t feel like it

1. Give your energy level a boost. It’s hard to be friendly, and to focus on others, if you’re feeling really tired and would rather be in bed. To keep going, grab some coffee or a bite to eat, or go outside for a few minutes, and get some cool, fresh air.

2. Have some tactics at the ready if you don’t know the people – or if you have to be with people you would rather avoid. For example, if you don’t like the people, ask a friend to go with you … and have a great excuse for leaving once you’ve done the minimum.

3. Plan ahead to avoid conflict. Aim to stay in control of your reactions and emotions – and resist the pressure to take part in arguments.

4. Control your contribution. If you’re quiet and introverted then value you who you are. Don’t expect yourself to be a party animal. Show respect for yourself by taking time out if you need to, and only talk to people that you want to be around.

5. See it as a chance to practices a few social skills. Take the pressure off yourself by practising your social skills. For example, ask a few open questions, and keep the focus on the speaker. Try and come across as friendly through your use of body language – like making good eye contact and smiling while you talk.

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So. Many. Cookies. #christmas #christmascookies (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/Brdt8h8H8is/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=yb20fefvptdq

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Yum. #christmas #christmascookies (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrdEU1xHvVP/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=16739epb29d0y

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Cookie day still life. #christmas #missmygirls #cookieday (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/Brc9_V-Hyg0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1eykhben6nvbe

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Just me and this pissy face this morning... #lifeofmoonie #catsofinstagram (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrcpZCTHvem/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=18cqi4a5njtns

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Ummm....yes? #dumbquestion. (at Funky Pelican) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrbCzCDnlUt/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1pjopj2q5he1a

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Presents are wrapped, house picked up, time for some Saturday libations and surfer watching. #funkypelicantime (at Funky Pelican) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bra-2fOnpoS/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=kx1ye2ozr7jq

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Guess what I'm doing tomorrow?? #cookieday #christmas (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrayF64HG-Q/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=12jf8cb47zprf

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This morning it's wrapping to The Nutcracker ballet. Happy warm feelings. #christmas #wrappingtotheoldies (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BraU0IuH4TJ/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=19fbuin4d4j0x

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It's a bag full of busy board stuff!! #craftygramma #crafty poppop (at Palm Coast, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrY1grwH7In/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=973qqzwhl7yq

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Wrapping stocking stuff and watching "White Christmas"... Priceless. #christmas (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrXkLpEHYDS/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1g48dua14h656

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Winter in Florida...you do whatcha gotta do. (at Flagler County, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrSTMMGnJ6K/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1v1xu1hcdbfby

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Looks like Christmas is starting to roll in.... lol #christmas #amazonprime (at Flagler Beach, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrOZ1AOHqup/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1nk45wzue23is

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Chasing the rainbows this morning.... #floridalife (at St. Johns County, Florida) https://www.instagram.com/p/BrNObYRHrfY/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=f9ag471qj2e9