impermeance

[human-power]

if you are asexual, sex-repulsed or fearing, don’t enjoy sex or just complicated feelings around it…you DO NOT EVER owe your partner sex. If they guilt you, make you feel flawed, or go on about how hard it is being in a relationship with you, DUMP THEM. there is nothing wrong with you or your preferences. If your partner truly loves and respects you, they will respect your body and choices. Just because you are in a relationship you are Not obligated to give your body or owe anyone consent. That’s their problem, not yours

[sufjanplusart]

sufjan stevens, “for the widows in paradise, for the fatherless in ypsilanti” (2003) /  caspar david friedrich  tageszeitenzyklus, der morgen (1822)

[inkskinned]

do you ever just get quiet. i mean same body but everything feels a little bit like it’s under snow. the shush of a library. the gentle rhythm of a calm sea. like i’m alright. i’m okay. i just don’t feel like talking.

[januaryhoney]

strawberry blond, mitski / long grass with butterflies, vincent van gogh / october, marry oliver

[beamingsuggestion]

one day, you are going to be so much better than okay that you’ll look back and wonder why you ever thought things wouldn’t work out. keep going – work for that day

[feverdreamsuggestion]

your stomach is empty. your head is empty. the cherries burn on the way down. your head is empty.

[sunlitsuggestions]

close your eyes and know you are worthy of love and someday you will be so full of it, it will spill into all the hollow places in your life and you will glow again 

[passingsuggestion]

also! i made another suggestion blog as a teeny side project - this one is ghibli themed! u can find it at @ghibli-suggestion

it’s still a work in progess but i’m v excited about it!

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

your anxiety doesn’t make you any less deserving of love. don’t let it convince you of that.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

all that guilt that’s buried inside of you, it can’t erase the past.

all that anxiety building up inside of you, it won’t make the future any easier.

life goes on, and unexpected things happen. but you can’t spend all that time killing yourself over what could have been or what might happen.

thoughts are so hard to get under control, but try to remember that you are going to be able to handle whatever life throws at you.

[nightsuggestion]

perhaps in another world I could’ve been a lullaby…a voice from the heavens, calming the waves and bringing peace.

[healingsuggestions]

it will be okay again

[sinceresuggestion-blog]

just because your life doesn’t seem worth living now doesn’t mean it can’t be in the future, don’t give up!!!

[passingsuggestion]

also! i made another suggestion blog as a teeny side project - this one is ghibli themed! u can find it at @ghibli-suggestion

it’s still a work in progess but i’m v excited about it!

[passingsuggestion]

hey guys! 

back again after a while. i’m older & out of both high school as well as some pretty harmful relationships.

i made this blog when i was just barely getting by and coping with the fact that my life - my career, my friends, my mental/emotional/physical health - was changing at a breakneck pace. 

i’m so happy to say i’m in a much better place now!

thanks for sticking around guys. can’t wait to pick this back up and foster a place of calm in this turbulent world.

[fancifulsuggestion-retired]

your existence is appreciated and beloved

[softheartedsuggestion]

people are going to leave even if they promised that they wouldn’t. please remember that it’s not your fault