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“Every next level of your life will demand a different you.”

— Leonardo DiCaprio

I crave a quiet love.

Watching you play video games while i lay on our bed and hyping you up. Going grocery shopping together and laughing at a bad pun in the spice aisle. Waking up in each others arms. Stopping by the others work to drop of food on our day off. Sending each other memes even though we're sitting in the same room. The soft touches whenever we pass by each other. Cuddling while watching a show on netflix. Having a cup of tee or coffee on a lazy Sunday morning and sitting, legs tangled, on our couch, being in love.

quotemadness

“Cutting people out of my life does not mean I hate them. It simply means I respect me.”

— Unknown

rarestsparkle

Unhealed trauma can sometimes give you a high tolerance threshold to emotional abuse. Just because you can cope with it doesn't mean you have to endure it.

akindplace

There is strength in walking away from what hurts you, remember that. You don't have to push through everything, you don't have to show so much resilience to your suffering. You can walk away. Allow yourself to walk away.

quotemadness

“She came to understand that her own happiness was a choice, so she made a promise to herself to keep her own well-being sacred.”

— Cindy Ratzlaff

🤬!!!

thepowerwithin

Create yourself. Brick by brick. It doesn’t happen overnight, but gradually. Over time. Develop yourself, and notice as you grow. See as you blossom into who you are to become.

Nicole Addison | thepowerwithin

highassi

I'm only soft when I like somebody, everybody else get this gangsta shit

ashstfu

it’s okay to be a complete bitch when people deserve it. stop being so nice all the time

jose-t-deactivated20180301

the older I get the more I realize the value of privacy, of cultivating your circle and only letting certain people in. You can be open, honest, and real while still understanding not everyone deserves a seat at the table of your life.

akindplace

Maybe you weren’t made for the life you have now. But if you make a move instead of accepting things as they are, you can have a life of your own creation, a life that makes you feel more wholesome and complete.

You don’t have to adapt to a life someone else chose for you, or a life that is making you unhappy. You can change things for the better.

But you need to make a move and not settle. And when it feels like a battle to get to where you want to be, remember that you will make it, and that you can always change paths, and that your journey with be worth it.

Unfortunately, we have to fight with our teeth to be who we want to be, to get to live the way we want. Most of us just settle down for whatever may come. But you don’t have to if you need life to change. So fight. It will be the battle of your life, it might hurt and scar, but it is worth living through this journey. It will take you to places you never expected to be, you will meet new people, you will feel loved, you will find yourself, you will grow up and grow wiser.

And one day, you will get to that place where you feel comfortable and content. You will look back and see that all this fighting had a reason behind it, it brought you to a better place. You will see you have not only survived, but you have also lived your own life.

akindplace

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