Sims 4 related : Heya just seeing if you upload anymore? I get this weird clothing pixilation vs The Kims body blush you made. It's my absolute favorite but it's ok if you don't upload anymore too.
Yes, I do still upload. I haven't had the chance as I've been busy with work and other personal situations.
I have not made a blush before. I believe you have me confused with another content creator.
i'm about to sound really cliché but when i started this simblr, a couple of months ago, i had no idea, no clue that the response would be so overwhemingly positive, every step of the way. i could never thank you all enough for following me and interacting with my posts, mutuals & non-mutuals alike. it's been an amazing time this far, and i hope it'll continue to be ! this is a little thank you gift: i posted a poll a couple of days ago and the "teen sim dump" was the option that got the most votes. i give you all the babies i made since my last teen sim dump, which were originally made for @dizzywhims' teen-a-day challenge. as usual, you can do with them what you will, just don't re-upload / claim as your own ! only some cc is included, everything else is linked below. again, thank you all for everything 💖
Genetics: skinblend (moles are included in the skinblend) | eyebrows | lips skin detail | eyelashes | spotlight skin detail | tattoo
Look: hair | avril top | pants | shoes | eyeliner | septum | the eyebrows piercing is an override of EA original piercing, you can find it here | lips piercing | ears piercing (Erusea earrings) | choker | rings | belt | nails
Hello, peachiie! I was wondering, in this post with your tropical punch tattoos, wcif the skin you used on the male model? Thanks! /post/614040789037760512/tropical-punch-tattoos-a-set-of-fruit-tattoos-as-a
Hi there! the skins I used on this sim were the remain unnamed skinblend by zeusar and the underwater skinblend by mortimergth.
Friendly reminder that it's okay if you realize that someone you follow is problematic and you didn't realize because they hid it really well. There's a lot of people that will act like they're great and good people and then BAM their true colors get shown. You do not need to feel guilty for falling for their illusion.
However, once you realize that those people are problematic, you need to figure out what you're gonna do.
People can change for the better and learn, however sometimes they also need some tough love or some consequences. It depends greatly on the scale of harm that was done, and who it was done to if you need to pull back from that person entirely, or can continue to relate to them but on a limited basis until they realize the error and apologize/change accordingly.
But please, do not try to defend their behavior. Even if YOU don't think it's that bad. Especially if you are not part of the group of people who were hurt, or you do not understand the full scope of the situation.
I see tons of people who will go to literal bat for transphobes, community abusers, bullies, and flat out mean people all because they have some illusion that the wrong commited wasn't that bad, or because they have some sort of idea that defending that person will earn them points with their "friend" or "idol".
I especially see this with people defending certain creators, having zero clue the full extent of how NASTY that person was being.
Now, there are situations where grace and understanding and context are important. Such as communication/translation mishaps, cultural differences/misunderstandings, etc.
However, something I've learned from some of my good friends lately is that people who want to improve and honestly want what is best for everyone in the community won't run, will take critical feedback, will listen to it, apologize well, and move forward with real change.
So examine that person, and ask: Is this a pattern of behavior, or a misstep? Do they seem to be taking correction well, or are they doubling-down and trying to defend disgusting behavior? Are they just unaware, or are they purposefully ignoring important information?
We shouldn't expect perfection, but we should expect accountability, and consequences, and learning to occur. Because we all have growing to do, but part of growth is feedback and correction.
Should also add, it is okay if you feel a sense of loss/grief when you realize that someone is not who you thought they were.
I still remember how someone who I considered a close friend basically deactivated their tumblr because it was revealed they were acting really really horrible.
And still thinking back on it, I feel a sense of loss, because the image I had of them in my head is so different from the image they presented when they acted that way. It gives you an odd sense of "did I really ever really know them?"
It's okay to mourn the loss of who you thought that person was, as it's part of coming to terms with reality. But please don't defend/enshrine it/idolize it or build it up in your head. That's dangerous for your psyche, and for your relations with those people that person hurt.
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