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This Third Boob Is Probably Only Real in Our Hearts Aleksander Chan, gawker.com

After news broke yesterday that Jasmine Tridevil, 21, of Tampa had allegedly paid $20,000 to have a third boob implanted on her chest to make herself “unattractive to men,” we’ve heard whispers in the wind (and read stories) that this Third Boob i…

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Looks like a sock rolled up in pantyhose...

#jasmine tridevil #Implant #hoax #3breasted #boobjob #delusional

I have a confession, I never had to come out of the closet because I always just did my thing. I have hyperactive ADHD so it could just be that but I guess I miss out on understanding a lot of it. Like how gay or straight men have anything to do with me or male bisexuality. I manage to have "bi-dar" I guess because I always seem to find them.

My recent ex was a brokeback mountain stereotype person and I got the weirdest vibes about him. He was wanting to be thought of as straight as opposed to gay and after we broke up he was playing a straight girl and claiming he was straight. I couldn't understand the deal, I never had that issue and I dated women that were beautiful. I understand the I am bi not gay deal but it is 2 different words so, it seems simple? I went to LGBT briefly but the vibe I got was that was for those who hid it and the gay men became really mean to me so I feel lucky and left out in away.

Biphobia didn't become a reality for me until that scientific study thing was in the media. The people using bisexual as a passage to gay bugged me but it was just like eye color and I thought celebs were never in the media because of how I viewed it. I have manic depression and ADHD and the 2 experiences I had in school with the "part-time faggot" comments were when I was manic so one had a broken jaw and the other that was obsessed with me ended up being bullied back when my mania kicked in because hypersexuality was a theme in that one and 3 of his best friends were feeding me their children so to speak so my grandiosity and new followers made me cruel to him.

I even remember the poor kid begging me saying he wasn't even as cruel as I was because I threatened to burn his house down etc. I am kind of ashamed of those moods because of the antics involved but there were plusses, nobody bullied me, I am an excellent sexual partner. However, manic depression from age 5 until 27 was never something I acknowledged because I became psychotic after that so I take responsibility and if I don't treat the ADHD, I cycle into mania and it is a life ruiner.

And now as I come to tumblr, I see a lot of new orientations that really have me lost. I also never understood the disrespect that women faced in relationships. Straight men for the most part are my friends and most experimented with me but since straight women did, I never thought of it as anything but loving to do what their girlfriends didn't. I am still close with them and one of them still experiments with me when we're single because well, I have this oral thing and kind of have a way to handle anything and can take all of everything too and he is so big his girlfriend has to stop but they all tell their girlfriends and none cared we experimented because of how much they didn't like doing that. So I never grasped the "evil straight man" thing.

Bi women I have been with have told me some horrible experiences with straight men, using them as porn fantasies and seeing them as not more than that but when bi men sort of write it over, that probably has a lot to do with women not wanting them. It is creepy to think that they are used as objects but after some of my manic stuff, like when I was 15, goth and crossdressing and these hot but older redneck dudes in my town all had some party at their house and I did shit with all of them, I was in that position so I maybe can relate but to me they were just cute human dildos and since I wasn't friends with any of them, it happened only once. I never saw it as rape because I was manic and I could do anything and being large grown men didn't stand a chance.

I always saw the world differently and went my own way so maybe that helped but I think that harmed in a lot of ways as well. My tendency to retaliate to abuse in a much more cruel way to bullies or in relationships in my life with people who have cluster B personality type behaviors in manias that are retaliatory are shameful to me. Not tolerating abuse and self defense is fine but that is something different even when the other party is abusive because the manias in those cases are always nasty and cruel. It is like being possessed in that state but with abuse, I anticipate mania.

I wish I could meet someone who at least never had to come out. I feel so out of place there. I never felt pride or anything because I never overcame hiding at all.

#bi tumblr #bisexual men #coming out #misunderstood #confession #manic depression #bipolar #childhood #bullied #homophobia #Biphobia #abuse #trigger #bi women #objectification

allystruggles

Bisexuals are just allies who took their ally duties a step too far.

#biphobia #lgbt #bi tumblr #ally entitlement #allies

they apparently are prescribing Vyvanse to obese people for binge eating now... one of my friends started on it, 30 mg a day and she talks non stop and doesn't shut up at all.

I have ADHD and 210 mg of Vyvanse did nothing. I take immediate release dexedrine 10-40 mg up to 3 times a day (max allowed, 120 mg) and the more I take the quieter and calmer I get. I hate the way people that don't need ADHD drugs get prescriptions of them and talk so much it makes you lose it.

This woman doesn't even have binge eating disorder she just grazes all day long. Try a diet or something because nobody can tolerate you when you just talk and talk and talk. SHUT UP PLEASE!!! YOU ARE ANNOYING!!!

#adhd #obesity #dextroamphetamine #vyvanse #motor mouth #annoying #off label #speed #diet pills

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My Boyfriend (and I) Featured in The New York Times Sunday Magazine

Say popular bisexual author and columnist Mike Szymanski,

For much of the past two decades, my boyfriend John Sylla has taken a backseat to me in the "bisexual activism" world. He’s tagged along with me to bisexual conferences, he’s suffered through long and boring activist meetings, he was forced to edit The Bisexual’s Guide to the Universe a book I co-wrote with my bi-friend and fellow writer Nicole Kristal. Today that has all changed, and I couldn’t be more proud. John Sylla, and the great work he has done with the American Institute of Bisexuality, is being featured in The New York Times Magazine of the weekend of March 23, 2014 and it is a big deal. Not since the Newsweek cover declared: “Bisexuality. Not Gay. Not Straight. A New Sexual Identity Emerges,” has there been such a positive portrayal of bisexuality in the mainstream media. And that was July 17, 1995. It took nearly two decades to get another story like this done! It’s a partially first-person story by the handsome journalist Benoit Denizet-Lewis and it details the dinner in West Hollywood that we had with him, and some of the things we discussed over lots of wine … Yes, it’s surrounded in the story with people I knew before I ever met John. Regina Reinhardt, the therapist from San Diego, is pictured, so is Gary North. Robyn Ochs … is quoted in the article … In fact, the woman who inspired me to write “The House that Bisexuality Built” … my longtime friend [Ed Note: an American Institute of Bisexuality + Lambda Literary Board Member + editor of Bi Magazine] Denise Penn, is the reason why John and I met. She coaxed me to write that story that made the cover of the Orange County Blade that she was editing, (and for years I went on her public access TV show) and that is the reason John looked me up. He left yellow tulips on my front doorstep with the note …“I would like to get involved in the bisexual movement, and I would like to meet you.”

Click HERE to read Mike’s full article

Mike Szymanski is a critically acclaimed journalist including two Hearst Awards for investigative reporting & feature writing; a film critic; and popular columnist who writes the widely read Bisexuality Examiner. A bisexual activist since the early 1980s, he first came out as a gay writer but then found himself sneaking around with a girlfriend for a few years. So then he had to come out second time, this time as bisexual. He was previously a media coordinator for BiNet USA, and now teaches journalism at UCLA. He is also an award-winning author of several books with bisexual themes, including co-authoring the Lambda Award Winning “Bisexuals Guide to the Universe”.

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hmm … what’s this I see? bisexual men, over 28, and in a long term relationship. but I thought famous advice columnists assured us all over and over (and over and over) again that this did not actually exist?

pearliqua

I am bisexual and I never had to come out because I was caught with the mayors son and lived in a small town at 12 (the son was 19 and got in no trouble the sick fuck) and a year and a half later, I was with the police chiefs daughter and when he found out it was out of the bag. I never cared though. I am 33 now and single currently although not celibate but I am still bisexual. My mother was gay and she'd say I was "in the process of coming out" and when I was 28, she said one day, "you are one of the unicorns" I finally accept that fact and I am sorry for my lack of compassion. She had gotten out of the radfem womyn phase as well at that point so I think it was part of her coming out when I was 13 and evolving. Slowly, gay people are evolving to at least not be mean to me about it now but it is still there on some level and they can call me undateable and lying and insecure but when I reply with, "I stick with bi people" they scream and call me homophobic".

Oddly, aside from most of the bi people in the area, most of my best friends are straight men. Some of their girlfriends get jealous because they hang with gay men who are biphobic and claim that I am probably seducing him and whatnot. Also, the most angry gay men about bisexuals seem to always be single, overly dramatic and aren't concerned about why other gay men don't want them at all but will say crap like, "liars like that are why our pool is slim" but manly gay men tend to date the same type and femme guys end up being together from what I see, so even in their group, I wouldn't be their type anyhow.

#bisexual men #Biphobia #Bisexual #pathetic #monosexism #heterophobia

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bitter, miserable, unhappy single straight women/gay men... stop letting your biphobia and insecurity feel like you have a right to start telling me what my orientation is. Your entire demeanor is negative and screams drama and abuse. Your personality is the problem. Not bisexuality. So shut the fuck up both of you. At least when it used to be straight men saying "you're still just a faggot", they didn't hide their ignorance behind the veil of intellect and so called open mindedness.

#bi #biphobia #Bisexual #bi erasure #gay #straight

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Brokeback Mountain is a not a movie about gay people, and there are no gay people in it. There. I said it. Despite what you may have read in the many reviews that have come out about this new cowboy feature film, Brokeback Mountain is a bisexual picture. Why can’t film reviewers say the word ‘bisexual’ when they see lead characters with sexual and romantic relationships with both men and women? I am unaware of a single review of Brokeback calling the leads what they are—a sad statement on the invisibility of bisexual experience and the level of biphobia in both the mainstream and gay media.

Amy Andre in American Sexuality Magazine, 2007 (via beyondthepomerium)

boy did I bring straight and gay people together by going on this kick...