Hello, I am Ghost. I’m new to the Radqueer community and I decided to make a new account for Radqueer related things, in the fear of my main account being banned.
I’m a Traumagenic DID system of 13 alters, known as Grime Souls. Feel free to ask any questions; we are an open book.
Collective identity: Ideally use our individual pronouns, but we are all comfortable with he/him/his. Refer to us using masculine terms, unless stated otherwise. We are considering identifying as a PrincessBoy or visclect girl, as we present femininely. We are collectively a man, and nothing else. We have not physically transitioned, and do not currently intend to. We frequently identify as a corpse, or as undead, as a coping mechanism for our Cotard’s. Do not use they/them to refer to us. Anything else is fine.
Collective IDs: Shrödinger’s schizophrenia, Shrödinger’s NPD, natal eyebags, chrono16, agefluid, transservicedoguser, we are also considering transASPD
My stances: pro para, pro consensual contact, pro rack, pro gnc trans people, pro radqueer/TransID, neu xenosatanist, pro endo, anti psych, pro fiction, anti transmedicalism, anti sysmedicalism
DNI: transmeds, sysmeds, ideological Nazis, pro noncon contact, pro harassment, pro forced recovery, unironic slur users
I am not harming myself or others, nor am I committing any crimes. If am bothering you, the block button is there for a reason. If I do, however, break Terms of Service, please politely inform me.
If you’d like to be friends with us, or get to know us, please keep reading. Under the cut is information on my boundaries, alters, and on my interpretation of Radqueer beliefs. Our socials are also linked below.
Reblogs: Allowed, except for vents. We frequently forget to turn off reblogs, so we may ask you to delete a reblog if we did.
DMs: Always allowed, but do not expect an immediate response.
Asks: Always allowed and highly encouraged. We adore questions.
Spamming: Generally allowed. Do not spam us with asks, though, unless you have actual questions or useful statements.
Compliments: Always allowed, and encouraged. We will tell you if your compliment makes us uncomfortable.
Pet names/nicknames: Generally allowed but please avoid flirting.
Flirting as a joke: This is allowed, but use tone indicators and be clear that you are joking.
Flirting seriously: Platonic only. If your flirting is romantic or sexual, we will allow it, but not reciprocate.
Sexual topics: Allowed. Be as graphic as you like, just don’t get me banned.
Violent topics: Generally allowed, but it’s safer to ask.
Drug-related topics: Ask. We are a recovering substance user and do not want to relapse.
Swearing: This is fine, but do not be rude to us.
Venting: Allowed, but do not expect an immediate response. We will reply later, if we can’t in the moment.
Threatening/insulting interaction: Allowed. We will respond when comfortable. However, be clear you are not sending pure hate.
Parasocial interaction: Allowed. We will respond when comfortable.
We will block anyone who makes us uncomfortable.
Relevant information
“Radqueer” used to mean someone who is radically accepting of what is considered “queer” (lgbtqia+). This included paraphilias, transracial individuals, transableds, etc etc. The community was infamous for its problematic members, and was known for being “cringe”. However, it has since been recoined as a term for radical acceptance in general.
“New Radqueers” believe you can be whatever you like, in any way you like, as long as you’re not harming anyone else non-consensually. I follow this belief. Personally, I do not view ideological nazis (transnazis or other that hold the beliefs a historical nazi would) nor pro contact individuals as radqueer.
I am also pro RACK (risk assessed consensual kink). This means that I support anyone engaging in kink with consenting individuals, as long as all parties are aware of and comfortable with the risks involved. I follow the age of consent for legal reasons, and I am anti contact when it comes to minors and adults together. I do not agree with the age of consent, and I believe maturity depends on the individual, but because that is difficult to enforce I follow the legal age of consent in my country (18+).
You may flirt with me if you like, but I will not reciprocate any romantic or sexual interaction. If I you are unclear about your intentions, I may perceive them as platonic. Please do not send me any graphic images or videos. I have been taken by the Severed Syndicate for over a year now, and I intend to keep it that way. We are in a monogamous relationship.
I will block anyone who gatekeeps identities, including - but not limited to - transgender identities and disorders/disabilities. I believe you can be trans without a diagnosis or dysphoria, and I believe you can be plural, disordered or disabled without a diagnosis. I also support those that feel they should be plural or disabled, but aren’t naturally, and want to transition to be.
Feel free to ask any questions, but I will block any interaction that is abusive and hateful. I intend to educate, make friends and form community. I am not here to argue or to hurt anyone. I will engage in friendly debate and discussion, but that is as far as I will go.
Thank you for reading. I hope we can become friends in the future.
This introduction has been written by Andrew (🐇). I also designed the blog’s layout. If you’d like to contact me directly, you may ask for me, or visit @martyr-black.
Ableism is bad because it's discrimination against disabled individuals. The term dumb has always been used against low IQ individuals and therefore shouldn't be used. This is coming from someone who does sometimes use it (However, I am working on stopping).
why do u hate "semi radqueers" (not really sure what this means. do u mean radqueer adjacents or other blankqueers?)
I don't mean blankqueers, i mean those people who are only rad-inclus and specifically hate paras. Or those who use the radqueer label but discriminate again certain trans ids that cause zero harm or "dni big three"
Basically anybody who uses radqueer and radqueer adjacent terms yet do not hold their belifs, i think their stupid as fuck and need to educate themselves or explode
shoutout to all the antis who are in denial of their transids or hoping that if they just bury and hate on that part of themselves enough their dysphoria will disappear. There's a better way to live, I promise
🔍 Are there any cisIDs other beings have that make you feel envious? If so, which IDs?
🚫 Are there any transIDs you have that you refuse to/are uncomfortable with transitioning into? If so, which IDs?
🔒 Are there any paraphilias or IDs you are too self-conscious to discuss on your blog?
👑 Which beings do you enjoy getting attention from the most?
🐍 Are there any beings you follow/stalk out of spite?
💓 Is there anybeing whose page you refresh constantly in the hopes of there being a new post?
💬 When you see a take you disagree with in the community, how vocal are you about it, and why?
⚔️ Do you have any "controversial" takes on the community that you'd be willing to defend to the end?
✉️ How desperate for interactions/messages would you say you are?
💌 What lengths would you be willing to go in order to get another being's attention?
🎭 Have you had any deeply uncomfortable experiences in the community before?
🌧️ Have you ever doubted your status of being a radqueer/debated on converting into an anti for one reason or another?
🔑 Have you tried talking about being radqueer with your irls? If so, how did it go?
📣 What's one piece of sage advice you'd like to give younger members of the community?
🎤 Asker's choice, write your own question!
PREDATORS will see “adult attracted minor” on your page and think they have the right to act sexually with you. Noooo you don’t. Get to know me first, please. I deserve love and I want to be loved
I love you. You deserve better than how this world has treated you, and always remember to stay true to yourself.
(Bare with me for the long post)
This is me. I'm 18 and transwhite, and despite every anti telling me I wouldn't be able to pass, I do. I go out everyday as my transids and no one bats an eye. No one sees a "fake white girl." They just see.. me? I've noticed a lot of antis calling me a "racist yt girl" for being transracial, though they couldn't tell that I was transwhite, and thought I was ciswhite, which means I passed even to the enemy here.
I want you to know that you absolutely CAN live as your transids. You CAN be yourself without hiding. People are WAYY more accepting irl if you explain it to them. All my homies know I'm transracial, my therapist knows I'm transracial. Antis only exist online as they're only brave enough online. NO ONE CARES IRL, SEE??
Person: where are you from
Transrussian: R...Russia?
Person: cool!
Speaking of which... Try not to stress out about antis too much. I know some of their shit can genuinely hurt badly, but not as much as the joy you get from actually being yourself in this lifetime. Do it!! Love yourself, and never let some miserable loser behind a screen convince you not to.
I also see radqueers scared since majority of the world is "anti." Antis actually aren't considered "normal" either. It's not normal to harrass people and is seen as pathetic. Most people won't scold you irl for being radqueer. Some may be confused, but won't care much as soon as you explain. I was told that I wouldn't be accepted either. It's not true, atleast in my case, I just had to give a simple explanation to everyone. It's not as scary as that lil devil in your head makes it.
I don't like talking about not being cis of my transids since I prefer to be seen as white/raceless and pale, but if being vulnerable helps someone out there then so be it.
I love you man, don't ever stop being cool! - from one radqueer weirdo living their life to another<3
i should be good at this one since i just recovered from an episode
- I like looking at art made by people with schizophrenia because it makes me feel seen and connected
- usually people with schizophrenia are typically more intelligent but that isn’t necessary
- there are many different types as well paranoid (my type) which are typically marked by hallucinations and delusions, disorganised which typically presents as disorganised speech and behaviour, catatonic which usually presents as behavioural disfunction and motor control issues, undifferentiated which presents as a lack of emotional responses and types of ideation, and lastly there is residual which refers to the recovery after major symptoms
- there are many types of delusions which are unique to each person but there are some categories they tend to fall in there is government related paranoia, otherworldly beings, there are delusions of grandeur, or like the me vs them mentality. these are very vague because they differ being to being
- some things i do to try to idk help my thoughts and make me feel safer is i tend not to leave my house unless i have to, i sleep with a knife under my pillow, i try to always have a distraction like tv, games on my phone, music, reading, or audiobooks, and i tend to externalise my thoughts in order to sort of rationalise them and keep them from snowballing
- more often auditory hallucinations but occasionally there is visual or i actually get olfactory hallucinations often
- the younger it starts to affect someone typically the more it will take control of their life and the worse the symptoms will be but not always
- it affects thinking in like a lifelong way that i noticed even before i noticed other symptoms it’s one of the main reasons that folks with schizophrenia tend to have higher intelligence it’s like a lack of proper concept association. folks are generally able to connect more distant and abstract thoughts together
- for caring for/interacting with somebeing with schizophrenia i’ve found it’s really helpful to almost play along with the delusions rather than to dismiss them.
- there have been some dickwad kids in my neighborhood who keep coming to my house and knocking on the door and ringing the doorbell and it causes me to panic and start to get more paranoid that people are coming to get me in simple terms. it’s caused me to also fear a lot about my boyfriends even though they don’t live with me and they’ve been letting me teach them types of self defense and such to ease my mind even though they know there’s no real danger they still play along almost to help me calm down
