(≧◡≦) ♡ hi hi! you may call me jade, moe or buro! i'm a non-community post-radq and also i love incest. find my sisterwife over at @radboolive. go follow it now she's like the best. i love him. yay!
i am chronologically over 18! i prefer to be treated as if i am much much younger though! #permachild
ids, stances & more can be found under the cut! be careful, there's gifs! (a lot of blinkies near the end)
i use the #haters tag for antis and other negativity.
i am weedqueer and loliqueer, i love everyone and am just kinda doing my thing. i cant control anyone else though i believe in anti-contact for paras the object can't consent to and who'd be harmed by it
ie. the difference between a cat or a kid and a plushie or a hospital. that being said while youthlib is important to me i don't support chronoaam4map relationships even if both parties consent, i do think there's some exceptions in the concept of "maturity" but i don't consider myself able to make that call so i default to legality. if you think different live your truth tho debate 4ever. i may avoid those who engage in nonconsensual or underage abuse, though
i am a little weary around those chronologically under 18 no matter their true age because i am severely paranoid, but feel free to interact anyways! sexual comments will levy you an immediate block though. don't take it to heart i block like its my job
i ask for kind loving anons only! obsessive and "weird" anons also loved and welcomed. hate anons will be ignored unless i am in a good or bad mood
also if you are a (especially self-described) "radfem" or "misandrist" i don't respect you at all and i'm not the hugest fan of winterqueers just in general
“the bad part abt incest ships is they’re immoral—“ WWRRROONG the bad part about incest ships is that it’s really hard to make stalker content with characters that live in the same damn house
"but what if they identify as-" "but what if they think-" "but what if they condone-"
there are no exceptions. you know nothing about the people on here for certain.
someone could be doing the worst thing known to man online and your first thought still shouldn't be to personally harass them. there are other buttons that will do much more useful things. the 'send ask' button is not the way to fix shit.
the worst part is that the people getting harassed, doxxed, and threatened are most often literally just existing in a way that you don't personally recognise as 'valid'.
you do not get to dictate whether or not someone gets to have an online safe space over their identity. and you definitely do not get to decide whether they're better off dead or alive.
people die over this bullshit. people get traumatised over this bullshit. people's lives get ruined because you think that your opinion is king.
below are some of those people. specifically people who I or my partner knew directly and wanted to honour here. read at your own discretion because it's really fucking sad.
Ichika Akutsu - known online as funtimetransfem, and 'mod glitch' on @radqueer and @transx-culture-is (both terminated)
she took her own life at 19 on January 1st 2024. her final words alluded to a variety of mental and physical health issues and a lack of acceptance from family, from Japan as a whole, and eventually from her safe spaces online. she said "I don't have anywhere to belong except my own home and I'm sorry that it's not enough for me."
↳ Ichika had been befriended by someone on Tumblr/Discord who pretended to be her friend for months. That person then doxxed her and sent a mass amount of others to threaten her on all platforms including via calls to her phone
↳ She also received consistent harassment from others for being openly endogenic, radqueer, transage/trace, proship, an AAM (when still a minor), radically inclusive, and a trans woman
↳ Her loss left her girlfriend, her queerplatonic partner, and her friends in mourning
↳ She was months away from making a trip to the UK to visit her queerplatonic partner and best friend, but not even that was worth sticking around for
her carrd and pronounspage are still up (not updated since she was 17), and so is her discord account. those things will never get to be updated again. she is gone.
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Tae-Min / Shiggy - known online as @not-a-darn-otaku, your-fav-is-a-para, a mod on @radqueer, and others (all terminated)
↳ a few months on from learning of Ichika's death, Tae-Min, her best friend, went silent on most of his accounts and then deleted them
↳ he stopped responding to any messages sent to him personally after clarifying that he couldn't deal with being online or even out in public anymore. He was likely housebound for almost all of 2024
↳ he began associating any online threats and harassment he received with Ichika's death and believed the people sending them were coming to get him
↳ over the years, he regularly complained about receiving hate messages due to being radqueer, mixed origins plural, using many transids, having schizophrenia/ASPD/DID/taboo paraphilias, and so on
extra content warning for paranoia-inducing content
Tae-Min sent a troubling text to a few friends later last year with final words attached. it's not been confirmed that he was successful, but he has since been unreachable. his words included "i keep getting threats and shit and someone said they know where i live and after everything with chika they must be right
theyre out looking for me
theyll find me so I have to at least make it so they cant have me alive"
several of his non-social platforms are still up, eg. carrd, prns.cc, rentry, and the trace carrd and transplural carrd he made
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Liluye / The Everlasting Aether - known online as @aether-indigenous (which is still up)
they took their own life at 17 in April of 2022 and left behind some gorgeous writing detailing the struggles they faced with their mother and society's perception of two-spirited and Native American people. they said "This life hates me. The people put onto this Earth hate me, because I am different, I am the devil to them."
↳ Liluye was spiritually plural and possessed multiple souls which caused problems for them online, along with being a turigirl (turian/gay person who identifies with the term 'girl'), having taboo paraphilias, and having a complex identity in general due to being two-spirited
↳ In real life, several months prior to their death, they told friends of a hate crime they experienced in which a group waited around their route home from school and attempted to abduct and/or injure them whilst using transphobic and racist language
↳ With Liluye, we also lost the other souls that lived life with her: Ailen, Bones, Elan, Loch, and Tahoma
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You might not be the only reason, but you contribute greatly to this shit by harassing, threatening, suibaiting, and using hateful language against people.
And on that note, I'll leave you with some more words of Liluye's:
"I do not believe what I have done is wrong, it is simply a desperate attempt to escape those that persecute me, to escape those who are possessed by nothing but evil if such a thing exists. [...] When the Creator looks at you they shall tut in shame, for you have assisted to take the life of one of their two-spirited, and be it upon you, assisted you have."
hm. a lot of yall in the rqc will jump on any reason to say absolutely awful terrible things about someone just because they said something wrong or ignorant. it kind of feels like you're all just waiting for an excuse to throw another one of us off the boat and to the sharks just like anti circles love to do with their favorite scapegoats (you know. endos and radqueers and proshippers and paraphiles). its a little telling.