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41 year old fangirl in Columbus, Ohio, USA, who is occasionally insane. Livejournal: http://phantomdaae1981.livejournal.com/ Fanfiction: https://www.fanfiction.net/~phantomdaae1981 YouTube Videos: http://www.youtube.com/user/phantomdaae1981/videos Twitter: http://twitter.com/phantomdaae1981 Official Jerome Pradon Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/138035606244179/

[kleinergeist]

Oh, so when YOU grab a Danish for a quick snack, it's a guilt-free, tasty little treat. But when I, Grendel,

[awfulbastard]

There are so many people that are pro disability rights until they find out disabilities can be gross sometimes. It's so wild seeing the same people advocating for more mental health talk losing their shit over a depressed person not brushing their teeth or cleaning their spaces, or people who totally support physically disabled people until they find out I once pissed in a cup because I was in too much agony to get out of my bed, or that sometimes cups and food sit in my room longer than they should because I physically can't get up to put them away. Disabled people sometimes have incontinence, disabled people sometimes have bad hygiene, and still deserve to be supported. It's so fucking performative and it pisses me off. Even other disabled people act like this. Shaming people for stuff they can't control doesn't help anyone, just makes you an insufferable person.

[circuitramen]

i really think ablebodies don't know how much mental effort it takes to do something like stand/walk — like yes, of course there's physical effort, they usually acknowledge that. but there's a mental strain to it as well, you have to be conscious of where you're putting your weight and your balance and if you start feeling lightheaded or not and on and on and on it goes. there's mental strain to physical disability and it goes very un-talked about.

[insidestory1]

These days, the mental effort of getting up and going to the bathroom leaves me feeling as drained as an hour's study would have 8 years ago.

[charnel-grounds]

Lon Chaney and Mary Philbin in The Phantom of the Opera (1925)

[gothhabiba]

I love not playing along

[gothhabiba]

"she's gained a lot of weight lately" "oh, good for her"

"on the wrong side of 40" "huh, which side is that?"

❗️I am not playing along with you❗️

[orbiten]

David Tennant as Hamlet, Richard II and Macbeth 👑

[akindplace]

*gritting my teeth* unfortunately the only way to get better at something is to keep doing it

[akindplace]

*chewing my own arm* you have to allow yourself to be bad at something at first before you learn how to do it. you don’t have to worry about performing perfectly

[akindplace]

*gritting my teeth* unfortunately the only way to get better at something is to keep doing it

[oresti-s]

The Setting Sun, Osamu Dazai.

[depsidase]

[depsidase]

[cosed]

there is no temptation greater on earth than that of museum gift shops

[wheel-of-fish]

love the moment when anton zetterholm's phantom snaps

[boethiah]

no such thing as wasting your 20s your 20s are for recovering from whatever the fuck happened to you as a kid so that youre ready to get weird with it in your 30s

[peachbecreative]

[cadaverkeys]

the semantic drift of the term "liminal" genuinely pisses me off and i know its petty. LIMINAL IS A TRANSITIONAL STAGE BETWEEN TWO STATES- OR. IF WE WANT TO WIDEN THE BOUNDARY HERE. IT COULD BE ON THE VERY EDGE OF BECOMING SOMETHING ELSE. just because something is abandoned doesn't mean its liminal. in fact, that shopping mall was MORE liminal when it was dying off and shutting down outlets every month than it is 5 years later when the space is fully abandoned.

[justabunny]

shoutout to the disabled people who can't leave their houses as much as they'd like to