Hiii, I was wondering how the trifecta would react to their girl being diagnosed with endometriosis or adenomyosis. I recently got my diagnosis and I was wondering how they would respond to it if their girl/wifey had it!
Hey Anony! I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis; that's a rough one. But I'm also glad they got you a diagnosis so you can begin taking care of yourself correctly. *double hugs*
Our Trifecta love their women down something fierce so let's dig in.
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JOHNNY is going to be sad for you at first. Those playful eyes are turning serious and concerned, melting your heart. He doesn't want his girlfriend in pain. Ever. He's swooping you up into a big ole hug, torn between holding you forever and wanting to look into your eyes and ask if you're okay, over and over.
He'll be asking a million questions and looking up all the info he can get. Problem is...the more he finds out, the less confident he'll feel about being able to be what you need at this point in your life. He's going to hate himself for missing so many of your doctor's appointments and not being able to drop everything to take care of you when you need him. He's young and processing that kind of guilt in a situation he has no control over may eventually draw him into to working even more, for a sense of control. With what he does for a living and his energizer bunny need to be physically active, I don't know that you will make it long term. He's not leaving his job and you would never ask him to. Depending on where you are in the spectrum of symptoms, it's probably going to end your relationship. 😩
RIO will not be surprised. He's been taking mental notes of how your body is betraying you the whole time. Cuz he's that way about his wife. He's going to every doctor appointment with you and any doctor who tried to dismiss what you were explaining, found out what kind of pitbull your man is. By the time your diagnosis is confirmed, he's already tuned in to your needs. Best sleep positions, foods, and sexual positions that don't hurt you. (Pain relief from let's say....other countries.) He's not happy with the prospect of you having surgery (especially more than one) but he says it's your choice. Most importantly, the decision to have children is definitely left in your hands. With or without kids you are his choice for life.💍
MANNY is heartbroken for you cuz wtf do you mean permanent pain? He's gonna wrap you up and hold you until you tell him to let go. He was raised by his mom, then his grandmother after her passing, so he is more empathetic/aware of the pain of just being a woman. He listens to what you tell him about how to minimize your pain and he is always assuring you that you don't have to be tough for him. Normally he's pretty private but for this he wants your family and friends to come around more, which helps keep your spirits up. He's def trying to go to your doctor appointments and wants someone to come stay with you when he goes on a run, just in case. He's reading every pamphlet he can get his hands on and is not ashamed to call the women's clinic himself to ask questions about your care. Cuz hello it's Manny, every nurse in the place is willing to help.🤭
The can we/can't we kid thing is def going to affect both of you deeply. There will be ALOT of conversations about that. But trust if you were already long-term, your diagnosis won't change a damn thing about the love he has for you. He believes 'ride or die' goes both ways. 🥰
Thank you for chatting with me! 💜🥰💜
