Boys vs. Girls: They term it TH, we call it instinct :)
TH, short for tamang hinala, ano ba talaga meaning nian? Well, honestly mejo confused din ako jan e, hinala meaning unsure pa but the term tama means confirmed di ba? Madalas nating naririnig na dahilan yan pag may misunderstandings between two people. Boys will say “Ikaw kasi tamang hinala ka lagi” then girls will answer “bakit kasi ayaw mo nalang sabihin ung totoo?” Yan kasi un e, we have different perspective and opinion about it kaya may conflict.
Sabi nga ni Papa Jack, "Ang problema kasi sa inyong mga girls ang bilis niyo maghinala at ang nakakainis dun madalas tama kayo.“ See, coming from a guy point of view e tapos na ang issue. haha! Boys listen, we are born this way at madalas hindi niyo naiintindihan yan. Coming from a girl, ahemm, these are the things that I want you to remember next time:
1. Most of the time, we ask questions that we already know the answer. Ganyan kaming mga babae, kaya kayong mga guys pag nagtanong kami, sagutin niyo ng totoo kasi ang gusto lang naman namin e ma-assure kaming hindi kayo magsisinungaling. Ang problema kasi minsan hindi kayo magsasabi ng totoo tapos tatanungin niyo kami ng "Oh bakit tahimik ka bigla, galit ka ba?” Siyempre on our part mag-iisip kami kung bakit kaya hindi niya sinabi ung totoo, is he hiding something, ganun. Totoo un na kapag tumatahimik kami, we’re thinking why are you lying at dun nagsisimula ung pagkaparanoid namin minsan. Siyempre andun kasi ung fear na baka someone’s getting your attention more than ours. Alam niyo naman na ang mga babae pinanganak na insecure at paranoid. :)
2. We easily recognize it when you’re lying or not. Yeah, it’s true, yan ang skills namin na wala kayo, well salamat sa brain sructure namin. Sabi nga sa nabasa ko, woman’s supernatural brain observes facial expression 70%, body language 20% and words coming from the mouth 10%. So alam niyo na boys? Don’t lie to us, babae kami, we will always know. Kaya wag kayong magtaka kung bakit naiinis kami minsan na akala niyo e wala namang dahilan. We really hate it when you lie and we hate it more when you’re too obvious doing it.
3. When we give you time to explain, take it. As simple as that, siguro pansin niyo naman na we often ask a lot of follow up questions, madalas nga naiinis kayo pag ganyan e. I don’t know why, but guys get easily irritated being interrogated, and honestly that makes you look guilty most of the time. :) When we ask too much that means we’re giving you time to explain your side, kaso namimisinterpret niyo madalas. Iniisip niyo agad kasi we’re doubting you, pero hindi ganun un. Kaming mga girls we know how to listen and all we want is explanation, something that could assure us, that’s all we wanted.
4. When we ask, we don’t want you to anticipate our reaction. Yep you read it right, ayaw namin ng pinapangunahan kami. Common scenario na ung girl na magttanong “Bakit di mo sinabi agad?”tapos kayo ang isasagot niyo “Di ko na sinabi, baka kasi magalit ka e.” Oha, how would you know na magagalit kami kung sinabi niyo nga. Minsan kasi hindi naman talaga namin ikagagalit ung ginawa niyo e, kayo lang nag-iisip kasi alam niyong may nagawa kayo. Kami, we value your honesty kaya big deal smin lahat ng sasabihin niyo. Girls are soft-hearted, magsorry nga lang kayo forgiven na e, basta naging honest kayo, inamin niyo, hindi ung sa iba namin malalaman. Akala niyo kasi dun kami naiinis e, you don’t understand na ang ayaw namin ay ung hindi niyo pagsasabi smin.
5.We always have supporting evidences on our guts, we are researchers and agents by nature. Proven yan, haha! Malakas ang pakiramdam naming mga babae, we easily know when there’s something to be bothered about, that’s why we have questions. We have this intuition and once na may nararamdaman na kaming hindi maganda, expect that we’re silently observing you. I know guys do get curious how come we know things without you telling us, well, simply because we have our own ways. Magaling kaming maghanap or maybe mejo tanga ang lalake sa pagtatago. :)
Okay, this is a plain point of view of mine,I’m not putting girls in general, but maybe in majority. :) Obviously, this is one-sided, I won’t assume any guy’s thought about this kasi alam ko naman na you have your reasons too. Pwede ba namang wala, e di sana hindi nagiging issue yan. :) Well for me,the issue here is not whether tamang hinala yan or woman’s instinct, it all falls down to the issue of TRUST.
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