â (verbal) degradation & humiliation, objectification, dehumanization, human furniture, pet play (pig, ...)
â belittling, bullying, mocking, insulting, name calling, forced name change/name chosen for me, forced pronoun change (it/itâs)/using the wrong pronouns, being referred to/talked about like an object, discarded like object/trash, (forced) identity erasure, bimbofication, scolding/lecturing, forced masculinization, misgendering, misogyny, (pretend) findom
â food/diet control or restriction, slave, total power exchange, forced weight loss, body shaming, body & personality modification, forced haircuts/head shaving, 24/7, control, micro management, forced changes, punishment haircuts, forced cleaning/maid, manhandling
â spanking, face slapping, bondage (all kinds), sensory deprivation, chastity, gags, body writing, restrictions, writing tasks, cages/locked in places - enclosed spaces, punishments, cnc, free use, cuckquean
i need to be paraded around in public with a gag on and my hands tied behind my back. my shirt is pulled down and my tits are out for everyone to see. and for everyone to grope me as they please.
need a partner that has a friend who knows how to tattoo.
my partner tells me about this new tattoo theyâve been thinking of getting and asks me to come along. i agree and go with them. when we arrive, the friend ignores me while they greet my partner who merely tells me to go stand in the corner. i do it while the friend shows my partner the tattoo and they agree.
suddenly, my partner comes up to me and pulls my pants down, exposing me in front of everyone. i try to cover myself but they grab my hands and tie them together behind my back, telling me to stop struggling. i stand still as they put a gag on me before leading me to the chair.
my partner carelessly puts me on it, as if iâm just a toy before continuing the conversation with their friend and ignoring me. i can only see the floor and the gag prevents me from talking but i can hear and feel the friend prepare the tattoo. instead of my partner though, itâs me.
suddenly i can feel the needle on my skin. my partner continues the conversation like normal and neither pays me any mind. i lay still as their friend tattoos me. once theyâre done, my partner takes of the gag and handcuffs.
i get up and walk to the mirror. i try to but canât see the tattoo. i ask them what it is but they both ignore me. i continue to ask, desperate to know what has just been etched into my skin but my partner merely tells me that i donât need to know what it is.
after all, itâs for them and not for me. iâm just a toy they use.
How do you feel about âfriend with an unfairness kinkâ? For example, making you do chores, but pulling you aside in the middle of them to spank you, then berating you for being late with your chores and telling you that youâll be punished for your laziness?
10/10. perfect friend.
genuinely, iâd love to have a dynamic like that. it just sounds like itâd be so much fun.
like yes, of course itâs my fault that i didnât get it done in time. i shouldâve been faster, that punishment is well deserved.
could also be fun to get time limits for tasks that are pretty unrealistic but failure still results in a punishment.
the people (me, really) yearn for discipline and punishments and rules and friends that take advantage of me to do their chores and bully me
youâre out in public? everyone around you is allowed to use you. you donât get to refuse.
someone needs a seat? get down on your knees and allow them to use you as their chair. they need a footrest or a table? same principle. they need someone to carry their bags or hold they stuff? keep your mouth shut and do it.
someone wants a pet but doesnât have the time to commit to one? youâre now their pet. no more talking for you, only animal noises. youâll crawl everywhere, eat from the ground and no one will bet an eye. youâll just be a pet until the next person wants to use you.
someone is frustrated? bend over and let them spank you. itâs what youâre there for.
the stranger on the street thatâs staring at you? walk up to them and let them grope you. give them access to your body.
partner that ties me up in public and allows strangers to grope and spank me in exchange for money
partner that makes me pay them to get permission from them. i want to eat something? i have to pay them first. i want to speak? i have to pay them first. i want to go out? i have to pay them first. i want to use furniture? i have to pay them first.
partner that makes me pay them to embarrass me
partner that offers my services to others and makes me pay them as a thank you for the opportunity to be useful
partner that makes me pay them to humiliate me in front of their friends
partner that allows their friends to humiliate me in exchange for money
partner that makes me pay them to be with me
partner that makes me pay for their dates with other women
a society where everyone gets to discipline you whenever and wherever they want to.
youâre in college and havenât done all your assignments? or missed a deadline? your professor gets to pull you over his knee and spank you. if youâre lucky, they may do it in their office. if not, or after a repeated offense, theyâll just spank you in front of the entire course.
you skipped a class? now you get to stand in the corner for the entirety of the next class. right where everyone can see you and gets to spank you on the way out.
you fail a class? youâll be tied up on campus for the day with the infraction written on you. youâll be made fun of by everyone that walks past.
youâre late to work? your boss gets to spank you.
you made a mistake that easily couldâve been prevented? you have to carry a sign that states your infraction everywhere with you for the next 48h. someone thinks you deserve further punishment for it? theyâll be allowed to pull down your pants and spank you.
you were disrespectful? youâll spend some time in the corner before and after your spanking. if that doesnât improve your attitude, youâll have to write lines while youâre naked and tied to the chair until your disciplinarian thinks youâll improve your attitude.
you refuse to listen? youâll get tied up in public where everyone that wants to gets to spank you and write whatever they see fit on your body with permanent marker. that way, even after your spanking is over everyone still gets to see that you were misbehaving.
you refuse to accept a punishment? youâll be walked around town on a leash. every 5 minutes you lose a clothing item until youâre naked. now you get to spend the day naked, facing a wall in public while said public disciplines you.
iâd love having a friend that sees me as nothing but their pet.
making me crawl everywhere behind them. putting a collar & leash on me. making me eat from the floor. making me sleep on the floor next to their bed. talking about me to others as if iâm a real pet, so they see me as nothing but a pet either. tying my leash to a pole in public when they go into a store because pets arenât allowed in there. punishing me whenever i try to talk instead of making animal noises. making me stay in a cage or outside in their backyard. hosing me down outside. not allowing me to cover up, because in their mind iâm actually just their pet.
Fake ass bitch. "I won't actually send you money" then what fucking good are you? What value do you even have? Just another set of rape holes to jerk off like you're special. You're not a real misogynist, you don't actually believe men deserve worship, you're just here to pretend so you can get attention, and it's fucking disgusting. Ugly, fat, broke cunt.
all iâm gonna say is, having such a visceral reaction to me stating/having a boundary is certainly a choice.
i miss the times when my friends would pour water over me. every time i wore a white shirt, they would take their water bottles and just empty them over my head. sometimes even over my lap as well.
at the time, i barely wore bras so theyâd always get the full view when the white fabric was stuck to my skin. theyâd always make fun of me for being soaked in water while they were completely dry. it was so humiliating, especially because theyâd only ever do that to me when we were in public.