It both makes too much sense and pisses me off that its impossible to find active elven/elfae/fae/faerie/fairy communities.
I'm early-mid twenties, i am def not old, but its straight up scary not being able to find people older and more knowledgable people on BEING fae. Its scary that the resources i can find are either lackluster or obscured by a thick layer of metaphorical dust (with the half-exception of The Silver Elves Wordpress blog, love those elves).
The few other fae ive met are my age or younger and know less than me and i dont know much!! We're kids with no guidance a lot of the time!! Its a stark difference to the canid, felis, otherwise therian, and the other mythos, ESPECIALLY compared to the vampyric and draconic communities!! These are lovely and complex communities - keyword: COMMUNITIES
There are no faekin discord servers i can find, there are little people talking about the SPIRITUAL side of being elfae, and the idea of starting myself is daunting cause i feel underqualified - but we all do!!
Lots of fae are solidary, not out of desire but from necessity. Just like the other Other communities its hard to be Other, but unlike them we are especially scattered.
I want to find you! i want to see you! Im here! Where are you?? Where can we be??














