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Meanputa

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Meanputa

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Retraction

Dr. Summit described five components of Accommodation Syndrome. 

Whatever a child says about sexual abuse, she is likely to reverse it.

Beneath the anger of impulsive disclosure remains the ambivalence of guilt and the martyred obligation to preserve the family.

  In the chaotic aftermath of disclosure, the child discovers that the bedrock fears and threats underlying the secrecy are true.  Her father abandons her and calls her a liar.  Her mother does not believe her or decompensates into hysteria and rage.  

The family is fragmented, and all the children are placed in custody.   The father is threatened with disgrace and imprisonment.  The girl is blamed for causing the whole mess, and everyone seems to treat her like a freak.  

She is interrogated about all the tawdry details and encouraged to incriminate her father, yet the father remains unchallenged, remaining at home in the security of the family.  She is held in custody with no apparent hope of returning home if the dependency position is maintained. 

The message from the mother is very clear, of explicit.  “Why do you insist on telling those awful stories about your father?”

Once again, the child bears the responsibility of either preserving or destroying the family.  The role reversal continues with the “bad” choice being to tell the truth and the “good” choice being to capitulate and restore a lie for the sake of the family. 

Source

Secrecy

Helplessness

Entrapment & Accommodation

Delayed, Conflicted & Unconvincing Disclosure

Retraction

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