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. . prismzoetrope // priyazoejain.com // . artist/yogi interested in the process of art + mindfulness practices and their potential as forms of healing. currently residing on tio’tiah:ke land, montréal, canada. ▼ this is a curation of my personal inspirations & whimsical reflections. content is not my own, unless otherwise noted. . .

[etherships]

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IG: @ashlukadraws

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IG: @artxman

[sheisrecovering]

You don’t have to rebuild a relationship with everyone you have forgiven.

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IG @hotwax

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IG @hotwax

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Typical girls

how girls be when they realize their worth & leave that toxic relationship

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[uwubean]

What Happened, Miss Simone? (2015)

[allegorys]

[thetwistedrope]

Many fawns survived by constantly focusing their awareness on their parents to figure out what was needed to appease them. Some became almost psychic in their ability to read their parents moods and expectations. This then helped them to figure out the best response to neutralize parental danger. Survivors now need to deconstruct this habit by working to stay more inside their own experience without constantly projecting their attention outward to read others. Fawn-types who are still habituated to people-pleasing must work on reducing their ingratiating behaviours. I have noticed over the years that the degree to which a survivor strains to please me reflects the degree to which his parents were dangerous. Recovering requires us to become increasingly mindful of our automatic matching and mirroring behaviours. This helps us decrease the habit of reflexively agreeing with everything that anyone says.

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving, Pete Walker, pg141

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“You never apologized to me for hurting me, but I apologized to you 12 times for being angry about it.”