Little and Fiesty

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[flowerbudinconcrete]

Be With The Person That Makes You Feel Safe

“Don’t fall for the person that gives you butterflies. If you feel nervous when you’re around them, that’s a bad sign. Fall for the person that makes you feel safe, that makes you feel calm, that’s the person you’re supposed to be with. Because if your heart leaps out of your chest every time you get some little hit of affection, or love, from them, it means they’re keeping you strung along. That is not the person to be with. Be with the person that makes you feel safe.”

—Nicole Frangipane

Be with the person that inspires you and gives you room to do better entirely for yourself.

Someone capable of patience, who will try to understand your brain, but will call you on your shit when necessary, and won’t do so with anything other than concern, respect, and a gentleness you know you need, without you feeling or acting defensive in response.

A person that doesn’t try to “fix” you, but, instead, listens and supports the choices you make to fix and solve your own problems — a hand to hold when you’re walking a tightrope, so to speak.

Be with someone you can have productive dialogue with, a new perspective without having to carry the guilt of being how you are.

Be with the person that makes you feel safe.

[ad1thi]

i hate gatekeeping and i hate the concept of it and how it is today,,,but it does make me rly sad sometimes to think about how ive loved Halsey since i was 15 and she had just put out Badlands but the world discovered her just before she put out Hopeless Fountain Kingdom,,,and i only saw her this year after she put out Manic and now thousands of people know her - and she’s not like,,,mine yknow?? like im so happy for her and her success and it makes me so happy that so many people knew her but i miss when her music was just mine

[marisatomay]

might fuck around and read a 500 page physical published book in one sitting like it’s 2006 and I’m being bullied in middle school so I take refuge in the library and inhale books at a frightening speed that I have not been able to replicate since

[firstborn-of-akatosh-deactivate]

Damn op you didn't need to just kill everyone who grew up with undiagnosed ADHD like that.

[the-bluespirit]

JOAQUIN PHOENIX wins the Outstanding Performance by a Male Actor in a Leading Role for ARTHUR FLECK/JOKER in JOKER at the 26th Screen Actors Guild Awards

bonus gif+

[manicmares]

[theoraeken-a]

I KEEP A RECORD OF THE WRECKAGE IN MY LIFE

[memes-saved-me]

My sister: *Watching s2 of Stranger Things*

Me: *Has no interest in the show or it's characters*

*Billy steps out of his Camero with Rock you like a Hurricane playing*

Also me:

[bvckysbun-deactivated20200303]

i don't know who gives you the right to stalk people, let alone stalking an actor/actress. i would like to know what did you gain from stalking sebastian right to his hotel other than making him retreat from us, fans, even more. he was just getting confident, just coming back to us and now, you go and stalk him to his fucking hotel.

this is not okay. you people, the assholes who call themselves fans, need to get your shit together. what you're doing is violating someone's privacy. and this is not cool.

stop doing this to sebastian. he's been nothing but loving and kind to us and he does not deserve things like that. stop it.

[daybreak96]

I love the fact that he actually came out and confronted them thou, at least thats what it sounds like, I’m happy to see he’s been creating more of a personal boundary 

[thatsaltysmallhuman-deactivated]

I hate this. I hate people. I hate this fandom.

Call me when people learn and be better.

I hope Seb gets his dick sucked by his gf tonight after this shit. He deserves it

[whitepeopletwitter]

[thatsaltysmallhuman-deactivated]

Every time I see this make rounds I always look at the notes. I recall someone saying that the person making this post is a prude and needs to understand a joke.

Ok but like even if they were the same age, they are still in the working field.

You CANNOT say things like this to a coworker, a boss, surpivisor, etc and a boss, supivisor or whatever CANNOT say things like this to you.

Doesn’t matter the gender, or whatever else. This would be considered sexual harassment even if it was a joke. If you wouldn’t say the joke in front of other people in your company, then don’t say it all.

You could have someone file harassment charges against you or at the VERY least lose your job and have this on your record.

This isn’t about being a prude or not understanding what a joke is, this is about work ethics, things that are definitely not okay to be said at work and BEING A DECENT HUMAN BEING WITH COMMON SENSE AND BASIC UNDERSTANDING OF BOUNDARIES AND MORALS.

I used to be a manager and I’ve trained and am currently training to be another one at a seperate company. And at all three of the company’s Ive EVER worked at, this shit was DEFINITELY never allowed and would get you fired on the spot if someone ever reported you.

Even if you’re making sexual jokes with another coworker and you think they are cool with it, don’t do it. Someone can report you, even if it’s another coworker because it can be considered sexual harassment and EXTREMELY inappropriate.

[destinyrush]

This is how you should ask trans and non-binary people about their identity 

[starlitvalkyrie]

YOURE DOING SO WELL SWEETIE IM SO PROUD OF YOU

[star-fall-system]

This is cute

[littlemisspipebomb]

[loveislattes]

Mad respect to people who are supportive and doing all they can to be informed! 

[dontpuckwithcats]

This makes my heart so happy 😭

💛⚪️💜🖤

[kaijuno]

People always gloss over how mentally damaging it can be to work in retail. I fucking hate that whenever I say “I could never work in retail again” someone has to reply “You snowflake millennials can’t take a starter job because you have to INTERACT with other people” No. Fuck you. I’ve worked as a planetarium host. I’ve worked as a public speaker. I’ve worked as a tutor and as a student teacher. I can work with people. I can work with crowds. Retail was fucking different. Retail was being treated as a subhuman. Retail was being treated so poorly that you have anxiety attacks before work. Having to work retail was a factor in my last suicide attempt. If I hear you say one fucking word about retail workers playing the victim I will personally break every bone in your body. Fuck You.

[dynamicsymmetry]

The holidays are coming up. Retail workers are going to be spiraling into a nightmare beyond human comprehension. If you’ve worked retail, you know this. If you haven’t, be aware of it. Please be kind to every retail worker you come across. Please be patient and understanding. It is misery out there.

[ludwigplayingthetrombone]

i dropped off my resume at this place at 1:15 and got called for an interview at 1:45 holy dang

[aughtpunk]

Today I got interviewed, hired, and then given a dollar raise and a better store location because the interviewer “liked my attitude”

REBLOG FOR GOOD JOB GETTING KARMA COME ON GRAB A PIECE

[sexylibrarian1]

Need immediately please

[cracked]

11 Self-Defense Techniques (That Even A Child Could Use)

[xxxkyrareaperxxx-deactivated201]

These are great! These are all really useful methods of defending yourself and I actually learned most of these in my Krav Maga classes. 

I would have to go up against people (usually guys) twice my size and could easily overpower me, but these tricks DO work and they don’t require a lot of strength.

[weird-biscuits]

Reblog to save a life

[rizmontana-deactivated20180124]

#Reblog

[blurchur]

First day of life up until 6th grade 

Jumped all the way to Freshman year of High School

Then I cut my hair Junior year, why did I do that

Slowly it started growing back and then….

I finally felt comfortable to express myself (the picture on the left was my debut)

At this point in my transition I am 6 months into HRT

A year on HRT

Over a year and a half on hormones. My transition hasn’t been the clearest path but I am so happy that I am on it.

[blurchur]

Update:

2 years since my coming out 

2 years on hrt

2.3 years on hrt

2 and a half years on hormones 

[blurchur]

Its been a while since I’ve done an update so here it goes

At this point I am 3 years into my Hormone Replacement Therapy. I’m thriving. 

These pictures were taken days apart and I am 3 and a half years into my medical transition (The picture on the right was also posted by Instagram on all their major social media handles attached with an interview I did with them for International Women’s Month)

During this time I was 4 years into HRT. Clearly living for it.

I am currently 4 and a half years into HRT, 5 years into socially transitioning, 6 years into when i first came out to my community around me and I’m loving life more than I ever thought I would. 

[blurchur]

Lil mini update!! It’s my 5 years on hormones and I think that’s quite the milestone to be proud of so here’s some pics since the last update.

Can’t wait to see how the next 5 years go!

[blurchur]

New Update!!

Today is my 6 years on HRT! Half a dozen years seems like it went by a lot faster than i thought it would but I’m so grateful for the place that I’m in both with my appearance and my perception of myself. I feel a confidence I never thought I could achieve.

[gayrudeboys]

me, every time i see this thread: oh god she’s so pretty

me, still scrolling: oh god she’s so pretty

me, at the end: oh god she’s so pretty

[coffee-khaleesi-deactivated2020]

When I was training to be a battered women’s advocate, my supervisor said something that really blew my mind:

“You can always assume one thing about your clients; and that is that they are doing their best. Always assume everyone is doing their best. And if they’re having a day where their best just isn’t that great, or their best doesn’t look like your best, you have to be okay with that.”

Any now whenever anyone in my life, either a friend or a client, frustrates me, disappoints me, or pisses me off, I just tell myself They are doing their best. Their best isn’t that great today, but I have days where my best isn’t that great either. 

[bogfox]

Op I’d like to thank you for sharing this. Ever since the first time I’ve read it I’ve held it in my mind and it really has helped me to be kinder to others and to myself.

[dahmersbeer]

the Drake and Millie situation? why is this being allowed to happen. I know it happens all over the world but here - right in the public eye it’s happening and nobody is thinking anything of it??? Or are turning a blind fucking eye??

((Source

https://www.facebook.com/1885503711697761/posts/2146402772274519/ ))

[hundondestiny]

Stop leaving out the Black girls.

Jorja is only just now 21 and Bella Harris is only 18.

[funkpunkandroll84-deactivated20]

And Drake was seeking Bella when she was 16.

Also I don’t like how some are like “well if this certain famous white boy ain’t getting called out for pedophilia, why should Drake?” STOP SAYING THAT. PLEASE STOP! You’re making yourself LOOK like a defender of the fuckshit Drake is doing…

[bongmamaw-deactivated20210105]

i’ve stopped trash talking comic sans after learning the font is actually one of the only dyslexia-friendly fonts that come standard with most computers and i advocate for others doing the same

[not-safe-for-earth]

In the event that you would like to continue hating Comic Sans, other dyslexia-friendly alternatives include Arial, Verdana, Tahoma, Century Gothic and Trebuchet.

[bigbardafree]

thank

[invaderxan]

Random fact: Verdana is one of the few fonts which was specifically designed to be as easy to read as possible, even at smaller type sizes. It was designed this way for use on screen, but the same principles apply in print too. This is part of why some Universities use Verdana as their default font for documents.

[sanctum-sanguinem]

“In the event that you would like to continue hating Comic Sans” is one of the best things I’ve ever read on this website

[writernotwaiting]

@pedeka @lunariagold @darklittlestories

[anastasiaoftheironwood]

I’ll take Comic Sans over Arial any day. 

[writernotwaiting]

Century Gothic and Trebuchet are both quite handsome typefaces.

[iamhisgloriouspurpose]

I’m partial to Century Gothic as well. It’s serif, but not boring.

[catwinchester-deactivated201901]

There’s also a dyslexic font designed especially for dyslexic people to read.

You can install on your tablets, laptops and browers etc, so not only can you change things like documents into it, you can change websites into that font as well! 

[catwinchester-deactivated201901]

I’m sure you’re bright enough to do a google search, but since I’m dumb enough to forget to post a link, here it is. Better late than never

https://www.dyslexiefont.com/en/dyslexie-font/

[captainlordauditor]

I default to arial for this reason, but I will now be defaulting to verdana or dyslexie. nice.

[formlessdemi]

I don’t think I have dyslexia but that dyslexie font was the easiest fucking thing to read ever. Books should be written in that shit.

[lunariens]

ALSO!!!

For computer reading, when you mix up lines of text, there’s a web browser app called Beeline Reader. It looks like this

The colors are also customizable, to an extent and while I don’t have dyslexia, I have adhd which makes reading large amounts of text harder and this helps A LOT.

[hashtagyourshirt]

This is dope. I freaking love how much more accessible this information is nowadays.

[welcometotheravenclawcommonroom]

for our dyslexic ravens.

[harpanini]

I always thought I was a decent reader, but holy crap that BeeLine made reading enjoyable lol