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salem, 26, they/them, white, disabled, tme femme lesbian

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batsdotjpg

tbh potato is easily in the top 10 reasons to live

#certified srs post

jauntylittlefrillyboy

Oh man I can't believe I forgot. You know that post that was like "tell me what clothes you've bought because of a character" or whatever. I searched for ages to find an adequate white cable knit sweater because of Ransom's in knives out.

#i spent over a year looking for a skirt like the one greta lee’s character wears in the final scene of past lives #see: black maxi skirt with slits up to the knees on both sides #yall have no idea how difficult this is to find actually #anyway i now have 3 #the best one tho i wear the most often and i do call it my ‘past lives’ skirt #tp #in the tags

soryeo-deactivated20221120

Oscar Isaac as Poe Dameron in Star Wars: The Force Awakens (2015)

#star wars #oscar isaac

midbyte

still a wip but god. god i love her so fucking much

midbyte

#youre joking #this is so incredible #furry art

dzumii

girls yearn for popular media with a butch as a main character

#so so bad #femme4butch

fortuneaday

#here’s hoping!#fortune #diary

ipusheveryoneaway

normalize dates to museums, aquariums and libraries.

#prioritize even #tp

bashcrandicoot

Based on a true story

#great comic concerning caption!#comic

homoquartz

i’ve warmed up significantly towards the concept of small talk ever since i learned that its sole purpose is to make friendly noises.

as long as you smile and nod, people are satisfied. it’s just to show that you are nice and there with good intentions. we’re small in a big world and have to rely on other people to be decent to us. so we do our little human dance to each other to say, “i’m not here to hurt you. here’s something we have in common, like the weather or sports or itchy sweaters, so we both know we’re on the same team. we both agree on a basic fact, like that it is rainy or that being itchy is uncomfortable, and this proves we can get along. i’m being light-hearted and non-threatening right now.”

small talk isn’t to get to know a person. it’s just a greeting to affirm you’re buddies in the universe.

i am motivated by wanting the other person to know i am friendly, so i have gotten pretty decent at small talk when i used to hate it.

piratedgender

themisally

#THANK YOU FOR ADDING THIS THERE ARE TEARS IN MY EYES #poetry

happy birthday ❤️

#mcr #ofc three cheers came out in pride month looool

batmanisagatewaydrug

my notifications are once again devolving into a spirited debate about the ethics of actions that could potentially make someone uncomfortable, and at risk of sounding like someone about to get a lot of irate anons I think we're frankly giving way too to much moral weight to hypothetical discomfort

batmanisagatewaydrug

the thing about discomfort is that it's an extremely nebulous category that can be triggered by virtually anything and that's far too broad a category to have any inherent moral quality to it. like. my mom was mad uncomfortable when I stopped shaving. that didn't mean I was doing violence against my mom it just meant she needed to get over herself. many such cases it must be said.

batmanisagatewaydrug

there's not a single example I could give that's better than this

batmanisagatewaydrug

anyway rn my notes are full of a lot of "you should never try too hard to befriend people because you might make them uncomfortable" and "you should never tell people you're attracted to them because you might make them uncomfortable" and I guess I'm just wondering why we're acting like a little social awkwardness is the worst thing that could happen to a person