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@pm1337
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For all those idiots trying to start a conversation with "hi slave/sissy/bitch/..."
If I just blocked without answering here is what I was to lazy to copy for ya:
What in hell is wrong with you? Did your parents miss to tell you some basic manners?
Goooodbye dumb fuck wannabe dom idiot
Guys, seriously. Stop thinking with your dicks.
Chastity devices are essentially sex toys, and as such, they are not appropriate to wear at the nude beach (unless it's an adult themed situation).
It's not illegal to wear them through the airport, but why would you subject the poor bastards who have to do the scanning and searching to looking at your junk?
Your chiropractor, physical therapist, massage therapist, etc, may never see it, but if there's a chance they are working in thst area, please don't make it weird for them.
Some of you act as if you're renting those cages by the hour, and you're losing money if you're not locked in. Stop it. Nobody else but you cares if you had to remove it for an hour or two, or for a plane trip, or whatever. There are no points. You don't get airline miles. Trust me, if there were some kind of award for wearing one continuously then I'd know about it.
Also, please don't ask your hot neighbor to hold your key. First, we all know you don't have one. Second, you're bringing someone into your scene. Totally uncool.
I do not fully agree with that.
However - stop thinking with the dick (which is not easy sometimes) is the best advice in general.
Nude beach, yeah, prop dont do it. You are not nude dude... ;-)
But regarding airport security - na. I mean, a good friend of me has been scanned and simply said "its my PA piercing" - done. (He has some piercings down there but not a cage...)
So yes. Its a toy. An anti sex toy if you will so. But trust me they have seen a lot of shit in their career...
Yeah, sure, no need to put something on top of it. But if you are locked and cant remove it and have to go through there. Then do it.
But dont think with your dick!
Dont make it something sexual. It is something sexual only for you! But not for those who scan you and might need to take you to a private room. So dont vision it as something sexual! If they ask or even have a questioning face just say "its jewelry on my private parts". That's what it is in the end and if you are lucky you might be done by letting them know this willingly. If they are suspicious and want or need to double check it they will do. But as you already told them that it is some jewelry on your private bits they will take you to a more private space without you needing to explain anything.
In the private space ask how wants to see it, unbutton, show it, if they are wondering tell them that you cant take off cos its locked on right now.
Thats it.
I dont see why this should be any kind of issue. The point is, dont sexualize it. That wouldnt be appropriate at all! Just play it easy.
But Tom is deffo right that you wont earn anything. In doubt and if possible for you, just take it off. Its overall easier...
Your post tilted "It's not about her" is so insightful. It took me a long time to figure out that I was exhausting my wife with all of my fantasies, kinks and needyness. Once I backed off, learned to shut up, and actually listened to her our relationship took a wonderful turn. I married her because she is awesome. Some where I lost sight of that. Thankfully, over time I realized that she is not my sex toy or my house maid, she is my team mate. I win in life with her. Now days, she is the one that tells me to get back in chastity when she wants. We now have a very nice faux strap-on cock that we both enjoy when I make love to her. Our chastity is not permanent but who knows where this amazing journey will lead.
Thank you for your thoughtful posts.
Thank you for mentioning this. I had forgotten that I wrote that post but after I found it I wish that we could make that be at the top of our page. So many of the questions we get make me think that most men just... pester their wives or girlfriends with this until they just get sick of hearing about it.
Here is the post you were talking about:
It's not about her
Men, we get it... your dick is in a cage and it makes you horny. Just like everything else makes you horny! But stop saying "this is for your benefit" or "It's all about you" when you literally make up rules and charts and show us contracts to make us punish you, and end up turning locking you up into a project for us. We're already worried about children, parents, meals, work, family events, and whatever else. Giving us a schedule for your cock is not about us, it's about you.
I think a lot more women would enjoy this if men simply said "I found this thing that I think would be fun and sexy if we tried it together" and then you (the men) just stop talking about it and let your wives experiment. Even though I liked the idea from the start it took me a few years before I was really comfortable with it and found my way. Fortunately there wasn't a whole lot of nonsense about this back then so my husband was more able to just approach it without any ideas of what we were supposed to do. He just let me find my way with it. And yes... while he might have liked for me to do some things differently, we ended up in a much better place because of this.
Finally... while Tom is locked permanently it doesn't mean that this is the way everyone has to do this. Discovering what you both like is all part of the fun!
This is so damn true!
I was texting with Tom over at Reddit. Gave a strapon a try. She didnt like it. The harness and shit was too much for her. Kinda scared her.
So I put it away and gave it some time. Just locking myself up. Handing her the keys and taking a deep breath. Okay many deep breaths.
Then we gave it a next try with a transparent dick-extender thingy. She likes it. Doesnt seem to be to scary to her.
And now we go down the road that she starts to enjoy it and she starts to shyly request it once in a while.
It took quite a lot of patience on my side. And I had to learn not to push ANY of those games and shit on her. Yeah in the beginning its gonna give a kick to think about it. But the key is just to hand her the key and nothing else. No games and shit. Just the key. And let her decide and explore it.
And talk about it fellas. Talk!
The reward: I can look into her face while having sex with her and watch and enjoy her pleasure. Without being focused on my side at all. I simply watch her enjoying it. Its like a closeup live porn. The best porn you'll ever have seen. And thats what its about: Taking her and her pleasure first and not your own dick.
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What advice do you have for self lockers to stay locked?
Don't unlock yourself?
I'm sorry, I honestly have no idea. I know that a lot of our readers lock themselves, although I still have a hard time understanding why. Or rather what they get out of it.
There are a lot of services, dommes, lock boxes, and other tips around Tumblr. I've seen things like mailing your keys to yourself from another town. Or buying lock boxes with timers. Or paying online dommes to hold them.
I know its hard but image Tom not being locked. Now spooning with him being the small spoon. Now grab his member and balls and hold 'em tight. Hold him. Cuddle him. You got him secured. He feels being hold by you. He feels you being in control and being kept safe at the same time.
Thats at least how being caged feels to me. So that might be why guys are locking themselves. Of course, having someone holding the keys makes this way more interesting. But ask Tom if he feels “complete” without his cage. After some time - a comfy cage given - it feels just normal if not better to be caged. It feels like being hold firmly constantly. Might be a kinda securing feeling too.
Teasing in T&D or Chastity Play!
A girl doesn’t feel like playing all the time and chastity gets sort of ruined if you let him out every time you don’t feel very frisky. On the other side of the spectrum, simply ignoring him while in chastity is actually the most cruel, effective punishment for a locked man who is not behaving or who is constantly breaking your rules.
So what do you do to get through the dead spots (for me it’s mostly if I’m really tired, stressed or busy) without being neglectful? After three or so years of playing this game with my wonderful husband, I’ve observed the following about the two of us and extrapolated it to apply to everyone since everyone else is exactly like us, I’m sure.
Part of the magic of chastity play is that the male, who usually has the higher sex drive, is “playing” 24/7. He’s eating, sleeping, going to work, everything really with his penis locked up. Any stray sexual thought quickly reminds him about the game he’s playing. His keyholder probably has a lower libido but that’s okay because she just has to give him the occasional nudge to keep him at a full simmer. A little bit of attention on the days when you just don’t feel very playful will keep him happy and from feeling neglected until you’re a little more enthusiastic and ready to turn the heat up to a full boil.
Here are some of my tips for low maintenance chastity play. I try to make sure I do some combination of these every day when the nub is locked up. They take hardly any time, and I know they make him feel loved. They’re little things that get magnified in his mind by the cage.
Fondle his balls every day. Ideally once in the morning and once at night. No matter how busy or tired I am, I can always find two minutes in bed to do this. I don’t even have to remove the CB. Our sleep schedules are a little different. He’s a night owl and I’m a morning person, but that doesn’t stop us. When I’m going to bed I just whisper in his ear that I want to see him in the bedroom. He never says no! I fondle his poor trapped balls for a few minutes (two to five is plenty) and then say good night. He can go back to his computer after that. If I feel like kissing a bit, I can do that, but if I don’t I just tell him to lie there and keep still while I “play with my nub” I wake up before he does in the mornings too. But he never seems to mind if I wake him up by playing with his balls! Again, just a few minutes. Enough to get a groan or two out of him and then I go take my shower or get my breakfast.
Remind him of his situation. Of course he already knows he’s locked up and you have the key, but reminding him lets him know you’re thinking about him. You haven’t forgotten about him, you’re just waiting for the right time to make use of him. I’ll walk by him in the kitchen, give him a quick squeeze in front and ask “how is my nub doing? Still all locked up?” Or I might just say “being a keyholder is fun.” Or “Aren’t you lucky to have such a fabulous keyholder?” I’ve noticed that the more out-of-the-blue the comment is the bigger the impact it has on him. If he’s not really thinking about sex or expecting me to be thinking about it, mentioning his chastity jolts his libido into high gear.
Take possession of his (your!) nub. Get in the habit of referring to his cock and balls as yours. Kiss him and ask “how is my nub doing down there?” Or while sitting on the couch fast forwarding through a commercial with your Tivo, casually ask him “Are you taking good care of my nub darling? One of these days I’m sure I’ll want to play with it.” If you get in this habit, then just a few words here and there add to his excitement and keep him happy and horny.
Turn routine requests into chastity play - for example talk about it in terms of ‘points’ . Instead of asking him to pick up a gallon of milk on his way home, text him “Your keyholder wants to you pick up a gallon of milk on the way home.” Or say “a neck rub would earn you some much needed nub points.” Creating the fantasy that you are holding his release hostage to your whims is pretty powerful. Keep it fantasy and don’t abuse it (very much). Back rubs and foot rubs are nice even when I don’t feel very amorous, but they’re still physical things and he really likes it when I tie them to his chastity.
Take chastity seriously. Don’t leave the key laying around or act like it’s no big deal if he gets out before you’re ready to release him. Do surprise “inspections” to make sure he’s still locked up. Ask him if he’s tried to get out, or tried to get at the key without permission. Use a no-nonsense manner to let him know it’s important to you that he only get out of his chastity device when you want him out. Every once in a while mention you’d someday like to get a more secure device. That keeps him from starting to doubt your commitment to the game when you haven’t seriously teased him for a while. Remember that’s he’s committed 24/7. The whole idea is he can’t check out of the game until you let him, so reminding him that you’re still in it helps.
Muse about the length of his lockup. Sometimes I’ll tell him that I’ve decided to let him out the next weekend, then the next night tell him I’ve changed my mind and I don’t know when I’ll let him out. Sometimes I’ll tell him I’ve been wondering how long I should leave him locked up and just leave it at that. Tell him how you are noticing the benefits. No further information, just that I was thinking about it. I’ll ask him if he thinks he could go six months, or a year. If he asks if I’m planning to keep him locked up that long, I’ll just shrug and say “maybe.” It’s another verbal tease that takes very little energy from me but amps him up.
None of those things take much time or energy from me. They’re easy to do on days when I’m stressed or tired or just not feeling very sexual. And they keep him feeling loved and cared for. I’ve really gotten into the habit of doing them. So much that I usually keep doing them even when he isn’t locked up. That’s not really a problem, but if he wakes up to my hand on his balls and he’s not locked up, I’m not getting out of bed without finishing what I started! Of course that just makes his lockups even more delightful for both of us.
More Teasing Ideas
The big changes that you must make in yourself to make a chastity relationship work is to commit to frequently teasing him, like you no doubt did when you first dated, and to having much more frequent sex yourself.
Teasing does not need to be a time-consuming activity. There are almost an infinite number of ways that you can tease him, both physically and verbally. Every woman needs to develop her own style. You can keep things fresh by continuing to experiment. It may seem like a lot of work sometimes, but he will shower you with attention. The hardest thing will be getting that much attention again.
There are some basic teasing ideas in the 101 article above. Find more low maintenance examples for how you can tease him here:
Be physical, give him lots of kisses and hugs throughout the day. Grab his crotch.
Ask him to give you a full-body massage.
You can wear sexy clothes around him, for example miniskirts, yoga pants or whatever clothes he really likes. When you’re home you can walk around just in your underwear – I promise you he won’t be able to take his eyes off you!
Conversation takes very little energy and allows you to increase his arousal without having to do anything. Telling him what you like about his predicament, letting him know how much you appreciate what he has done to become a better spouse, partner, friend, and lover. Let him know how his being chaste turns you on, if seeing him struggle to get erect entertains you let him know. Maybe you find his penis cuter when it’s all small and locked, or you enjoy his not being able to touch himself, whatever it is communicate it. You should also not forget that all those things that used to drive you crazy like porn and ogling young girls can now be used against him. There is nothing like knowing that the chastity tube is really biting as his favourite eye candy passes by. The beauty of a good chastity device is that not only does it prevent him from getting an erection and masturbating but that the device is always working for you, and you should let him know how happy it makes you.
You can tease him about his lock-up time, for example you could say things such as “it’s so hot that you can’t touch your penis, I don’t think I will ever let you masturbate again”, “your penis looks so sexy when it’s locked, I think I’ll keep it like that for a bit longer”, “these balls don’t look full enough yet, let’s wait a bit more” – and then when you finally let him ejaculate you can follow up with “oh not much came out, I think next time you need to wait longer”. Remind him that he’d better be good if he wants to be unlocked.
Play around with his locked genitals whenever you get the chance. For example, when he sits next to you, simply squeeze or slap his balls. When locked, he will want his balls 'slapped’, not'stroked’. Use a flat hand and start slowly, building up intensity. Even better, use a bonger (massage ball with handle) or riding crop. Tell him at the start you want to reach 100. This is great teasing play because it takes a couple of minutes max and then you can say goodnight!
Or you could give him a very frustrating “blowjob” with the chastity device still attached – teasing him orally while locked will drive him crazy like nothing else.
Pinch / twist his nipples. Men’s nipples are almost 5x more sensitive than female nipples. With his cock locked, his nipples will heighten in sensitivity further. You may have even noticed they stiffen or harden more quickly or for longer than usual. Play with them by using nipple clamps, clothespins or even just by pinching and squeezing. Be careful, some locked males have been known to cum from just nipple play alone!
Give a man an orgasm and he’ll forget it in a moment – deny him the same orgasm and he’ll never stop thinking about it. You can unlock him and allow him to masturbate or give him a handjob – however, at any point (especially effective just before he is about to finish), you can “change your mind”. Kindly tell him “let’s save it for later” or “that’s all for now”. You may find that you have to ice down his penis to get back in the tube!
Tell him to go down on you while he is locked in his chastity device.
This nails it
I guess we do this differently from a lot of the couples... or certainly, from all the memes I've seen on Tumblr. Whenever we have played my husband has never begged me to unlocked him. I think it was a point of pride with him that he would stick it out as long as I wanted. Of course that led to me keeping him locked for really long times right from the start 😅. His plastic cages always broke before either of us gave in.
I guess this is more of a good advice like many of those wankers out there could imagine... Get used to a device. Be able to wear it. And than confront your partner with this. Let her/him take the key and dont be pushy on getting it back. Take a step back and relaxe. Let her chose when/if to unlock you. Dont bring up silly excuses. Might sound kinda hardcore in the beginning. But only to you and not to her. You are using this cage cos you like being kept in it. Of course you like to play with it. But many of those “I dont know how to tell my girl” are just missing this tiny and jet so simple detail: Let her choose right from the start. If you are like “let me out” after a few days - and she is not kinky enough to say “nope” right from the start - you are sending mixed signals. And thats not gonna work out. Just hold back your urges. Put it on. Hand the keys. (freeze the spare one, so you might be able to get it but not with an instant) And expect to be kept in the cage for 2-3 weeks at least. Deal with it. You’ll be fine. The fun will start afterwards... Believe me! ;-)
I haven't seen this question before but what do you do if you and Tom have a fight? My gf keeps me locked most of the time but we had an argument and I felt really stupid wearing the cage so I took it off. That made her even more mad but she won't listen to me about how stupid it makes me feel. Does Tom take his off when you're arguing or does he ask to take it off? Does he feel stupid too lol? I don't know if I can explain it. Thank you for being real about all this!
I really had to think about this question for a while. First, @that-tom-allen and I do not really have any "fights." Not that things are always perfect between us, but we manage to disagree on things without calling each other names or getting spiteful or hurtful with each other.
Second, Tom has never taken off his cage as a result of one of our disagreements. I'm sure there have been any number of times that he has not wanted to be caged when we're... not full of our usual marital bliss. But in the last 15 years since I told him that I wanted all the control over that, he has never just said "Oh, screw this" and taken it off. And now that I've had a chance to think about it, I'm really very happy (and a little impressed) about this.
If my husband and I had an argument and he took off his wedding ring and tossed it on the dresser, that would be a horrible act, meant to hurt my feelings and to symbolize that he was done with the relationship or that he would be willing for the moment to abandon what we have. I've heard of people doing this when they argue, and I think it's spiteful and childish.
I know we're becoming famous for all these meme pictures, but honestly, our life is not like this. 99% of our life is children, grandchildren, family, friends, work, household chores and maintenance, social obligation, cooking, cleaning, and all the other things that are too boring to put into a blog. Keeping my husband locked does not occupy my mind except for that 1 % of the time that we get to be intimate. But... it has become a very basic, unspoken part of our lives, like that mole on his back or wearing a wedding ring.
Tom does not wear a wedding ring because of work, but he does wear his cage for me every day... just like he's worn it for most of the past 15 years. He made a promise to me, and I am only now realizing how seriously he has taken this.
I do not know what kind of relationship that you and your girlfriend have, but maybe she's upset because when you take it off just because you're upset, it shows that you can't commit to something that she finds important. It sounds like the both of you really need to sit down and have a heart to heart about your expectations.
I can feel this anon. Happend to me somehow too. In the beginning you feel really stupid. Being locked away, given the power to someone thats mad at you.
But dont go down that path any further. I dont know how Tom did it but I guess you just gotta suck through it. Get over it. Ignore it. Dont think about it too much, cos its only in your head.
Think about what chastity and the cage is about in the first place. Its not about your cock. It really isn’t! Its meant to be about taking your cock out of the game - as a game. Yeah you might wanna be teased so you stick to the game. But dont just take it off in those moments. You are kinda making your dick a part of the fight. Thats not what is good for you.
Try to change your point of view to her perspective. You have been playing with chastity. You have had a fight. And now you chicken out of the cage? For what reason? The two things have nothing to do with each other! So you are kind throwing your dick into this fight? wtf? Makes it more complicated!
I completely understand why she is extra mad.
But back to you anon. If you are not in long term lockup like Tom is, you still feel like you got a little control. And you should have in a safe an sane matter. But you shouldnt use it for “when you feel a little weird about it”.
Think about it the other way: If you leave the cage on during a fight. What will happen next? You folks will get over the fight. And then? You arte still in it! She will think “wow he stayed in there for me” and she will recognize that you didnt make it a topic during the fight and you will be proud of yourself. No matter how you two are playing the chastity game it definitely will improve in so many ways if you stay lock throughout a fight. And if its only for her to tease you in the end or use it to make a little fun of it ...
So to wrap my post up. I can 100% feel you. Been there. Done that.
But think about it twice. Think about the benefits of not getting out of the cage after the fight has been solved. Focus on that and you (and she) will be happy with it!
My Own Chastity Story
I’ve mentioned that a few years ago my wife and I tried some chastity play for a while. It started off as “just for a couple of weeks,” and when a couple of weeks went by, we (and yes, it was a “we” decision, we’re not into any serious D/s) thought we’d go for a month. The month turned into two, then three and then six, and it ended up being almost 8 ½ months of 24/7 wear in my CB3000. Although I was unlocked for sex periodically, I was not allowed to have an orgasm during that entire time. Since it was mostly her idea in the first place – we had been looking for a kink to experiment with and that seemed to grab her fancy – I went along with any decision she made about it, just so she could get comfortable with the idea.
At first, she unlocked me a couple of times a week to have sex, and then I would clean up and we would replace the cage. After a month or so, we invested in a good strap-on harness and a good silicone dildo, and my unlockings became less frequent, several times it being four, five, or six weeks running. She prefers penetration over oral, so the harness really worked well for her. When the time came for our agreement to end, we were in the middle of some marital differences, so we put away the toys for a bit. We thought about playing once in a while, but frankly, after 8 months, going for a couple of weeks just didn’t seem quite as exciting, so we didn’t bother with it for a while.
Anyway, about seven or eight months after we had ended the last session, my wife left for a trip to visit some family for a week. I stayed home because of work (and because I enjoy my alone time anyway). So after spending the first day masturbating a few times out of boredom, I dug out the CB3k, cleaned it off and locked it on myself. Surprisingly, it didn’t take long for me to get used to it again, so I left it on for the rest of the week. When it came time to head to the airport to pick her up, I was going to remove it, but at the last minute decided to leave it on. I got the bags, we had dinner, and she didn’t discover it until we got home. She felt it against her leg, but didn’t say anything until later on when we went to bed. She then asked why I had put it on and how long I’d worn it (just for the hell of it, and all week). We talked and then made out for a few minutes, and that’s when I discovered something: she was wet. No, I don’t mean the moistness that women get when they’re aroused; I mean literally dripping down her legs with excitement.
I made love to her with my fingers and my mouth for a while, maybe 20 or 30 minutes, and then she asked me to put on the harness. I entered her, slowly at first, resting my weight on her and remembering how to angle myself for her pleasure. By this time I was rock-hard inside my cage, my balls were tight against the ring, everything straining to be free. I found my rhythm, and brought her to a tremendous climax literally within a minute. I slowed to give her time to breathe, and she indicated that I should keep going. As I continued my slow, deep thrusts, she began talking to me – something she rarely does during lovemaking – asking me how it felt to be locked up again, telling me that she missed me inside the device, and telling me how hot it made her to feel the dildo deep inside her with my hard cock inside the cage bumping into her ass. In no time at all she was coming again. And again. And again. It seemed that each time was more powerful than the last. Finally, I whispered in her ear that I didn’t want her to allow me to come that night, that I would stay locked up because it was obviously making her so hot, and she came so suddenly and so hard that she gave herself a headache. We relaxed for a few minutes and then went to sleep. Well, at least she did – I was awake for a while longer, trying to calm down.
We had things to do during the week, so we didn’t even get a chance to talk, let alone have a repeat of that first night. But finally the weekend came, and Friday night found us freshly showered and in bed, our bodies hot against each other. I reminded her that I hadn’t come in over two weeks, and in response, she placed my hand on her mound so I could again feel how wet she had become just thinking about my frustration that week. No oral tonight, she asked me to put the harness on right away, and we spent the next hour in some more serious lovemaking. Again, I noted how turned on she seemed to be, and she kept repeating that she was getting off more and more on the idea of having me locked up. And that’s when it started to come out; she whispered that she wanted to keep me locked up even longer than the last time, to not even let me out for a moment. Each time she mentioned it brought her to another climax, and by the end of the evening she was as worn out as I’d ever seen her. She went right to sleep from sheer exhaustion, while I lay awake for a while, not just from my own frustrated arousal, but also from this new development on her part. Was she really serious?
A few days later I began to get an idea of just how serious she was. We went to bed early one night, and began kissing and fondling each other, and she said that because she was tired, she only wanted me to take her with the dildo for five or ten minutes. So during our lovemaking, I asked her how serious she was about not letting me out and about going for longer than last time. Nine months? Ten? Perhaps a year? She started to respond that the idea of my agreeing to go for a year was so hot… and she climaxed right in the middle of her sentence! Oh yes, she was serious; she’d love to see me frustrated, to know that I’d be aroused and excited all the time just for her. Our “five or ten minutes” soon turned into 45, and again she fell asleep out of exhaustion. Needless to say, I was awake – again – for quite some time.
Fortunately, we managed to make time for each other a couple of days later, and I tried to keep our lovemaking slow and paced. I asked her how serious she was, and each time she kept responding that she wanted me to stay locked up for a long time. Then she asked the tough question: Did I want to know how long? I thought about it, and told her no, I didn’t want to know – I was willing to leave it completely at her discretion. Oh, how that sent her into a series of short, fast orgasms; and when she was done, she asked me to tell her again, to beg her to keep me locked up. Each time I told her that I didn’t want to come sent waves of pleasure through her like I’d never seen. She even suggested that we make a replica of my own cock, so that she’d never have a reason to allow me to be out, and I told her that we could check blowfish.com for something, since they had several that were very natural looking. She wondered how I’d feel about being “replaced”, and of course, I told her that as long as I was keeping her satisfied, it was good enough for me. Ah yes, that was the right answer, and she soon finished, exhausted and happy.
Needless to say, by the end of the week we had checked the Blowfish site and had decided on the Bent Realistic (medium) because it seemed to be the closest thing to my own natural shape and size. I spent the money for the expedited shipping, and soon found just how closely it resembled me – close enough to make her very excited and me very nervous. We couldn’t wait to try it out, though, and soon I was half proud and half jealous of this new addition. The large head stimulated her better than the dildo we had been using, and best – or maybe worst – of all, she kept saying how much it felt just like my own cock. I found that I could position it just a little lower on my hips, and before long my wife was whispering in my ear thoughts and fantasies of keeping me locked in the device for longer and longer periods, of not ever allowing me to come, of forever feeling my cage pressed against her ass while I filled her with my new silicone “friend”. And each time she whispered a new fantasy brought her another wave of pleasure, another climax, and another satisfied sigh.
We finished with her asking me to lay on my back so she could ride me. This is my favorite position because I enjoy watching her. As she pressed herself onto me, I felt the stirrings of a “release”, what I call it when my body is about to release its semen without an orgasm. I told her what was happening, and she paused and asked me to stop. It was very difficult because I’d gotten so completely turned on from pleasuring her, but I managed to hold on. When I was back in control, she told me that she didn’t even want me to release unless she gave me permission, perhaps once a month or so. She continued to move her hips on me, slowly, just enough to keep herself aroused, but not quite enough to come. She told me that she found herself even more excited this time around than the previous session, and while she couldn’t explain what the attraction was to her, it became obvious that she had developed a serious kink, perhaps even a fetish for this. As she worked herself into the last climax of the night, she confessed that the hottest thing in the world at the moment was knowing that I was caged, frustrated, and aroused just for her. She said that she was serious about not allowing me to come, and in fact, about not even allowing me out of the cage for at least six months and probably for a year, to a year and a half – right up until the summer. Could I handle it?
I don’t know.
Could I?
Could you?
LOVE this story, particularly how consensual and female-led it is. Not just another boy trying to feed his kink, but a woman (in fact a couple) getting off on her sexual empowerment. Delicious.
@aneluna824 I still remember this period of time in our relationship. This is when @mrs--edge started becoming more confident in taking over the control in our bedroom. And as you can see, even then she used to fantasize about long term lockups for me.
I think that had there been a good, stainless steel cage back then, that I'd have spent the last twenty five years permanently locked up, instead of the last five. 🔥🔥🔥
This is what many men who are into chastity are seeking. Read carefully. He didnt push her into nothing! He showed her a path. Guided her. And she explored it on her own.
Also, if you are into chastity better be comfortably caged while reading. Otherwise you wont make it until the end cos you would be jerking off to often ...
A lot of the caption meme that my husband writes lately have a theme of him being "replaced" by a bigger, thicker faux cock. Obviously, he writes about the kinds of things that are already on his mind, and he has told me about these fantasies in the past. They are kind of hot, even though I'm quite satisfied with the Vixskin that we have now, the Tex. It's not much different than he is, and in the past I have switched between them without much thought.
He ran across this post from @ladylocksluv, and something in there clicked with me, and made me realize how this kind of thing must have been playing in his head:
"We went through 7 different dildos until we found one that ideally fits my anatomy and makes me howl with pleasure. It is bigger than my husband which is slightly humiliating to him, which is what I wanted to achieve. Every time he pleasures me with it I am stretched open more than his own penis can. I love the new larger size and have become accustomed to it to the point that his own penis is no longer enough. He has in effect ruined me for himself to give me more pleasure."
While the one that we have (the Tex) is very satisfying, lately I'm starting to wonder about how it would be to have a bigger one. Not some monster sized porn star model of course, but the idea of having him wear one that is very obviously longer and thicker is pushing my own buttons. Not so much for the sexual pleasure, but to reaffirm my power and control over him in this way. It would be a very visceral way of showing him or proving to him that my control and his denial have gone beyond the point of no return. Him pleasuring me - and me showing him how much I enjoy it - would really drive home the idea that I could never go back to the old way anymore.
A way to get to know someone
In it since 3 days gonna be in it until next year. Sounds like even more fun than just for christmas ...
dont just drop hi/hello/...
Dont waste my and your time!
If you wanna text me, take a look here: https://nohello.net/ And here: https://nohello.club/ If you ignore this simple rule, I gonna ignore your message.
Fake doms fuck off
nothing to add here
a testimonial (or warning) for numbing gel 💕
ordered some lidocaine 5% and it finally came in the mail!!! bless online shopping. got sooo inspired by the numbing gel story, i just had to try it for myself
I was already edging getting myself so dumb and drippy when I used the gel, liike, probably 5-7 edges. i still have a problem with getting too close, and at this point I swear someone could just blow on my clit and that wouldve sent me over the edge
I applied a big, dime sized amount of gel on my finger and slowly circled my clit, my inner and outer labia, my opening, basically everywhere but inside my vagina. the first 20 seconds or so it got soooo hot and stingy, I would have came right then and there if I didn’t bite down my tongue to resist!!! it wasnt that bad though, and that feeling subsided as quickly as it came and it started to feel kind of cool, like going to the dentist and they numb your gums. i kept edging and circling my clit at this time using the gel as lube kind of, until I couldn’t take it anymore and gave myself a 5 minute break
15 min after the application I felt absolutely nothing. like my whole cunt wasn’t mine anymore. lifeless, nerveless flesh. i was edging so hard, tensing and grinding my hips into my fingers trying to get any sort of relief, but no relief came. it took away my orgasm.
at this point I started fucking my self with my dildo. I was going crazy, my pussy absolutely dripping with need. I fucked myself like it was my job, nothing on my mind but my need to cum. completely losing my sense of ego and self, my mind so far gone and broken that I was reduced to a dumb bitch in heat, running only on instincts. my mind just... broke. my pussy was so sloppy and wet, ready to take anything in it. if the mailman came by I would have tried to fuck him right there, I was so so so gone and stupid and desperate I would have fucked anything with a pulse.
after 30 futile minutes of trying to cum from penetration only, I gave up, defeated. I was a sweaty mess. it really solidified in me that i only exist for mens pleasure. i don’t deserve to cum. My orgasm serves no purpose, other than to entertain if men wanted me to.
I was so deep in subspace, I had to bask in my neediness and lie there for a few more minutes before I could climb out of that mental state and into reality. my labia was slowly gaining sensation now, but my clit was still a piece of numb flesh. I got on with my evening, cooking dinner and going for a run. It’s weird, it’s like I KNOW I need cum, everything about me was physically exuding sex. Face flush, eyes dialated, cunt so swollen and dripping through my panties, almost through my pants. But there was no feeling down there, and I knew that rubbing my cunt with my fingers or on my chair would be futile (but I know you would have loved to see me try)
but then my run. my fucking run. I started regaining sensation in my clit 3 miles into my route, and it was excruciatingly delicious, feeling my thighs and my shorts graze my clit with every step. I thought I was going to cum right then, at this popular running route in front of everybody. but I didn’t. I couldn’t. I didn’t want to. Because good girls don’t cum, and I am a good girl. As I was running I dropped harder into subspace than I ever have before. Panting, drooling, running with static and mantras in my head.
I finally got home and edged my brains out for god knows how long. it just felt so good to give into my pussy and my training, to turn off my mind and float. I always read these kinds of stories, thinking that it wasn’t true. Just a fantasy. It was after this experiment that I saw the truth now, which is I am verifiably an addicted, stupid edgeslut. A fucktoy. A cumdump. I can’t deny it any longer. I wasn’t smarter or better than any other girls. I succumbed to my training just like they did, all in a matter of a few weeks. im like soooo excited to see where my training will take me in a few more weeks, months, and even years!
YMMV, but I will warn you that using numbing gel for your training may rewirr your brain just like it did to me. That’s okay, though. It feels good. I’m a good girl now. And good girls make more good girls.
Thanks to this and the post I've reblogged a while back, I now have numbing gel on my clit and I'm waiting for it to kick in! It's been maybe 7 minutes and it's already loosing a lot of feeling.
Like this good girl, I edged a lot before this and now I'm so needy and don't know how I can go to sleep if numbness is all I get 😭
I read that you have your husband locked in permanent. but don't You think it would be better to unlock him once or twice a year so he has something to look forward too? maybe to tease him or even let him feel Your Devine pussy once in a while so he stays interested for You?
Whenever I've locked up my husband in the past, I never know how long it's going to be for. He agreed to give that decision over to me, and so I usually just kept him locked until I had a reason not to... usually because the stupid plastic cages would break and spoil my mood. 😂
I did not plan on this becoming a permanent situation for him when we started this time around. He had been locked for 3 or 4 months, and I had thought about unlocking him for his birthday, but things happened, and I did not have a chance. A few days later he confessed that it was super hot for him to have been expecting it, but that I hadn't done it. His confession made me excited to keep on going, and so I did. After 9 months, he said that we had passed our previous record. That just made me determined to go for an entire year. 😈
But something happened along the way. @tom--allen and I found that we were both enjoying our intimate life more than we ever did. Lovemaking became even more pleasurable, and he was always affectionate and aroused for me, with absolutely no expectations of having a release. By the time the first year was up, I reminded him that he had given me the power to make the decision, and that I was planning to keep going, even though I didn't know at that point for how much longer.
By the time the 2nd year came around, we were both still enjoying each other as much as ever, Tom was still affectionate and attentive, and I started verbalizing my hidden thoughts about never unlocking him. Tom said that I became much more "expressive" in bed, both verbally and physically. I felt like a sex goddess all the time!
When he reminded me that we had passed 2 years, it made me realize that there wasn't a need to unlock him to keep him interested, and that I honestly had grown to prefer him locked for me. I'm sure that reading this it seems stern or harsh to deny him ever being inside me again, but inside our relationship it's not like that at all. My husband has called it both gut wrenching and incredibly hot, and he wouldn't change a thing. And for me, seeing how excited he gets, it feeds my own arousal, and I enjoy being the reason that he's so hot and aroused all the time.
lol - or maybe it IS harsh and stern, but we both love it this way, and we're going to keep doing this until it stops being hot for the both of us!
Just ordered boy a new cage to add to his collection,should be here next Wednesday before we go away. And also i have ordered him a new dog tag and a electro unit with a metal butt plug and sounding bar. Cant wait to try them all.
The cage came today and boy sent me some pics,its really nice,it has 3 screws at the top with spikes to make an erection more painful and a ball splitter. Unfortunately the tens unit came and the leads dont work but the big butt plug i got separately works soi xant wait until Thursday when im off work.👿
I love this cage,it has a ball splitter and screws on the top to make an erection even more painful and its very shiny too lol.
Boy in his new cage with a close up of the screws on the top.
Lovely Cage
This is my favourite cage to put boys little cock in.🖤
Thank you for sharing where you got this. Have ordered this along with another from their site
Glad i could help.
Wish i were as lucky as boy to wear the cock cage. God knows it needs punished. Love it.🖤
I love to tease his little cock and watch it try to get hard in this cage,and then i turn the screws so they press into his skin. His pain makes me smile.😉💙
Nice cage. Seems to do everything! 😍
Its a lovely training tool.
This looks *very* interesting! Have you told us the make and model of this device? (If you did, I must have missed it) I would like to find out more and perhaps order one myself. Thanks.
