Anita Harley

a place where I can vent & hopefully inspire. I hope you find happiness everyday. You're never alone, & you are loved & important. never forget that

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You’re the only person you’ll ever have. And if I can say one thing... don’t ever rely on anybody else.

They can only help you, not fix you, not cure you. You only have yourself. So take advantage of that, don’t lose yourself in someone else and also lose yourself in that process.

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Put your struggles into comforting words as much as you can. This is the purpose of why I write. The biggest mistake you can make is using the wrong words; you can break yourself. That’s why you repair your mind with the right ones.

A subtle reminder to not be so hard on yourself, life is a constantly teaching us its lessons.

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Lately I've been writing about the things I don't like about myself as a way to try and cope, but its not really helping anymore. I wrote these both back to back. I feel like I ramble too much so I'll make this caption short. Remember you're not alone. I love you and I care. Love Always, Anita Harley 💜

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Today has been a weird day... It has been a year since I lost someone close to me because cancer fucking sucks 🖕 I hate how I feel emotions more strongly than other people, and sometimes I feel like it would be better if I could wake up with Amnesia and forget about a lot of things at least temporarily. Remember to love always, Anita Harley 💜

[poetic-harley]

Hello again

I hope everyone is having a nice day/evening/afternoon/night/etc :) If you're not, I hope things get better. I hope you're okay, you're going to be okay. You are strong, you are beautiful, you are smart, you are important, and you are loved.

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"If only younger me knew that in a way she was writing to older me...I wonder what all she would have said."

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I've been going through a lot lately and I thought about the saying that life throws you curve balls and came up with this. No matter what life throws at you, some how you can find a way to make it through. Keep searching for a light and chase it. Sending love and positivity to everyone and I hope you're all doing well. Love Always, Anita Harley

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Know

Know you are loved know someone cares know you are beautiful know you are strong know you are not alone know this too shall pass know life isn’t always fair know is okay to break down know you will rise again know someone will listen know it will be okay someday know it’s okay not to be okay

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Remember

Remember to breathe Remember to stay hydrated Remember to eat Remember to sleep Remember to take care of yourself Remember your mental health comes first Remember you are loved Remember someone cares Remember you are not alone Remember you are strong

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Good hearts have felt pain, however they choose to stay good, and that’s what courage is. Bad hearts have also felt pain, however they choose to stay bad, and that’s what courage isn’t. Pain can either make or break you, you choose if it kills you or makes you stronger.

[poetic-harley]

this is something I came up with about a year ago. I felt like I was just failing at everything, that I wasn’t good at anything. I realized that “fail” and “fall” become the same word when you connect the dots of the “i”. We all fall, nothing is a failure, a “failure” is merely a lesson we learn. And I believe when we start looking at fails as lessons then when we fall we can pick ourselves back up again. I dont know if this makes any sense but I thought I would share it with you all.

Love always, Anita Harley

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Art is the only way we could make something beautiful out of pain and heartache.

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"Voldemort" is the first track off of With Confidence's "Better Weather" Album. Despite the storms we go through in life, and all the better weather we wait desperately for, we dont have to face the chaos alone. No matter how alone you feel, someone is out there somewhere who cares and gets it. I know at times we all feel like we are worthless, useless, like nobody cares, that we're alone. But we're never truly alone. I have trouble convincing myself of this sometimes... I hope you're all having a good day/night/evening/afternoon/etc wherever you are. And if you're not then I hope it gets better, and I'll listen if noone else will. -Love Always, Anita Harley

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Somehow I can get the words on the page to relieve the pressure in my mind.

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This is a quote by a dear friend of mine. When you are happy, it seems thats when people come after you the most. Some people are so hateful. And I still don't understand how someone can hate on someone who smiles so much. If people are happy, let them be happy. Hate is such a strong word. There is so much hate in the world, and if we could replace the hate with love and positivity imagine how much better the world could be. To ask for a world full of nothing but peace is impossible. But for a few people or just one person to be positive and be like a light in the dark. Imagine the other lights you can ignite with kindness and love.

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This song means a lot to me. Paradise Fears have helped me get through some tough times, and their music never fails to either boost my mood or make me cry when I feel like I need a good cry. I was blessed to see them live last year and it was honestly one of the best nights of my life. It's a struggle for me to put everything I want to say into words that make sense. If they see this I just hope they know how important they are and how much they have and are helping people. 💙 Each and every single one of you are loved, You matter, You're important, you belong, and know you are not alone no matter how much it feels like it. People care, people will listen. I care & I will listen. -Love Always, Anita Harley