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he/him 20 ftm, polyam, bi

[clownf-cker-deactivated20230427]

hello welcome to an intro on polyam relationships:

all members are romantically and/or sexually involved

both blue and green are NOT romantically/sexually involved however both blue and green ARE romantically/sexually with red. blue and green could be in a platonic relationship, acquaintances or strangers.

now you understand that.

all of these are polyam too...

no matter how many partners a person has or how open their relationships are - they are polyam.

and as long as it consensual and healthy -it’s valid.

[hazel2468]

Anti-Polyam attitudes that center around “It’s just cheating, but the other person knows about it” SO clearly come from people who have no understanding of why cheating is bad.

Cheating isn’t bad because you had sex with someone else. Cheating is bad because you violated the terms of your relationship. Cheating is bad because you violated your partner’s trust. That’s why things other than sex can be cheating- it’s why there’s emotional cheating.

Cheating is bad because it is violating your partner’s trust. It is bad because you and your partner(s) decided on something, trusted one another, and you said “fuck them and their trust”. THAT is why it is bad.

Polyamory is not cheating. In polyamory, everyone knows about everything and everyone. Everyone consents. There is communication. If not everyone is aware and consents, then it’s fucking cheating. There’s a damn difference.

There’s also the “Polyamory is bad because you’re having sex with someone who isn’t your one true love” which… I could go on all day about how fucking stupid that is, but same principle.

In honor of Pride month- stop shitting on polyamory and polyam people. And stop telling us that we’re all cheaters, because if you say that, you’re coming from a place of totally misunderstanding why cheating is bad. And, spoilers, cheating isn’t bad because of the sex.

[musings-from-mars]

“If she’s your girl then why she-” we’re polyamorous. she’s our girl. kiss me bro

[polyamory4life]

[polyamzeal]

[rattymlm]

*taps the mic* gentlemen……holding boys waists…that’s all

[polyamboyz]

My bf is going to work at a summer camp a province away and if he likes his fellow councillors I'm so hype for him to have a summer romance if the fates will it. Summer is the perfect time for new love.

[nonbineraryitinerary]

Reblog if you're polyamorous. I'm trying to see something

[angelviolence]

polyam cowboy be like 'howdy partners'

[polyamzeal]

[polyamhipster]

[coffeeshib]

WOMEN—

[secretfan03]

The comments on the video crack me up 😂

[polyamory4life]

[andyboff]

💜💚💛  feat. @llavlis‘s characters

[polyamboyz]

I just wanna be the middle spoon and drift to sleep with my boyfriends under three blankets

[fuckin-feral]

Being polyamorous isn't for everyone, but that doesn't make you any less valid for being polyamorous.

Being monogamous isn't for everyone, but that doesn't make you any less valid for being monogamous.

[queer-charb-deactivated20221202]

hate that polyam relationships are seen as a compromise in fandom spaces and not as like an actual real thing that exists lmao. ship polyam ships because we're cool! not because you cant decide whos kissing who