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Quer incluir pessoas não-binárias na língua portuguesa? Priorize o respeito à linguagem pessoal!
Um texto lembrando que “incluir pessoas não-binárias na língua“ significa também lembrar que somos pessoas com nossos próprios conjuntos de linguagem escolhidos por nós porque são os que nos representam melhor. ↓
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Whalegender/Genderwhale
A whalegender/genderwhale person can be someone whose gender:
• It's related/connected with whales.
• It's influenced by whales (by the sounds they make, by the way they swim, etc).
• It can be described as "A gender that is like a whale", or as a gender characterized by qualities associated with whales. Examples: "My gender is big/huge like a whale", "My gender is majestic like a whale", etc.
Moodboard: bi trans masc allison argent
ppl who oppose gender affirming care for kids are nuts like the extent of medical intervention for trans kids is maybe puberty blockers but they’ll still be like “SO UR SAYING WE SHOULD LET TODDLERS HAVE TOP SURGERY???????” barbara toddlers do not have a top to surgery
Saw someone asking "so do you endorse giving puberty blockers to five year olds?"
Friend, a five year old should not have puberty to block. If they do that's called precocious puberty and is the original reason puberty blockers were invented. If a five year old is going through puberty I absolutely endorse them being given puberty blockers
i'd rather give aid, accommodations, and support to someone faking a disability than neglect a disabled person because they "might be a faker".
Jeep/Sciles Metaphor
Because I’ve seen a really stupid anti-Scott “meta” post about Stiles’s dumb jeep, I thought I might as well fix it. Someone has to.
Yes, the jeep is a metaphor for Sciles, but more than that, it’s a metaphor for Stiles’s relationship with Scott. What we see in the slow deterioration of the jeep is all based on Stiles’s actions. It breaks down when he and Liam follow Theo into the woods (and lie to Scott about it), it’s falling apart because he keeps it together with duct tape instead of actually fixing it. He doesn’t put the effort into it to replace things or fix them the way they should be fixed, and the jeep’s damage builds up over time.
In S5, this all comes to a head. Stiles is the reason that the jeep/his friendship with Scott is in jeopardy specifically because Stiles trusted Theo. Not liked him, he never liked Theo, but he sure has hell trusted him. Stiles volunteered to go on a stakeout with Theo alone and then opened up about his vulnerabilities, especially his greatest fear about losing Scott’s friendship above anything else in his life. For a boy who rarely opens up to anyone, telling Theo of all people his greatest weakness was absolutely trust, and as a direct result of his actions and decisions, they were attacked by Parrish and the jeep wrecked.
After the scene in the rain where Stiles once again lies to Scott and doesn’t tell him what happened about Theo, the jeep breaks down. It’s a symbol of how far he’s let his relationship with Scott crumble. The metaphor is further reinforced when he uses the bloody wrench (a symbol of his lies about Donovan) to smash his own windshield. It is his actions destroying his jeep/his relationship with Scott, it’s his own lies and the blood on his hands.
Now that we’re seeing him repairing the jeep and repairing his relationship with Scott, Roscoe the Metaphor Jeep is still swinging. It runs again, still leaking, still not completely fixed because Stiles still hasn’t apologized for what happened or how he hurt Scott. This includes the lying about Donovan, the blaming Scott for the sheriff’s injuries while Scott was dead, and the violent abuse Scott suffered at his hands. They’ve made steps, things are slowly healing as evidenced by the fact the jeep runs again, but it’s a long way from fixed. Stiles, as always, is seen as the one repairing his jeep because he’s the one who damaged it, is responsible for the problems with it, and who also needs to put in the work to repair his friendship.
When the jeep runs out of gas while Scott is driving the jeep (a clear symbol of Scott always taking the lead in moving their relationship forward and how Stiles is finally learning how to balance out their relationship instead of always trying to take control), it’s because Stiles once again didn’t put the time or effort into fixing everything (the gas gauge) before their trip. The way they finally make it to their destination is because Stiles finally told Scott the truth (at the gas station). After that, the jeep doesn’t run into any more problems for the entire episode. It’s a start, but to really fix the jeep/Sciles again, Stiles still has to do some more hard work.
The Alterhuman Wiki
This Wiki is dedicated to storing information on alterhuman labels; friendly to both veterans and newbies alike! We are hosted on Miraheze and can be found here. As this is a new wiki, the rules, page template, and amount of pages is still a major undertaking and work-in-progress.
The alterhuman community is a large one- as such, this is no small job and could use as much help as can get. We aim to be inclusive, unbiased, and informative for all, regardless of how they experience their identity or how long they've been in the community.
This Tumblr blog is meant to be an easy way for members to get updates, ask questions, and contact the admin. I will also likely be storing some alterhuman terms on this blog for easy access/archival. DMs are closed, so please do send an ask to contact me! In the future, I will likely be looking for mods.
Want to help out? The bio of this blog contains all useful links you may need. Please be courteous and respectful towards other members. :)
1. Franz Ferdinand is assassinated. This is widely considered the final straw that kickstarted WWI.
2. J. R. R. Tolkien is drafted. He survives the war but returns home with a lot of trauma.
3. The Lord of the Rings trilogy is lent a strong degree of emotional realism because Tolkien is able to write from his own experiences. As a result, LotR becomes a cult hit, especially with the youth.
4. As the LotR trilogy reaches ever-higher peaks of popularity, certain people become so deeply enamored with the world of hobbits and elves and orcs that they have a sort of awakening - they begin recognizing themselves as elves (and other nonhuman creatures).
5. In the early 1970s, the Elf Queen's Daughters is formed. This is the earliest known nonhuman group (which does not mean it's the foundation of the nonhuman community - several groups later appear independently of the EQD, including AHWw, Alfandra, and Always Believe).
6. As the EQD grows, offshoots and overlapping groups are formed, one of which is the Silver Elves. After talking to the Silver Elves, a person named R'ykandar Korra'ti starts a mailing list in 1990 called the Elfinkind Digest.
7. The Elfinkind Digest attracts nonhumans of all kinds. Soon it becomes hard to talk about the community as a whole, and, instead of saying "elvenkind, orckind, dragonkind, etc.," a person named Elezar begins using the word "otherkind."
8. For unknown reasons - perhaps a typo, perhaps for ease of pronunciation, perhaps due to a misunderstanding -, some people begin using the variant spelling 'otherkin' and by 1998 it has overtaken the original spelling. Years go by and misconceptions appear. Rather than understanding the word as "a kind other than humankind" people begin to understand it as "kin as in family."
9. The nonhuman communities remain small and spread out during the era of forums and personal websites, but with the rise of popular social media, and your posts being broadcast to hundreds or thousands or millions of other users, the communities see a sudden and rapid growth.
10. With this rapid growth, there's no way to teach every newcomer the history of the community. A lot of people are completely unaware that the community even has history. Soon, discussions show up about how "you can't have kintypes outside your race/ability/sexuality/gender" and "kin just means relating. You know, like family."
11. At the same time, SJWs and anti-SJWs are waging a war. A subset of anti-SJWs decide to target otherkind and use every tactic to harass, mock, and belittle us. One of these tactics was "making up a slur," vaguely inspired by the t-slur, according to some. And thus the word 'kinnie' was born.
12. TikTok becomes the new hot platform. Kids and childish souls flock to it and bring their discourse along for the ride. The words continue to mutate and newcomers continue to be unaware of the history and baggage of certain words. Not knowing it as a rightwing term, they refer to themselves as kinnies. Not knowing the 'other kind than humankind' origin, they consider 'kin' to be something you just relate to.
On Alterhumanity and Neurodivergence
To start, my connection to otherkin is purely psychological. I do not think spiritual otherkin will relate to this, and that’s okay. Or perhaps they will, and that’s okay as well.
I occassionally see rhetoric that states variations of “You are not otherkin, you just experience dissociation. You only feel disconnected from humanity because you’re autistic, or because you’re delusional, etc etc.” And the truth is, yes! Sort of. The feelings that produce my strong connection with church grims and the umbrella labels of ghostkin and cryptidkin are driven by my autism, lingering psychosis, and strong dissociation. That doesn’t make it any less real. My autism, psychosis, and dissociation are REAL. They have had a tremendous impact on my life and the way I interact with others. And I highly doubt they will dissipate any time soon.
Alterhumanity is an embracement of that fact. It’s finding joy in my struggles. It’s finding a community after spending years believing I was inherently flawed. A community of outcasts. It’s poetry in action.
I don’t believe I was a church grim in a past life, nor do I particularly believe that my soul is that of a church grim. Rather it is a perfect manifestation of my identity and experiences. I feel distinctly canine just as strongly as I feel like a man. Well, man(?) but my gender is as complex as my alterhumanity.
This was a bit of a ramble and I’m cutting it before I entirely lose my stream of thought. I hope someone resonated with this.
Okay, granted, it’s been a while since I’ve seen “all trans readers like one kind of fic, and no trans readers ever like another kind of fic, so it is Transphobia when you write the Wrong Kind.”
…but it hasn’t been that long since I’ve seen someone quietly wonder if they’re a Bad Trans Person for having preferences.
So it’s never a bad time to say: different people have different needs, and it’s okay to be fulfilled by different kinds of stories!
(heck, the same person might have different needs at different points in their own life, and that’s okay too)
[image ID: a comic. it shows two people talking to the viewer. both are wearing tops with the colors of the trans flag
first person says: “I’m a trans person who likes fanfiction!”
second one says: “I am also a trans person who likes fanfiction!”
first person looks excited as they bring their hands together near their cheek, almost dreamily, and continues: “I like it when fic interprets a character as trans, in a realistic way. It makes me feel seen and represented!”
second person is extending a hand as if to defend themself, and says: “I don’t want to read realistic fic about a character being trans! It brings up too many thoughts about painful personal experiences.”
on the next panel, their roles reverse, and the first person looks defensive and almost apologetical as they say: “I don’t want to read fic with unrealistic magical genderbending. It’s just depressing as a contrast to how serious and complex those issues are in my life.”
the second person looks dreamily on as they say: “I love fic about unrealistic magical genderbending! It’s a fun way to play with those issues and ideas, without getting so real that it hits too close to home!”
they then give each other an one-armed hug, both pointing at the other in a companiable way. first person says: “… Your preferences are cool and reasonable and totally valid.” second person replies: “So are yours! And you should be able to find the things you like.” first person answers: “Right back at you! Even when those things don’t work for me!”
second person finishes up, adding: “Because different individual trans people can have different tastes and needs, and that’s okay!”. end ID]
All I want to do is write this scene where one character treats another character gently and the other one is just totally undone by it in a “this gentleness upsets me far more than all the traumatizing things that have happened to me in this entire story because the suffering was pretty much expected whereas this is just…outside of my comfort zone” and somehow this is difficult.
YO can I get this but also with a side of “character being gentled starts to break down finally beginning to process how fucked up their past treatment actually was because holy shit they’re so close to tears over someone being so NICE to them, AND being reluctant to go into it with the character being gentle bc they’re afraid they’ll sound pathetic”?
The gentle character is terrified that they are doing something terribly wrong because the hair-stroking or hugging or whatever seems to be making the other character SO uncomfortable, but when they apologize and stop, the other character actually grabs their hand to keep them from going away.
And is not sure if they want it to continue or not because the kindness is making them break down and they’re not sure they’re ready to be so vulnerable (read: did not plan to ever be vulnerable again, like EVER) and so they’re acting really weird and maybe moody but also needy. But also trying NOT to look needy.
They are convinced to the bottom of their soul that this neediness will drive the other character away and must be hidden at all costs, but also it would be so nice and also totally impossible but it would be really nice if it was possible for the other character to see that neediness and… not be revolted by it?
increased su she screentime got me thinking about that ‘su she looks like jiang cheng and wen chao’s lovechild’ post again
bonus unenthusiastic dad jc
a nice… calm…? boat ride…
froggy xuechao masterpost. this lil concept was fortunate enough to have TWO people draw it outside of me!
bonus:
[id: four chibis and a bonus doodle of xue yang from mo dao zu shi and wen chao, who is a little red frog in his usual outfit. in the first image, which was drawn as a gift, xue yang is happily holding a placid frog chao. beside them is the phrase ‘have a nice day’. in the second, xue yang is holding frog chao up to his face. they are sharing a kiss, frog prince style. in the third, a smiling xue yang is placing a grumpy frog chao atop his head. in the fourth, which is more elaborate, the two are seeking shelter from the rain under some large leaves. xue yang is hugging his knees to his chest, and his expression is slightly concerned. frog chao, still on his head, looks tired, with his tongue sticking out. the bonus doodle features xue yang, with bat wings, enjoying a lollipop as a very happy frog chao still camps out on his head. /end id.]
Alternatives To Sleeping in Coffins
An Illustrated Guide For Vampires
1. Privacy Tent
2. Antique Chinese Wedding Bed
3. Victorian Box Bed
4. Canopy Bed
5. Full Body Wearable Blanket + Novelty Halloween Mask of Choice
6. Hyperrealistic Black Bear Sleeping Bag (with built in ‘Do Not Disturb’ feature)
7. Tinfoil Bodysuit (For maximized UV protection)
8. Blackout Curtains You Fucking Vampiric Dumbass
in conclusion why in fuck’s name are you sleeping in coffins to begin with you utter shitmuppets
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