Poly Role Models

Spotlighting the perfectly-flawed, wonderfully unique people and relationships that make up polyamory! -- Poly Role Models is Updated Weekly Every Wednesday 8pm EST -- Poly Origin Stories and Cautionary Poly: Teachable Moments in Polyamorous Relationships Update on Alternating Sundays 8PM EST

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Back in June, I discussed how race and polyamory intersect as part of Dating Kinky's event "It's Not Cheating! It's Ethical (& Consesual) Non-monogamy". (https://datingkinky.com/not-cheating/) The talk, which went for almost an hour and a half, was based on my book Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. (tinyurl.com/LNCBBook) The session went really well and was packed with lots of useful information. The same is true of the dozen other sessions that made up the event. I'm offering access to my full discussion and the entire event (25+ hours of total content) at a 25% discount** when you buy it from me directly. In fact, ---FOR THE FIRST 10 PEOPLE--- who reach out to me, I'll discount the cost even further (33%). DM me here, IG or Twitter (@PolyRoleModels) or email me ([email protected]) for details or if you want access to my talk alone for a smaller cost. Keep your eyes open because I'll be speaking again at Dating Kinky's next event on Saturday September 12th! **Consideration given for financial hardship

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HEY EVERYBODY!!

READ ALL OF THIS!!

I see a lot of y'all want to support Black Content Creators. Meanwhile, a lot of the bestselling non-fiction books on anti-racism are still by white authors and a lot of the inclusive fiction books go tragically unnoticed.

Let's adjust that. Read the image above that describes how to provide real support to me as an author. I've got 8.5K Followers on IG and roughly the same on Facebook and Tumblr. If even a quarter of those followers threw NEW support towards any or all of my three books (in the way that the image describes) it would be life changing for the creators involved.

In 2018, I released the award-winning Love's Not Color Blind, an anti-racism book that focuses on #polyamory but can be easily applied to any group, relationship, event, or organization. It stands as the only book that examines the how race and polyamory intersect but still gets left off of resource lists written for and by well-meaning white folks. Change that.

In 2018 and 2019, respectively, @polyamorouslibrarian and I self-published the first two books in the For Hire #superhero series. Operator and Audition focus on the superpowered adventures of #queer, #polyamorous, #BlackWomen. The superhero genre is full of books by white men who cater directly to white, cis, hetero, male power fantasies. On the other hand, For Hire is written by a pair of queer, polyamorous authors who made sure to PAY queer, Black, and #Trans readers in order to provide authentic voices to our characters. Being self-published means that a lot of traditional avenues are unavailable to us. Help us counteract that.

As an added incentive to helping our work, I'm dedicating ALL of my personal profits from the sale of For Hire: Audition (which stars a Black trans woman) to @TheOkraProject (a collective that provides meals to the Black Trans community).

Here's where you can find my books:

Love's Not Color Blind - tinyurl.com/LNCBBook

For Hire: Operator - tinyurl.com/ForHireMag1

For Hire: Audition - tinyurl.com/ForHireMag2

Here's where you can find my books if you don't want to buy from Amazon:

Love's Not Color Blind - https://thorntreepress.com/loves-not-color-blind/

For Hire: Operator (ebook) - https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/903580

For Hire: Audition (ebook) - https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/988847

THANK YOU!!!

Poly Role Models

HEY EVERYBODY!! READ ALL OF THIS!! I see a lot of y'all want to support Black Content Creators. Meanwhile, a lot of the bestselling non-fi

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11 Books for Getting Started with Polyamory and Non-Monogamy

Search polyamory and you’ll see the term partnered with words like “sexual revolution” and “on the rise” in several news pieces on the subject. Surely, there’s m…

Honored to be mentioned on this awesome list!

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In 2020 and 2021, Alana Phelan and Kevin Patterson will be releasing two non-fiction books centered around polyamorous true stories.

The first book is set around a feature of Kevin’s Poly Role Models blog called “Cautionary Polyamory: Teachable Moments in Non-monogamous Relationships. In it will be stories of mishaps that made a huge impact on how polyamory was practiced and what was learned from the experience.

The second book will focus on happier stories that could only exist in a polyamorous context. Meaning stories including partner or polycule dynamics that would prove unsuitable or unreasonable within a monogamous relationship.

If you have a story that would fit either of these categories, we’d love to hear from you. Contact us at [email protected] and give us a brief (100 words or less) synopsis of your experience. If we select your synopsis, we’ll schedule a short interview to get the whole story, pay you $25 for your time, and send you a copy of the book when it releases!

Thank you!

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Deviant Life #43

FIRST / PREVIOUS / NEXT

We’re back! I’ve missed y’all!

For those who care what’s going on with me, due to health problems I have left New York and returned to my birth state of Georgia to be closer to my family and support network. I’ve been staying with family in Gaineville (GA, not FL) while getting some extensive dental work done (an average of two dentist visits a week…so much fun) and…

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I wanted to spend a couple minutes talking about how things went before, during, and after the keynote at Poly Living 2020 this past weekend.

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Check out my books: Love's Not Color Blind (https://tinyurl.com/LNCBBook) and the For Hire Series w/Alana Phelan (https://tinyurl.com/ForHireMag1) and (https://tinyurl.com/ForHireMag2)

Back me on Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/PolyRoleModels) to support my work, to get an early look at my video content, and to ask me more questions that I'll make into videos just like this one.

Thank you!

https://youtu.be/n8YNBSNL9Yo

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I wanted to do one BIG wrap up about my appearance on the Tamron Hall Show. I had a lot of takeaways and I felt like I should share the highs and the lows! **** Check out my books: Love's Not Color Blind (https://tinyurl.com/LNCBBook) and the For Hire Series w/Alana Phelan (https://tinyurl.com/ForHireMag1) and (https://tinyurl.com/ForHireMag2) 

Back me on Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/PolyRoleModels) to support my work, to get an early look at my video content, and to ask me more questions that I'll make into videos just like this one. 

Thank you!

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This Couple Is In An Open Marriage and Why They Love It - Tamron Hall Show

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SO... HUGE and exciting news for the non-monogamous community!!!

On Thursday, 1/23 @10am EST, (yes, this Thursday), Kevin A. Patterson of Poly Role Models, Antoinette Patterson, Pace, and Chrissy Holman were on the Tamron Hall show on ABC/Disney, talking about polyamory and open relationships.

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Promote Kevin’s Work!

tinyurl.com/ForHireMag1

tinyurl.com/ForHireMag2

tinyurl.com/LNCBBook

Patreon.com/PolyRoleModels

PolyRoleModels.tumblr.com

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Tamron Homepage - Tamron Hall Show

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Thursday Morning This is Happening! SO… HUGE and exciting news for the non-monogamous community!!! On Thursday, 1/23 @10am EST, (yes, this Thursday), Kevin A. Patterson of @polyrolemodels​, Antoinette Patterson, Pace, and Chrissy Holman will be on the Tamron Hall show on ABC/Disney, talking about polyamory and open relationships. Yes, it’s a live show. EXCITING! They will be talking to the four of us about what our polyamory looks like, and how we relationship in this dynamic. This outlet seems highly sympathetic, which is both rare and gorgeous. This is a nationally syndicated talk show with over a million viewers. This is a huge deal for our community, and we hope you’ll join us in destigmatizing and normalizing non-monogamy… but we need your help.
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Here’s How You Can Help! 1. Tune in to the show! We are LIVE on Thursday, 1/23 @ 10am EST. Find your channel or stream here: https://www.tamronhallshow.com/ 2. Share this information on your social media and with your email lists. Wrangle all your non-monogamous friends across Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube, and other channels, and let them know where to tune in, and how they can also help. I’ve provided sample copy below, so edit at will, but make sure you use the provided hashtags and promote Kevin’s work (links below). Start conversations where you can. 3. Help us moderate the comments sections across the Tamron Hall social media channels (listed below for your convenience). The show has covered non-monogamy before, and as expected, there are some not- so- positive comments. How do we combat stigma and judgment? With accurate information! Your lived experience matters here. If you’re good at keeping a cool head and want to educate some misinformed people, the comments sections across the Tamron Hall show channels are a great place to help. In addition to promoting Kevin’s work, (links below), tagging his pages (@polyrolemodels), share your own experiences. I’ll reply to this email with links once I’m back home and I see social mentions of our appearance. Thank you so very much for your time and energy! Let’s normalize non-monogamy!
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Tamron Hall Show Social Media: https://www.facebook.com/TamronHallShow/ https://www.instagram.com/tamronhallshow/ https://twitter.com/tamronhallshow/ https://www.youtube.com/tamronhallshow
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We’re Back!!!

For Hire: Audition is finally available as a Paperback and an eBook!!!

Like we did with Operator, we’re hosting a release party at famous Amalgam Comics and Coffeehouse (2578 Frankford Ave. in Philadelphia) on December 4th 6pm.

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Kevin A. Patterson and Alana Phelan are back with the second book in the For Hire series, Audition. This time our story follows Vanessa Copeland and Camille "B-Girl" Baston. Vanessa is a young barista who's lost her way. She's got powers she doesn't want to use and a dream she can't see through. B-Girl is veteran superhero with a career that never really got off the ground. Together they'll see if they can find fulfillment in a world determined to deny it.

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Boundaries, Agreements, and Rules, oh my!

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I don’t know who needed to hear this today, but you deserve happiness <3 TikvaWolf.com

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Just a heads up: Polyamorous folks aren’t afraid of commitments. They make multiple commitments. #blackandpoly #dispellingmyths

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Less than a week to support our next queer polyamorous superhero novel: tinyurl.com/FHAudition

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If you’ve got multiple friends and you love them despite how different they all are...you already know how #polyamory works. #blackandpoly #dispellingmyths

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Less than a week to support our next queer polyamorous superhero novel: tinyurl.com/FHAudition

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Vanessa can process numbers as fast as a calculator. When a D-list superhero spots her using her powers, Vanessa gets a chance to do something more for herself and her city. Too bad it lands her between a fame-hungry has-been and the local mob.

Join Alana Phelan (The Polyamorous Librarian) & Kevin Patterson (Poly Role Models and author of Love’s Not Color Blind) for the second book in the For Hire series, “Audition”.

Support the crowdfund now with perks like early ebooks, custom artwork, and more! tinyurl.com/FHAudition

[kimchicuddles]

Vanessa can process numbers as fast as a calculator. When a D-list superhero spots her using her powers, Vanessa gets a chance to do something more for herself and her city. Too bad it lands her between a fame-hungry has-been and the local mob.

Join Alana Phelan (The Polyamorous Librarian) & Kevin Patterson (Poly Role Models and author of Love’s Not Color Blind) for the second book in the For Hire series, “Audition”.

Support the crowdfund now with perks like early ebooks, custom artwork, and more! tinyurl.com/FHAudition

[kimchicuddles]

Vanessa can process numbers as fast as a calculator. When a D-list superhero spots her using her powers, Vanessa gets a chance to do something more for herself and her city. Too bad it lands her between a fame-hungry has-been and the local mob.

Join Alana Phelan (The Polyamorous Librarian) & Kevin Patterson (Poly Role Models and author of Love’s Not Color Blind) for the second book in the For Hire series, “Audition”.

Support the crowdfund now with perks like early ebooks, custom artwork, and more! tinyurl.com/FHAudition

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We’re super excited to get this book finished and out to you!!!