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Feel free to unfollow me right now if you believe itās okay to endanger your house cat or the local native fauna it absolutely will killĀ by allowing it outside unsupervised/off lead.
Outdoor cats have a lifespan of 2-5 years. Indoor cats regularly live 15+, even getting up to 20+ sometimes. Unsupervised indoor-outdoor cats often donāt make it past 5 and the ones that do are a very lucky exception. Why?
They get hit by cars. They get attacked by other animals (predators or other pets like dogs) including other cats. They eat things that are toxic to them. They get killed by other humans. They contract diseases like FIV and FelV.
Even if your cat DOES live longer than 5 years, cats that go outside are responsible for the deaths of billions of birds and other small fauna per year. There have been studies done on this. Itās not people pulling stuff out of their asses, itās something scientists literally studied and reported results on. Donāt believe me? GoogleĀ ādo cats kill wildlifeā and have a read. Theyāre on the IUCNās list of worst invasive species and have contributed to the extinctionĀ of 60+ species, and they continueĀ to cause a problem for other threatened species of small animals.
If you think itās okayĀ to expose your cat to these hazards and potentially cut its lifespan by more than half, if you think itās okayĀ to allow your cat to kill native fauna to indulge itāsĀ ānatural instinctsā instead of, I donāt fucking know, playing with it with toys literally designed to allow it to safelyĀ indulge those instincts, then you have no business following me.
Iām not here to indulge your whimsy about how catsĀ āneedā to be outside unsupervised to be stimulated and lead a happy life- I can assure you, they donāt. There are p l e n t y of enrichment devices and structures people can buy or make to ensure that their cats lead happy, full lives indoors to the ripe old age they are supposed to lived to.
You also have the option of lead training your cat if you really believe they need to go out. This is something that proponents ofĀ ālet cats go outsideā ignore almost completely. They somehow believe that itās all or nothing- either the cat lives 100% indoors without ever seeing sunlight OR itās let outside without supervision where it can be injured, killed, or cause harm to the environment. Those arenāt the only choices. Cats adapt to leads very easily. They donāt like it the first couple of times, usually, but also usually when they figure out lead=outside, they get over it and the best of both worlds gets to happen- your cat remains safely under your supervision where it cannot come to or deliver harm, and it gets to go outside.
TL;DR Letting your house cat outside unsupervisedĀ is extremely dangerous both for your cat and the local wildlife and people arguing otherwise can see themselves out the door because Iām not about people endangering animals out of willful ignorance. You, along with every other pet owner out there, have a responsibility to protect your pets to the best of your abilities, and choosing not to do so in some misguided attempt to indulge their whims is poor animal husbandry. Any argument to the contrary is just an excuse to continue doing things which put animals in danger.
Your arguments sound very professional. Good for you being able to stay calm and argued your point so well.
Double on the unfollowing me if you have an outdoor cat.
Additionally if you do want your cat to go outside, you can buy ācat cageā installations and have them span your yard! It looks like this (pictures of our backyard):
We have this span your 4x6 meter backyard and is attached to the house directly. This enables the cats to go outside when they want without going off your property. And itās nice to sit with them!
Here they call this aĀ ācatioā and itās becoming more popular as a way to allow your cats outside time without having to directly supervise them, and they are GREAT.
Hereās one not attached to the house:
Hereās some from the outside view:
There are smaller versions too!
Catios and outside cat runs/perches are a fantastic way to give your feline access to the outdoors while still keeping them safe.
Serious question, because I agree with all of this but we have a naughty cat.
If our cat slips out when we open the door, and we canāt catch her, what should we do? We live in a place with a LOT of wildlife. She normally comes back in within an hour (she gets mad at us for āletting her outsideā) but obviously we donāt want that to some day not be the case, and we want her to stop bringing us presents. Because gross and also not good for the environment/ecosystem.
Do we lead-train her and let her go outside and then she wonāt get very far? Part of the reason she goes outside is to eat grass, so should we just buy some cat grasses and have them inside? Weāve thought about that but the grass isnāt always the only reason sheās outside, so weāre worried that sheāll keep getting out anyway and then that defeats the purpose of buying cat grasses.
Do we just not stimulate her enough inside? Like, seriously, what do we do about this cat?
For this, it sounds like sheād likely lead train fairly well. If sheās only gone for a short while, she probably just wants a little bit of outside time and sheād be fine. The thing about lead training isnāt that you just pop it on and let them out, you do need to stay with them while theyāre out to ensure they donāt get tangled in anything or escape the lead. May I also recommend this personās cat jackets for a harness? They are comfortable and fairly escape proof.
As for theĀ āgiftsā you may want to look into some additional toys for her that can satisfy her desire for that particular behavior. Stick and string toys and laser pointers are good for this, but a lot of people donāt reward their cats for a solid catch, which is fine, but if your cat is looking to chase and catch a thing she can eat, it may help to give her a treat at the end of playtime. This encourages play behaviors with you over going outside to do it.
As for the cat grasses, you can actually make her a little grass mat!
All it takes is a large litterbox (or if you want to do bigger, go to a hardware store and look for the cement mixing section, and they sell rectangular black tubs there- thatās what the first two tubs are at least), some clean dirt, and some grass seed without fertilizer in it (or if you canāt find that, you can plant cat grass from a pet store in the middle, it will spread but not as fast).
Again, any one of these on their own likely wonāt completely solve the issue, but between the three, you may see a decrease in escapist behaviors.
As long as weāre here, @crabcakedrawsĀ asked what I say to people in apartments whose cats scream and destroy things demanding to be let out, and first you should go have a talk with @pangur-and-grim about Grimās behavior around go-outside time. My own advice is to take the time and effort to train your cat to go outside on a lead with you. If you think thatās too much trouble and youād rather just expose your cat to the risk of illnesses, injuries, or potential death by opening the door and just letting them out, I definitely canāt stop you. But that doesnāt make it right or good.
Think of it this way. Children, actual human children, throw tantrums when theyāre not allowed to do whatever they want; does that mean parents should allow kids to do whatever they want all the time? Absolutely not, and youād be appalled at any parent that said they did so. Even if a child screams and cries, even if they throw things or hit you, youāre still the parent. Itās still your responsibility to make sure that they are receiving the correct/best care youāre capable of providing. Donāt want to do that/think thatās too hard? I have news for you: you may have chosen the wrong pet.
Iām going to keep adding to this because I have been getting questions.
Stray/Feral cats that do not belong to anyone are not what weāre discussing here. If you are managing strays or ferals that donāt belong to you but that in your location, thatās a different situation than someone who buys/adopts a cat and then releases it outside either permanently or off and on. The best course of action for managing ferals is to get them fixed (low cost spay/neuter places are GREAT for this! We got some feral cats at my college fixed for like $30/per) and make sure you give them what protection you can from diseases (for example, offering them wet food with a liquid wormer in it a couple of times a year). You can also affix reflective cat collars to them with bells- this will make them more visible to cars, and the bell can reduce their kill success by up to 30% (which, if you or others are feeding them is a good thing for local small fauna). If you arenāt sure a cat is a stray or an indoor/outdoor cat, buy a reflective collar and a tag with your # on it (costs like $10 total for both in a lot of places)- I can almost guarantee that youāll get a call soon if the cat has an owner.
Iāve also talked some about enrichment, but weāre gonna talk some more, since it seems like people arenāt sure what counts for indoor cats. SO, letās start with toys.
Wand toys (stick and string) are great for interactive play with your cat. They look like this:
They stimulate your catās drive to chase moving, fluttering objects and allow you to provide that liveĀ ākickā response when they pounce on it, because you can pull the string. Theyāre widely available but easy to make yourself-Ā Here is a tutorial on making them yourself for cheap!
Laser pointers provide the same entertainment with a different sort of allure. Laser pointers are better for if you have a cat that likes to run a lot- you can easily send the dot far from you! Theyāre like $3.
You can purchase any number of chase toys that you can throw for your cat, in all sorts of shapes and sizes from mice to birds to random shapes. Many of them come with catnip in them. Some of them have noise makers so they shriek like the wildlife your cat is not killing outside. Some of them rattle. Some of them crinkle (in fact, you can get neat foil balls to throw that are shiny and crinkle). Some of them are spongy. There are so many options and cats LOVE them!
Kick toys are another great thing! Kick toys are usually bigger than throw toys and somewhat oblong, like a fish. In fact, many of the toys are shaped like fish! But there are also other kinds- Iāve seen rainbows and cigars and just big thin rectangles and bananas and a lot of others). These toys help satisfy your catās fighting/gutting instinct. If they were to indeed catch a big fish, they would be able to grasp it in their front paws and kick with their back legs to disembowel it. The same goes for other animals your cat might find itself in a fight with, including other cats. If your cat likes to tussle, this might just be the toy for them!
Circular ball toys are good fun for containing the small fast object your cat wants to chase (so they donāt lose it under the couch or something.
If you want to spend a little more for an active cat, you can look into getting them an exercise wheel! Many cats, when they figure out what it does, will thoroughly enjoy running on these things (and the videos on youtube are GREAT, if you want a good time go type inĀ āCat exercise wheelā). The first photo is the original wheel, but there are others out there now too.
If you want to take your cat outside but donāt want to lead train them or build a whole catio, there are other options like cat tents!
Indoors, cat tunnels are totally a thing and cats love them, especially soft ones.
You can also buy window perches that just suction cup to windows and donāt cause any damage to walls (good for apartments!) and they come in a variety of styles!
You can get your cat an autogroomer device, they come in several different styles:
This allows the cat to receive grooming from a source outside of themselves when you arenāt around.
You can purchase a see-through window feeder for birds, and place it somewhere that your cat will be able to see, so they will have something to watch while youāre not playing.
In addition to toys and activity devices like the above, you can give your cat enrichment during feeding and watering times as well. Waterers that have moving water are preferred by many, many cats:
And puzzle feeders can both provide enrichment and slow down cats so they donāt gobble all their food quickly (which often results in an upset tummy⦠I have heard a lot of stories of folks whose cats eat a bunch and then immediately puke it up whole⦠puzzle feeders help alleviate that! And they can be DIY for extremely cheap!)
(this one has toys in it, but you can put food in it too)
Anyway, thereās no reason your house cat HAS to go outside unsupervised or uncontained, and there are P L E N T Y of ways to vastly enrich an indoor catās life experiences while under your care.
I literally live in the woods. There is no shortage of wildlife. No species in my area are endangered or threatened.
Cars however, are an issue. A small tabby nearly died. Most cats are good at avoiding cars though. Whether a cat should go outside depends on that catās ability to survive its environment and the ability of the environment to survive the cat. There is no one size fits all approach here.
Okay. Let me explain something from a big-picture ecological perspective as someone who has done a lot of species surveying and habitat restoration and who also lives in the woods.
You are falling prey to the shifting baseline problem, which essentially means that your idea of a ānormalā amount of wildlife for your area is going to be very different from what was normal 100 years ago, 200 years ago, etc. And the more we move the baseline of whatās normal, the more we lose sight of what an ecosystem was like before we went in and damaged it. We shouldnāt be looking at wildlife populations as they are now and considering them the standard to strive for, because these are populations that are struggling a lot more than you think.Ā
What you considerĀ āa lot of birdsā is almost certainly lower than whatĀ āa lot of birdsā was in the same place a century ago. Sure, maybe your LOCAL ecosystem hasnāt seen what you see as a significant drop in wildlife population.Ā However, just because a species hasnāt been marked as endangered or threatened by a government entity (which, by the way, tend to be woefully behind the reality of things because bureaucracy and lobbyists) doesnāt mean it isnāt in decline. In fact, a large portion of bird species worldwide are in decline, even ones considered common.Ā
This is due to a combination of a whole bunch of factors ranging from drastic habitat loss to pollution to, yes, predation by invasive species like cats. You canāt single out any one of these as THE reason; itās the fact that theyāre acting like a one-two (three-four-five-six-etc) combo punch thatās making it so damned hard for wildlife to adapt to the many ways in which humans have fucked things up so badly. Itās like when you get your rent raised by 40% and your car dies and you lose a third of your hours at work and your significant other loses their job entirely and ends up with a chronic medical diagnosis thatās going to need expensive medication for the long term, and all this happens in one week and guess what? Next weekās going to just be worse!Ā
Your local birds are parts of more widespread species whose genetic diversity is shrinking due to individual populations going locally extinct. And yes, thatās very important, because the rate of species extinction and endangerment has risen in the past 100 years and itās only going faster. Which means that MORE species are going to edge toward endangerment, including ones you think are okay, ESPECIALLY as climate change hits us harder and makes it exponentially more difficult for all species to adapt to rapid changes in their environment.
So we NEED to treat our local wildlife as though they are precious, irreplaceable reservoirs of biodiversity and genetic resources, because that is exactly what they are. And the more people areĀ āfuck, I donāt careā about the effects on their local population of a given species, the more likely it is that that species is going to experience greater fragmentation as more and more pockets of individuals go locally extinct and the remaining animals are more isolated from each other. Maybe itās not obvious now, but it will be, and we have the power to do something about it BEFORE it becomes a problem.Ā
So look past your own woods, and pay attention to the overall pattern that weāre ALL a part of. You and your cat arenāt isolated, and neither are your wildlife.
All of my cats in my entire lifetime have been indoor-outdoor cats. All of them have lived past 10 years. One of them even reached 19 years. Heād go off for days at a time and come back perfectly fine. I understand where people are coming from but that doesnāt mean I have to agree with it.
Another note, humans have killed more than cats have and we still let them outside. Maybe before you go blaming cats for killing other animals, go and take a look at your own species.
I. Did. Do. That. Read this again:
āThis is due to a combination of a whole bunch of factors ranging from drastic habitat loss to pollution to, yes, predation by invasive species like cats. You canāt single out any one of these as THE reason; itās the fact that theyāre acting like a one-two (three-four-five-six-etc) combo punch thatās making it so damned hard for wildlife to adapt to the many ways in which humans have fucked things up so badly.ā
Cats are our fault. WE domesticated them. WE put them in ecosystems they werenāt native to. And WEāRE the ones perpetuating the problem by giving outdoor cats a pass.Ā
Visible Mending
Introduction:
Visible mending is a decorative way to fix up an item. Instead of trying to make your mend as invisible as possible, the idea is to make it part of the garment's design.
Visual mending is not a single technique: it's more of a mindset. If you've got an item you love, it deserves to be mended, and if you're going to put that love into stitches, why not show them off?
That being said, there are some specific techniques that are popular with visible menders. Let's take a look!
Sashiko:
Sashiko is a type of traditional Japanese embroidery that is used to both decorate and reinforce fabric. In visible mending, sashiko is often used to cover up holes with patches or to reinforce thinning fabric. This technique uses a variation on the running stitch.
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Some resources on sashiko:
SashiCo on YouTube: sashiko livestreams and information on the cultural aspect of sashiko.
Written tutorial by Upcycle Stitches.
Free sashiko templates by TheSpruceCrafts.
Fixing jeans with sashiko by Soluna Collective.
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Embroidery:
Regular embroidery is also a popular technique to accentuate your mends. Check out my embroidery 101 post to learn how to get started. You can embroider patches, or use embroidery to hide or accentuate any stitches you've made to fix holes. Embroidery's also a great way to cover up stains.
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Patches:
There are many ways to add patches to a garment. My tutorial on patches is a good place to start if you want to make custom-shaped patches to sew on top of your fabric. You can also sew your patch on the inside of your garment and have it peek out from beneath the hole you're trying to fix. Fun ideas for this are lace or superheroes.
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Darning:
Darning is a technique used to repair holes in fabric by using running stitches to weave extra fabric over the hole as to fill it up again. While traditionally darning is done in an invisible way by using the same colour of thread as your fabric, you can also use contrasting colours to accentuate your fix. Check out this written tutorial on darning by TheSpruceCrafts.
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Conclusion:
Visible mending is a creative way to fix up your clothes and give them some personality at the same time.
You should be proud of the fact that you took the time and learned the necessary skills needed to mend your clothes! Show off what you did!
A fun side effect of wearing these obvious mends is that people will notice them. They'll remember your fixes the next time they're faced with a hole in their wardrobe, and it will make them more likely to try it for themselves.
These are just a few ways to visibly mend your garments. Want more inspiration? Check out Pinterest or r/Visiblemending on Reddit.
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