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I used to think it was important to have common interests with the person that you are in a relationship with but now I think it is more important to be similar in other aspects. like how kind you are. how you treat the people you care about, how you treat strangers. how you deal with anger. how you deal with pain. and not necessarily dealing with all these things the same way but being perceptive enough to understand what action each situation calls for. it’s important for both people to be on the same page about what that action should be. it’s important to me to have that kind of synchrony.

okinawa-oneway

This is the post exudes emotional maturity.

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✧･ﾟplaylists to help pass the time *:･✧

hi everyone! it’s been a while since i made a huge playlist masterpost, but i thought that right now when we’re all stuck inside wondering what to do with our time i would make a list of all my playlists. listening to music is so calming and definitely helps me pass the time…so enjoy! - cam

songs that remind me of a fashion show

a mix of songs that remind me of driving down the coast

a playlist dedicated to paris

songs that inspire me

a dreamy mix

songs to listen to when you feel carefree

a super fun workout/running playlist to keep you pumped up

songs to listen to during golden hour

a mix of songs to listen to on a sunny day

a playlist full of songs that make me feel alive

songs that remind me of my teenage years

a study/coffee shop playlist to keep you calm

songs to listen to on the weekend

songs that make me feel like living in the moment

a friday kinda mix !

songs that remind me of a warm spring evening

a mix dedicated to nature

my all-time favorite songs all in one playlist

songs that remind me of flowers and sunshine

a 12-hour long playlist of songs that make me feel nostalgic

songs that remind me of going back to school

my ultimate summertime playlist

songs that make me feel like i’m in a movie

upbeat songs to get ready to in the morning

songs i’m currently loving & listening to right now

a playlist dedicated to italy and all its wonders

songs that are soft and delicate

a mix to listen to while watching the sunrise / sunset

a playlist for a rainy and stormy day

songs to listen to when you wake up !

another nature playlist because why not?!

a monday playlist to make your monday more enjoyable

my springtime playlist

songs that are bittersweet

my girl power anthems playlist

for the daydreamers

songs that remind me of the spirit of traveling & exploring

a mix to listen to before bed

songs to listen and dance to in your kitchen

a super fun 70s playlist

relaxing songs for a sunday

songs that remind me of wintertime

for people who love the east coast

for people who love the west coast

a mix of lo fi beats

songs to listen to in your car at night

fresh finds (new songs every monday!)

the ultimate sing along playlist

an indie playlist

the perfect road trip / daily commute mix

a super studious playlist to keep you extra focused

songs that remind me of the beach

a mix of songs to listen to when you’re j chillin

songs that remind me of a trip to outer space !

listen to this when you’re in love

songs for stargazing…

the perfect autumn playlist

songs that make my heart flutter

a mix of carefree & happy tunes

the grooviest 80s playlist around

a mix of golden oldies

listen to this if you like rap / r&b

another workout playlist !

a mix of fun, upbeat songs to dance to

a playlist inspired by call me by your name

a coming of age playlist

a mix of songs that deserve more hype

songs for all the main characters out there

a mix inspired by the king harry styles

songs that make me feel angelic

a dark academia playlist

a spooky halloween mix !

a playlist inspired by dystopian novels

a special cottagecore playlist

a light academia playlist

songs to listen to while looking at the moon

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omneco

Mood: raspberry pavlovas, Sabrina 1954, lipstick marks on coffee cups, soft light, cozy sweaters, messy beds, endless cups of cappuccino, flowy robes, light pink lips.

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— Margaret Atwood, The Blind Assassin

ktkhaotic

Don't allow others to consume you. If they don't call, go to sleep. If they don't message you, put away your phone & have a good day. If they are distant and refuse to tell you what's wrong, go home and do something fun. You live for yourself first. They are secondary.

bpdcrybaby213

This is NOT my art. I just wanted to share it because I think it's an amazing depiction of BPD. A 14 year old with BPD drew this. I found it in a comments section on Facebook on a mental illness post.

chronicallyonlinesworld

HAHAHAHAHAH too accurate

honeypleasejustkillme

hi :) for anyone new to my blog that doesn’t understand bpd and needs insight, i’m happy to explain..

so bpd is short for borderline personality disorder, a personality disorder that can cause unstable moods, behavior, and relationships. also known as (i say this because they did change it in the dsm-5 but no one in the community really likes it, some do but most prefer to use bpd since it’s well known) emotional unstable personality disorder (eupd) and emotional intensity disorder (eid). the symptoms on google are pretty simple sounding but they definitely aren’t irl.

google describes them as ‘emotional instability, feelings of worthlessness, insecurity, impulsivity, and impaired social relationships’ but it’s a lot more than that.

bpd can also cause feeling very worried about people abandoning you, (and trying very hard to stop that from happening), having intense emotions that last from a few hours to a few days and can change quickly (such as feeling very happy and confident to suddenly feeling low and sad), feeling insecure about who you are, with your sense of self changing significantly depending on who you're with (“mirroring”), finding it really hard to make and keep stable relationships, and often viewing relationships as completely perfect or completely bad (black and white thinking, also known as “splitting” in the community), feeling empty a lot of the time, acting impulsively and doing things that could harm you, such as binge eating/eds, using drugs and alcohol, or driving dangerously, using self-harm to manage your feelings or feeling suicidal, feeling intense anger (which can be difficult to control), experiencing paranoia or dissociation in moments of extreme stress.. the list goes on…

but it’s basically like you feel like your running around in your own head to trying to find the right mask, expression, clothing, mannerisms to live up to some expectation of that role in your life whether it be a parent, sibling, friend, child,, but then when alone feeling like a faceless monster. just waiting for a cue from something to tell you what you are supposed to be at that moment… it’s a very complex disorder.

i’m so sorry this is so long but i truly love teaching people about my disorder and infodumping all of my knowledge onto people.. i hope you guys don’t mind :)