a lens flare in my subconscious

tobias / 30 / he-xe-xir-they-whatever / coyote therian / 🔞

[segamascott]

[pricklypearjuice]

Every single person I've ever loved, has turned their back on me for one reason or another

I trust no one else but myself. And honestly, this is okay

[sacred-portal]

[sacred-portal]

[morsobaby]

My tip for trying to compartmentalize your emotions or desires is to realize when you're using hyperbolic shorthand for an actually realistic desire. I know realizing even that can be difficult sometimes but let me demonstrate

"I wish I was popular" -> I want to be noticed and engaged with, and I need reassurance and the feeling of connection

"I wanna delete my blog and ghost my friends" -> I want to act out in a visible way that expresses how frustrated I am / I feel overwhelmed with connections and need time to cool off

"I wanna do something reckless/dangerous" -> I feel trapped in obligations and am buckling under stress, I need a sufficient outlet and more freedom to exist in peace

Obviously there may be different kinds of feelings or needs under your particular impulses, these are just some fairly common examples of what you could be feeling. The harder part is trying to figure out what it is that causes this impulse, and even harder might be if you don't have control over the situation, and are unable to have your needs met. It's not always your fault if you're feeling bad, but realizing where it stems from can help you seek out new paths to relieve it. This is something I've learnt working in therapy.

The toddler in your heart has valid needs. But it is a toddler and will scream and cry about it. Learn to sit by until it's done and then ask if it wants a juice box or a hug

[takethistoyourstardust]

mythbusters is really good at being extremely timeless but occasionally kari wears something that violently reminds me that this show was filmed in the 2000’s.

[takethistoyourstardust]

another classic “this was filmed in the late 2000’s/early 2010’s” look from her. i wanna make a collection. also she’s wearing this particular outfit to a radiation facility and is about 2 feet from the line you cannot cross or else you risk exposure to radiation.

[awaywardprincess]

[sandmandaddy69]

[lamignonette]

[pricklypearjuice]

It's OK to love yourself :)

[sacred-portal]

[bongsoftheweb]

Hemper Balloon Dog Bong – Diffused Downstem – 5.5″

[pricklypearjuice]

Hi

[datadegroove-deactivated2026042]

atheist morrissey: Science Knows I'm Miserable Now

[pricklypearjuice]

I barely use Tumblr anymore but only because I have such a bad scrolling problem :(

Trying to be active on Instagram for the sake of having local community but I immediately get sucked into my timeline and I hate it!!!

If I am going to be on my phone I want to be doing something engaging like learning or puzzles. I think I'm just really tired of memes and brain rot and ragebait which so much of the internet is now

[thehiddenspire]

This Sunday!!! I will be vending at the Oakland Secret furry punk market, RAIN OR SHINE ☔

Come join us for this wonderful community gathering, support small independent artists this holiday season and jam out to live music. I love this event so much and I hope you can all make it!

[kroger-grocery]

[suigintou]

[shambling about aimlessly, empty eyes fixated on a realm none can see]cold-smoked mackerel... cold-smoked mackerel...