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@morsobaby
•Finnish •03 (18+) - Header from my grandma - Exclusionists, radfems, gender criticals and other transphobes DNI and explode instantly. Neopronouns and Xenogenders are cool af and valid
Moi! I'm Elvis / E but you're free to suggest me new names. If you're more unsure/unfamiliar you can just call me Morso (tai jos oot suomalainen lol). I like horror (and bugs) and sparkly things. You can ask to tag but be mindful that my memory has it's limits (I use #trigger instead of #tw trigger, unless it's something specific)
Ask me to use tone indicators if you need them! Although I may not know all of them. I also might occasionally use finnish words or sentences every so often amongst my English, you're free to ask me to translate (or just Google them haha)
My gender is a painful topic. You can ask me how I'd like to be referred to. You can use he/him and any neos for me, but my faves are it/its, Hen/hens and e/er/ers/erself, although my preferences might fluctuate. Don't refer to me as they/them. I edit this post every now and then
Art blog: @grokebaby
Oc help/prompt blog: @creation-help
Tag stuff
#my thoughts - pretty self explanatory. If I'm saying something I feel is more thoroughly thought out or make a post I feel is important or just Long I use this.
#morso puhuu - default tag for almost all original posts.
#morso hyrisee - for some whatever posts, likely song lyrics that are stuck in my brain, interesting words or other similar. Equivalent to me verbally stimming.
#morsos plushie roster - original plush posting
#tagged for me - self explanatory
#Suomeksi - in finnish
#Bird tag - self explanatory (<3)
#Fish tag - self explanatory (<3) (may contain other wet beasts)
#niceties - talking about things to be happy about. Like a list for myself
#fav mons - Pokémon Art that features my favourites, or that I happen to wanna look at later
#Qued - my queue that I've hoarded for like three years
#(saved post) - self explanatory
#videos of ever - videos that are definitely the of all time
#fridge door - cool art :) (you may also check out #art tag)
CHARACTERS I KEEP TAGS FOR:
#morsos headcanons - you get it
#My Frommies - me screaming crying or rambling about my beloved fixation on the show From by mgm
#Arcee (transformers)
#elita 1 / elita one (transformers)
#bulkhead (transformers)
#airachnid / #black arachnia (transformers)
#optimus prime (transformers)
#megatron (transformer)
#megop (transformers)
#Goldenflower (warrior cats)
#Silverstream (warrior cats)
#Gourmand (rain world)
#smallear (warrior cats)
#jasper (Steven universe)
#pearl (Steven universe)
#yellow diamond (Steven universe)
#Garfield (Garfield)
#Sakura miku (miku)
#shadow (shadow the hedgehog)
#maxwell (don't starve together)
#mami tomoe (pmmm)
#jesus (jesus christ from the bible)
#all might (Hero academia)
#eternalberry (cookie run kingdom)
#dark cacao (cookie run kingdom)
#pure vanilla (cookie run kingdom)
#berdly (deltarune)
#carol holiday (deltarune)
#queen (deltarune)
This is because I like them and if you see cool stuff about them feel free to tag me. Parenthesis for clarification, not part of how I tag them
Recovering from autistic burnout as a high-masking adult:
To recover, you literally need to manually learn skills that most people learn as a toddler
You need to learn what makes your body uncomfortable, and what to do to fix it
If you are high-masking, that usually means that you have learned to ignore every distress signal your body sends unless it is a distress signal that a neurotypical person would recognize. People have likely been unintentionally gaslighting you about your lived experience your entire life
If you feel bad or panicked for no reason, stop and try to pay attention to your body. Are you tense? You are likely feeling physical pain somewhere. If you've been gaslit about your pain your entire life, you might not be able to identify it.
Go through a sensory checklist.
SIGHT: Try closing and covering your eyes. If this gives you relief, the lights are probably too bright. You may also need differently-colored lights
SOUND: Cover your ears. Does this give you relief? If so, you may need earplugs or noise canceling headphones. You may also benefit from a neutral or pleasant background noise, like soft music or brown noise.
TOUCH: Are your clothes uncomfortable? Your chair? Your body? Do you feel greasy, like you need a shower? Do you need softer, sensory-friendly clothing?
TASTE: Do you need to brush your teeth or tongue? Would chewing on something help?
SMELL: Is there a strong or unpleasant smell in the room? Do you need to clean or empty a trash can? Would an air purifier help? Would a pleasant smell like a candle help?
INTEROCEPTION: Are you hungry? Thirsty? Tired? How is your posture? Are any of your muscles tight or sore? Scan your body slowly from head to feet, tensing and loosening each group of muscles. Going for a walk or doing a series of quick stretches may help a lot.
Learning how to do this stuff is not intuitive, if you've had an entire lifetime of gaslighting telling you that everything hurting you isn't a big deal and you're being dramatic over nothing.
This takes time, it takes work, it's not intuitive, and it's hard. Most people forget how hard it is, because they learned this as toddlers.
If you want to recover, you need to relearn your whole body. And get over your idea of "normal" and just wear the damn sunglasses and put on the headphones. If people stare, fuck em. You're disabled and they can deal with that.
I've wanted to make a series of aging Misty designs for a while now, I liked the idea of her growing "mistier" and faded as she aged, becoming entirely unrecognisable.
I like the general direction I took with these, but you can tell the youngest headshot was drawn a while ago with the style change, lol and I'm pretty rusty atm.
I don’t have time to unpack my full thoughts on the whole argument of ‘you shouldn’t be a burden to the healthcare system’ but I would like to chime in on it:
so, all athletes should immediately stop playing sports. construction workers, anyone with jobs that put them at risk, they need to find different employment. people with uteruses shouldn’t ever get pregnant, either. actually you know what? don’t enter a car or vehicle at all! and don’t even get me started on old people. what age do we think they should just give it up & throw in the towel? 50? 60? after that they become way too burdensome. it’s a problem.
sweet baby eugenicist, your anger is misplaced. they want you to blame yourself on their crumbling system. you should be asking, what kind of a fucking healthcare system is it if it can be burdened by the very thing it exists to provide? which is healthcare?!
I think that if you had enough daughters AND played your cards right you could spring Mambo Number Five out at the EXACT right gathering and shatter your entire family's trust forever
