•Finnish •03 (18+) - Header from my grandma - Exclusionists, radfems, gender criticals and other transphobes DNI and explode instantly. Neopronouns and Xenogenders are cool af and valid
Moi! I'm Elvis / E but you're free to suggest me new names. If you're more unsure/unfamiliar you can just call me Morso (tai jos oot suomalainen lol). I like horror (and bugs) and sparkly things. You can ask to tag but be mindful that my memory has it's limits (I use #trigger instead of #tw trigger, unless it's something specific)
Ask me to use tone indicators if you need them! Although I may not know all of them. I also might occasionally use finnish words or sentences every so often amongst my English, you're free to ask me to translate (or just Google them haha)
My gender is a painful topic. You can ask me how I'd like to be referred to. You can use he/him and any neos for me, but my faves are it/its, Hen/hens and e/er/ers/erself, although my preferences might fluctuate. Don't refer to me as they/them. I edit this post every now and then
Art blog: @grokebaby
Oc help/prompt blog: @creation-help
Tag stuff
#my thoughts - pretty self explanatory. If I'm saying something I feel is more thoroughly thought out or make a post I feel is important or just Long I use this.
#morso puhuu - default tag for almost all original posts.
#morso hyrisee - for some whatever posts, likely song lyrics that are stuck in my brain, interesting words or other similar. Equivalent to me verbally stimming.
#morsos plushie roster - original plush posting
#tagged for me - self explanatory
#Suomeksi - in finnish
#Bird tag - self explanatory (<3)
#Fish tag - self explanatory (<3) (may contain other wet beasts)
#niceties - talking about things to be happy about. Like a list for myself
#fav mons - Pokémon Art that features my favourites, or that I happen to wanna look at later
#Qued - my queue that I've hoarded for like three years
#(saved post) - self explanatory
#videos of ever - videos that are definitely the of all time
#fridge door - cool art :) (you may also check out #art tag)
CHARACTERS I KEEP TAGS FOR:
#morsos headcanons - you get it
#My Frommies - me screaming crying or rambling about my beloved fixation on the show From by mgm
#Arcee (transformers)
#elita 1 / elita one (transformers)
#bulkhead (transformers)
#airachnid / #black arachnia (transformers)
#optimus prime (transformers)
#megatron (transformer)
#megop (transformers)
#Goldenflower (warrior cats)
#Silverstream (warrior cats)
#Gourmand (rain world)
#smallear (warrior cats)
#jasper (Steven universe)
#pearl (Steven universe)
#yellow diamond (Steven universe)
#Garfield (Garfield)
#Sakura miku (miku)
#shadow (shadow the hedgehog)
#maxwell (don't starve together)
#mami tomoe (pmmm)
#jesus (jesus christ from the bible)
#all might (Hero academia)
#eternalberry (cookie run kingdom)
#dark cacao (cookie run kingdom)
#pure vanilla (cookie run kingdom)
#berdly (deltarune)
#carol holiday (deltarune)
#queen (deltarune)
This is because I like them and if you see cool stuff about them feel free to tag me. Parenthesis for clarification, not part of how I tag them
couldn't decide if i wanted to write a fanfic or draw fan art so i kind of did both at the same time for maximum efficiency
again i’ve not even played much of the game because i've been so inspired to draw and write as soon as i got started, so i am maybe projecting some personality onto them for now, but i want to think Kim likes to fluster Harry a lot (platonically or romantically, either is good)
mostly gleamed that from the "mambo or jambo line" among others
also wrote an excerpt from Shivers but it got a little suggestive for the comic
no but i do actually believe that (perisex) cis people need to think VERY hard about wether their input is actually necessary in trans-centered conversations or in trans spaces and learn to just shut up & listen because i keep seeing the most rancid lines from (peri)cis folks when it's clear that wouldn't happen if they were a little more self-aware that they are speaking over actual trans folk from a place of privilege & they are too confident in what they think they know which, let me tell you, does not match with what they actually know
everyone loves to hate terfs until they realise that it actually entails rejecting bioessentialism entirely and then suddenly you’re “taking things too seriously” and you “don’t have a sense of humour” like i’m sorry but saying protect the dolls doesn’t make you immune to terfism it has seeped into every corner of mainstream feminism and unless you’re actively searching it out and checking your own biases you will always be at risk of sharing a space with terfs
“Only women can—” nope. “But all men—” nah. “The divine femininity of—” gonna stop you right there. “Everyone born ama—” if you finish that sentence I’ll kill you. “Men don’t experience—” you’re wrong. “Gender isn’t real but sex is imm—” *loud incorrect buzzer*
It also goes without saying that bioessentialism inherently can’t be trans inclusive no matter how hard you try. “All men including trans men—” probably not. “This is only a woman’s issue—” is it really? “Afabs only—” why? “All trans men are like—” what? what are they like? finish the sentence i dare you.
I'm autistic and I currently feel like shit checklist
Hi there. Are you autistic? Do you currently feel like shit and don't know why? Try this checklist to see if you can Fix The Problem!
When was the last time you used the bathroom? If you answered "I don't know" or "at least 3 hours ago", go now!
Do you need a drink? Go get one if you don't have one in front of you.
When was the last time you ate? If you haven't eaten yet today, consider eating A Meal, or perhaps A Snack. Something is better than nothing, eat whatever you feel able to!
Is there something in your immediate surroundings that is bothering you? If the light is too bright, turn it off. If there is an annoying sound, make the sound stop or reduce your ability to hear it (earplugs, headphones, etc.). If your clothes are bothering you, change them.
Is your space messy? Pick one area of your room and clean it up as best you can. Clean your whole room if you have the energy!
When was the last time you did An Activity? Scrolling on social media doesn't count. Try actively doing something fun! Play a game you like, read a book, make something, or go for a walk.
When was the last time you Spoke to a Person? Consider talking to a person you like if it has been a while.
How long has it been since you did something Special Interest related? Make some time to do that today. Infodump to a friend, have a nice long research session, look at related images or gifs, make art about it, whatever works best for you!
Try stimming actively! Put on some music and dance, spin in circles, go to the park and use the swings!
If you still feel like shit after trying all of these things, you might be tired or sick. Go to bed early and get some rest. Hopefully you will feel better tomorrow!
I think a lot of people were raised being told that things are bad with no explanation as to why they’re bad and I don’t think I know enough about psychology to make any big statements about that
but anyways I think a lot of people see cheating on your partner as bad because they were just told that sex outside of your partner is bad or something but really cheating on your partner is bad because you had an agreement based on trust with them and you broke that trust so like why should they trust you with anything else now