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[tradwaifu]

Fathers are as important as Mothers. One doesn’t replace the other, they work together to give the child a balanced upbringing.

[princessfeminine]

Hi, it’s been half a year since I posted,

So here’s a little update;

I’ve grown up at least a little

Yes, I’m still with my boyfriend. 3 years strong. Love him so much 💕

I’m studying performing arts and music for sixth form; I want to pursue musical theatre

I dyed my hair auburn, but it still looks pretty brown

I’ve lost a lot of weight from the frequent dance lessons, and gotten way more flexible (I was never overweight to begin with, and this isn’t as important, I’m just proud 😅)

I got a kitten named Ajani who is 75% my responsiblity. I’m taking care of him quite well.

Struggling a lot with self esteem at the moment, will hopefully be getting a therapist

I still care about all of you, I just made a new blog with a new email and I’ve been spending way more time on that one.

Im still not Christian, but I believe in the possibility there may be something more. Maybe God. Maybe not.

[princessfeminine]

How do you feel about transgender women being apart of the tradfem community? Do you see them as equal ?

Sksjsjsksjsk this is when I’m going to get a bunch of people disagree with me. And I’m really sorry.

I feel that transgender women are kind of.. a different type of women. Of course I see them as equal, and I’d never go out of my way to use the wrong pronouns. But you know how you can get orange juice with or without pulp? It’s kind of like that. Of course it’s still orange juice, but it’s a different type of orange juice.

(In this case, I guess pulp is reproduction?)

The problem is, transwomen don’t have the same experiences as ciswomen. Growing up they’re obviously treated as men, and they don’t have periods. Being a woman I believe is way more than throwing on a dress and putting on makeup, but I don’t think anybody reading a blog like mine wants a lecture on biology. (Unless someone asks for it, in which then I would love to.)

Summary: It’s just a bit.. difficult. They can be and definitely are apart of the tradfem community, but it’s a widely different experience than a ciswoman’s. They are equal, but they don’t get a say in anything including reproduction/reproductive rights. Don’t misunderstand, they do. I just don’t believe that they should.

I’m a 16 year old girl going through college taking performing arts though, so maybe I’m not the best person to ask.

[princessfeminine]

Hey there! 🌻 Your lifestyle is not my cup of tea, but don’t worry about that rude anon, I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong at all! To each their own, right? You aren’t hurting anybody just by doing what you like with your own life. I’m almost positive they were a troll anyways. I hope you have a lovely day!

I don’t see why people have to clarify they don’t agree with me 😅, I didn’t really ask. It’s the way I choose to lead my life, you don’t have to live by my rules.

But thanks anyways anon, it’s very sweet of you. Have a nice day~!

[princessfeminine]

i personally disagree with ur opinions but if ur happy im happy too!! if you dont hate me for being a girl but kinda lookin like a dude how could i hate you?? (I mean im hoping you dont) anyway i just wanted to let u know because u seem to be getting some very rude anons and i just wanted to show you that not everyone who disagrees with u is an asshole. this applies to the other tradfem blogs too!! have a good day!

Thank u lots, sweetie!

My opinions are mainly my own lifestyle that only apply to me, rather than the whole world. Nobody has to live by my conventions apart from myself.

I do believe there is such thing as masculinity and femininity, as much as social conventions they are, they’re a vital part of our society. So yeah, I give a few things a gender like the colour pink but that doesn’t mean men can’t wear pink. It’s just a feminine colour, and I choose to lead a lifestyle aligned with femininity. So I like pink.

I hope I’ve explained myself in a semi decent way 😅😅😅

[princessfeminine]

feminism is about choice and women that try to force things on traditionally feminine women who aren’t supporting bigotry or hurting anyone and just silencing feminine women from having a voice, which isn’t feminism. it’s girl hate. traditionalism is no longer a prison for modern women, it’s a choice that can be really empowering! if this makes you happy, more power to you, angel. trad fem girls have voices and aren’t taking anything away from anyone by making a choice for themselves.

Rising from the dead here, replying to an ask from probably more than half a year ago, no less! But hi~!

I love the statement that you’re saying here, thank you for being so accepting of my lifestyle! But modern feminism just seems to be more about trivial issues and belittling men now, rather than the equality of women. I used to call myself a feminist, and my boyfriend used to call himself a feminist too but we both realised together that we are very non-feminist people.

But thank you so much for your support! Have a nice day anon, sweetie, if you even see this at all💕💕

[tradblush]

Don’t bother your husband with petty troubles and complaints when he comes home from work.

Be a good listener. Let him tell you his troubles; yours will seem trivial in comparison.

Remember your most important job is to build up and maintain his ego (which gets bruised plenty in business). Morale is a woman’s business.

Let him relax before dinner. Discuss family problems after the inner man has been satisfied.

( Commandments from ‘How To Be A Good Wife’ by Edward Podolsky )

[lizardgirlie]

I’m sad

Any other ladies salty they have to find an “intellectual” and “empowering” career? I just want to cook dinner for my husband and darling children in our cozy clean home, not go to school and be miserable forever because Fat Janice convinced people women are “equal” to men.

[occhen]

“You’re a what??”

Whenever someone asks what I do and I respond with, “I’m a homemaker,” I get reminded how little value society places on that role (I’m sure stay-at-home-mom’s feel this even moreso).

“What do you do all day?” “What if he leaves? You need a back-up plan!” “You don’t respect yourself, how can you enjoy serving a man?”

I spend all day learning and trying to facilitate a calm, peaceful, and restful home for myself and my boyfriend (who works an extraordinarily stressful and demanding job).

My mom has a saying that “9 times out of 10, if a man leaves a woman, he’s leaving her for someone else.” While we aren’t married, most divorces are initiated by the wife. I also trust, love, and respect him. You cannot build a healthy relationship if you’re constantly worrying that your partner will abandon you.

I respect myself very much! I acknowledge that my mental health improves when I work in the home, that my relationship flows more naturally, and I don’t try to force myself into a role where I would be more unhappy.

Choosing to respect, honour, and care for the man I love isn’t demeaning - I’m not fearful of him, nor is he unreasonable. If those things were true - guess what? I wouldn’t be with him.

- Katie

[catchymemes]

The best kind of neighbour

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[vasyamiu]

I honestly wouldn’t mind being a cute little housewife looking pretty all day, why are so many women against this?

[wifey-aesthetic-deactivated2018]

they think being a housewife is a weakness. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[princessfeminine]

You’re not a fucking woman !! You know what you are ? A naïve little girl who watched too much Disney and played into the PATRIARCHY bullshit !!! Stop trying to play grownup little girl , you’re corrupting this website ! Every time you wear a dress , slather on your makeup and clop on some high heels you regress feminism even further . HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO YOUR FELLOW FEMALES ?!?!?!

Have I done something wrong? I don’t understand what I’ve done..

[princessfeminine]

I started dating my husband when I was 15 and we got married when I was 19 and we are expecting our first baby I'm 20 now we live a fully traditional lifestyle and it works perfectly for us I just wanted you to know that even though you're young that doesn't make a difference if your heart is set on something

Thank you so much! Sometimes I worry that since I’m so young it means things won’t work out, but it’s been working for two and a half years now and we’re still going strong. People like you make me so happy! 😁💕

[princessfeminine]

Ooh, you live in the UK too? That's wonderful, sometimes it seems like everyone in this community is American! -Best Wishes 🌷🌷🌷

Aww thank you so much! Us Brits have to stick together, haha! ☺️

[princessfeminine]

You were lost so early

I don’t know what this means..