who i am comes in waves

Hey, I'm Jess. F/29. I have a simple sense of humor and I'm kind of an asshole. This is where I come to be myself. --------------------------------------------------------- “I get deeply tired because everything touches me, I am never indifferent.” — The Diary of Anaïs Nin, Vol. 2: 1934-1939

[orofeaiel]

Barred Owl

[dustsculptures]

saying “be safe” like a spell that’ll protect them

[nocturnalxsaturn]

Does anybody know what it’s like to be good enough? Asking for me.

[softgothbabe]

I want and I thirst and I yearn and I lust and I crave and I desire and I hunger and I ache

[strayfriend]

@lanidon observe this noodle wrap

Ten year old goofball baby puppy

[bebx]

my taste in fictional men is just the unstable, traumatized and dangerous ones who radiate strong "I'm not a bad dog. I'm a wounded and terrified dog who bites to survive" vibes honestly

[artndetails]

flower preservation 💐

[junglejim4322]

People who are not afraid to text you 40 times in a row and don’t take it personally if you haven’t replied are literally the most valuable members of our society and should be recognized as such

[ophelia-is-not-okay]

done healing my inner child. next up is my inner teen. her highness demands a sword.

[garbagebinne]

[weary-soul-deactivated20240214]

[thewinningside]

You really have to fall in love with someone over and over again.

The first time is easy because you're on the natural high of all their qualities and how they make you feel.

The second time isn't necessarily difficult but it is a decision to stay and love them despite seeing the messy incredibly flawed but still well intentioned human being that they are. You want them despite the annoyances and their (occasional) bullshit. You remain at their side because they still put in some effort to make your union work and they still choose you despite any shortcomings because you are both consistently working on to minimize.

And if you're both wise and allow yourself to grow and change together, you will fall for each other over and over again. You will put aside the stubbornness of your old ways and each new iteration of each other will be comforting and feel like the first time only deeper and long lasting.

[figure8track]

And isn't making this choice every day even more romantic than any kind of "fate"?

[dikotur]

[solestella]

[haroldhighballjordan]

sometimes I randomly think about the time a girl posted in this girls only Facebook group I’m in telling everyone how she broke up with her boyfriend and he lied saying that he lost the spare key she gave him, only to then break into her apartment when she wasn’t home and steal the cat they’d adopted while they were together, but then he denied having done this and she didn’t really have proof that he took the cat since he wouldn’t let her come into his place and look for it. And then another girl saw this post and knew her ex-boyfriend, and she was like “girl. I used to hook up with your mans back in xxxx and I still have his number. If you want, I’ll hit him up and get him to invite me back to his place and see if your cat’s there.” And the OP was like “bet.”

So this woman hit up homie dog, asked him out for drinks, went home with him, slept with him, and then woke up in the middle of the night and TOOK THE CAT. Like she had only said that she would confirm if the cat was there but then she took it upon herself to steal this woman’s cat back. Like she full on Trojan horsed this man and then hit up homegirl like “I got the goods. Where you wanna meet.” And then the two of them posted a photo of them together with the cat to the group.

And I just think women supporting women is so beautiful.

[the--abyss]

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[foxes-in-love]