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Elevated Bus That Drives Above Traffic Jams

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if this fucking thing started training over me while i was driving i’d slam the breaks and kill everybody behind me

There’s no such thing as a homewrecker or a man-stealing woman. A man cannot be stolen for they go willingly. There’s only such a thing as unfaithful men. It’s no one else’s responsibility, but the people in a committed relationship to keep that commitment.

This just takes the blame off of the cheating man. Yes there are women who pride themselves as being man-stealing, but that comes from internalized misogyny and valuing yourself based on men’s interest in you. Such a woman could easily be dismissed as being childish- of no threat. The only reason she is considered threatening is because men have no integrity, no loyalty. And we do not ask better of them.

And if you are someone who is worried about your man being stolen from you, that isn’t even a reflection of you. It’s a reflection of him. You are reading something in him, either consciously or sub-consciously you’re reading a lack of loyalty but instead of addressing him, you project it onto other women.