5 Habits We Should Steal From Successful People
Success has many definition to it, maybe as much as the population on Earth. Still, there’s little doubt that given chance, we all strive to be successful. What better way to achieve that, than to learn from the best? Observation is the staple of learning, and has been that way since the times of yore. By observing the people we strive to be, we can learn from them. Here’s 5 habits we should steal from successful people.
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1) Set aside time to clear our thoughts
Everyone needs a downtime, a time we set aside all to ourselves. The optimal time would be right after we woke up, and right before bedtime. It doesn’t have to be long, just an hour or so to be alone with our thoughts, decide on what we wish to accomplish today / the next day, and set our priorities straight. Arnold Schwarzenegger himself maintain a habit of meditation, and he describe it to have fundamentally changed the way he approach life. This period might be the only quiet time we have when we get busy, so it’s crucial in maintaining our mental health. Think of the things we appreciate and drown out those negative thoughts. We may never forget, but we can choose to let go.
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2) Keep our passion alight
We always heard people saying we should listen to our heart and go for our dreams; undoubtedly a sage advice, but I can’t help but feel the emphasis was kinda off target. Sure, passion is the main driving force behind incredible feats people pulled off, but without maintenance, passion simply couldn’t sustain itself. The difference between people maintaining their passion for years versus those that died off in days, lies in exposure. The more frequent we expose ourselves to what we yearn for, the longer our passion hold. Wanna be a professional athlete? Our passion won’t hold long if we just practice by ourselves. Go check out the professional athletes we strive to be from time to time, and we’ll be reminded why we were so passionate before. This proves true in other field: Observing the best of the best is a surefire way (pardon the pun) to rekindle the flame and keep it going. Likewise, it wouldn’t help if we just stay in our comfort zone. Eleanor Roosevelt once said: “Do one thing everyday that scares you”. Excellence may have come from practice, but sitting in our comfort zone all day will only lead to stagnation. Excellence is therefore a continuous effort that requires sustained adaptation and improvement to pull off, and it’s the spark behind that drives the best of the best to achieve that, time after time. It’s this same spark that reaches out and tug at so many heart strings.
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3) Read. A lot.
Matoba Ryo beautifully captured the significance of reading in one of his book. He wrote that books are the cumulation of years, even decades of the author’s experience, so it’s like we’re merely spending a few thousand yen to buy their life experiences! He further describes the books as something akin to a recipe of success, one that we could use to significantly shorten the time we take to acquire skills by learning from the mistakes and successes of others. The emphasis on the importance of reading are shared by many successful people. Mark Zuckerberg, for example, started an online book club and made a vow to read one book every two weeks consistently for one year. By 15th of June, 2015, he has already read 12 books! Having so many benefits to reap from, the importance of reading cannot be stressed enough. Reading for an hour or two a day, after we woke up or sometime before we go to bed would be ideal.
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4) Take care of our body
I’m sure we’ve all heard it before, but it’s still worth a mention. If we’re getting sick all year round, it would severely hamper what we set out to achieve. It’s therefore definitely worthwhile to take care of our own body. Exercise is one way to do it, and it doesn’t even have to be long. The CEO of Xerox, for example, has a habit to exercise bi-weekly for one hour with her trainer. I’m sure most of us could slide in one hour in two weeks for exercise, can’t we? Besides, it doesn’t have to be strainful or done in one go. A 10 minute long beginner yoga session, spaced out over a week (like maybe three times a week?), would help maintain our health. Obviously if we’re looking to keep our body fit we’ll need to put in more effort than that, but we don’t even need to go to gym to do that. Body weight training would suffice. Having several reps of thirty-seconds-plank a day would go a long way in keeping ourselves fit. Just don’t overdo it (2 minutes should be the max, 1 minute max if you haven’t exercise regularly), else we may hurt ourselves and develop costochondritis. Eating habits are also a key point in keeping us healthy. These alone are worthy of a post by itself, so suffice to say eating enough for breakfast, then having small portions throughout the day would be ideal (not to mention drinking water regularly).
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5) Build a routine
When it comes down to the line, it’s discipline that sets people apart. Research has shown that there are people that thrives during the day (early birds or morning types), people that thrives during the night (night owls or evening types), and people that are intermediates (about half the population actually), who can easily adapts to the different sleeping pattern without much repercussion. The differences are on a neural level, so it will be very difficult for a night owl to wake up early. There are pros and cons to being an early bird or a night owl, so it would be optimal to plan your day around your sleep pattern. Still, if we stick to a routine, our brain will start to adapt to it, and will mitigate some of the negative effect (i.e., drowsiness) so that even an early bird can stay awake late into the night. Sticking to a routine is also the best way to rack up our practice volume, and practice is the bread and butter of success. Without the large amount of practice to refine our skills, we wouldn’t be able to grasp the chance even if it was presented to us. As E. B. White puts it, “A writer who waits for ideal conditions under which to work will die without putting a word on paper.“
There are so many things that can be said on these topics, that even this lengthy post feels short in comparison. Alas, one has to stop somewhere. These will be all for this week. If you like our posts, subscribe to our newsletters!
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