validation at the pronoun café

making a carrd soon !!

[pronoun-cafe]

hello there people ! this is my intro post thingy :)

(not all my posts will be colored text! sorry if it hurts your eyes)

(i know tagging people is kinda important but i don't wanna annoy anybody to start this off!)

(! dni banner by me !)

as you read, this is the pronoun café! if you need validation, simply ask!

♡♡♡♡♡♡

we accept emoji pronouns, neopronouns, and multiple set of pronouns\names !

all they cost is nothing! what a deal!!?!

send an ask, anon or not, you need to say your pronouns, name(s), and some interests!

we'll serve you as soon as possible :) we'll post some examples soon after this, (trying not to spam post so! after we post our first one we'll post more example posts a few days in a row till we receive an order!) incase you don't know what you want!

♡♡♡♡♡♡

♡♡♡♡♡♡

DNI:

(no)m@ps, m@p supporters, n2fw, aro\ace\demi\pan exclusive, nb skeptic, anti-emoji pronouns, anti-neopronouns, think pronoun = gender\expression = gender

also anyone on the usual dni!!! i couldn't fit everything! transmeds & ur friends im looking at u!

♡♡♡♡♡♡

♡♡♡♡♡♡

about me:

call me el! (if you want my main blog, feel free to message me!) i won't share too much info, but im a trans guy(please don't refer to me as trans\a tomboy, im just saying because im not trying to be some cishet trying to get into the lgbt+ space) i have 3 dogs, i like cool socks, designing things, space, and video games! im exprirementing with some different pronouns, sooo!

🎸\🎸\🎸s\🎸s\🎸self

ze\zir\zir\zirs\zirself

spi\spike\spikes\spikes\spikeself

♡♡♡♡♡♡

[pronoun-cafe]

can i have some validation with the names salem or sae / sal as a nickname? he/him/his/himself, doll/dolls/dolls/dollself, bun/buns/buns/bunself, choke/chokes/chokes/chokeself, and it/its/its/itself. i really like bunnies and hope to get one of my own one day, fashion, naps, notebooks and soft blankets. i also am raising 5 kittens currently, along with 3 cats

⨾hello !!! yes :) i hope you get a bunny one day, too :0

━━━━━━━

~ ☕ : salem, sae, sal

~ 🍛 : he/him/his/his/himself, doll/dolls/dolls/dolls/dollself, bun/buns/buns/buns/bunself, choke/chokes/chokes/chokes/chokeself, it/its/its/its/itself

~ 🥠 : bunnies, fashion, naps, notebooks, soft blankets, kittens, cats

━━━━━━━

› salem really wants a bunnie so im getting get him one for saes birthday! i couldnt get one for sal on the holidays, but i hope he likes the bunny! ive been asking him what types of bunnies he likes best, so i hope the surprise isnt ruined for him!

› do you wanna go to the store with me and salem? doll has been getting into fashion, and sae wants us to judge dolls outfits! i know sal has really good outfits, and doll doesn't wanna go by dollself, so doll might get us some food for tagging along with dolls! if doll doesnt, i will!

› shh! salem is napping in buns frontroom, i dont wanna move sae to buns room incase sal is a light sleeper and i wanna make sure bun gets his naps in before buns interview! bun has been studying and trying out for jobs, so bun has deserved a nap with no interruption by bunself!

› what kind of notebooks does salem like? choke hasnt told me and i dont wanna get sae the wrong one and ruin chokes holiday party! do you know? i know sal is close with you so choke mightve told you! if not, we can ruin the surprise and ask chokes ourselves, i dont wanna ruin it for chokes and make choke go to the store by chokeself for the one choke likes!

› salem really likes soft blankets, but its current one is kinda rough! do you wanna help me get sae a softer one? it gave me some money yesterday, and i havent gotten around to getting sal one! ive been looking at this one online i can get for its, and the blanket i wanna get its is in stores, so it doesnt need to go by itself to get its one!

› i really like salems cat! his kittens are nice, too! sae has been thinking of getting another one, so i wanna surprise him! sal told me his favorite cat species, and the shelter by him has that kind! although the kitten i wanna get him is blind, i know he'll love it equally as his other pets!

[pronoun-cafe]

could do you validation for the name Dell with tor/tor/tors/tors/torself and they/them/their/theirs/themselves pronouns please? i like horror, YouTube, Internet mysteries, lost media, etc. Thank you.

⨾yes!!! youre welcome ! :)

━━━━━━━

~ 🍶 : dell

~ 🍱 : tor/tor/tors/tors/torself, they/them/their/theirs/themself

~ 🍚 : horror, youtube, internet mysteries, lost media

━━━━━━━

› dell wanted to go to a haunted house, but tor couldnt because dell couldnt drive there by torself! but next year, im going to drive tor!

› i heard dell really likes internet mysteries, they like nick crowley because he makes videos on internet mysteries! do you know anybody else dell could look up? they need some more suggestions, because dell only knows night mind and nick crowley, and they would like help for themselves!

› dell cant remember the name, but tor has been super obsessed with a new lost media, do you wanna watch it with tor? dell wants to share tors new hyperfixation with somebody besides torself!

[pronoun-cafe]

hi, can you do arthur/angel/adrienne with he/him pronouns? i like drawing, playing cello, and listening to punk music!!

⨾hello!!!! no, i cannot >:[ /j

━━━━━━━

~ 🍶 : arthur, angel, adrienne

~ 🍱 : he/him/his/his/himself

~ 🍚 : drawing, playing cello, punk music

━━━━━━━

› arthur has a new thing to help stop his drawers block! arthur saw it on tiktok, he didnt think of it by himself! he has some prompts in a hat on paper and whatever character he thinks of from that prompt he draws with that prompt!

› do you need some cello lessons? angel is super good at cello! he started playing a few years ago, he learned by himself! im sure angel wont mind if he helps you, he might even let you use his cello! angel let his other friend do when they were starting!

› adrienne is thinking of starting his own band, hes been listening to this one punk band and he has been super influenced, do you wanna hear some of his songs? adrienne has already got some of his friends to help him!

[pronoun-cafe]

hi! just wanna preface by saying I think this blog is really great xx

I’m thinking about using the name Adri (pronounced like Ay-dree) and pup/pupself pronouns. I like writing, my OCs and big fluffy dogs, and I’m wanting to try and start getting into scenecore-type fashion.

thanks so much x

⨾hello!! ty ! youre welcome :) i hope you decide on your name or pronoun !!!!!!

━━━━━━━

~ 🍵 : adri

~ 🥙 : pup/pup/pups/pups/pupself

~ 🍮 : writing, ocs, big fluffy dogs, scenecore fashion

━━━━━━━

› adri is working on pups story right now! can you check on adri to make sure pup didnt fall asleep? adri said pup needed to finish pups story by tomorrow!

› adri loves making ocs because pup says pup has alot of imagination pup can put into it! i like seeing adris ocs too, because pup is good at it!

› adri is going to the dog shelter later, wanna go with pup? adri doesnt want to go by pupself, but pup wants a dog or two!

› can you go with adri to the store? pup cant go by pupself but im sick and cant go with adri, pup wants you to rate pups how scenecore looks on pups!

[pronoun-cafe]

hi could you do the names Ella and Liesel with the pronouns they/them? i enjoy painting, wishing for death, minecraft, and fanfiction. thanks :)

⨾well, i can do half of that! youre welcome!

━━━━━━━

~ ☕ : ella, liesel

~ 🦞 : they/them/their/theirs/themself

~ 🍢 : painting, minecraft, fanfiction

━━━━━━━

› ella ruined their painting! i feel so bad for them! their cousin was playing with them while they waited for their painting to dry and they spilt some black paint all over it!

› liesel needs some help deciding if they want to buy minecraft, can you help them? they cant decide themself, because they say its a big payment bit they also say it seems fun!

› ella cant find good fanfictions that they specifically want, so they decided to write themself! its really good, even though theyve just started!

[pronoun-cafe]

hi! could you do the name wren with it/its, fae/faer, min/mint/mints/mintself, and in/ink/inks/inkself? thank you!

⨾hello! thank you for sending another ask :) youre welcome!

━━━━━━━

~ ☕ : wren

~ 🦞 : it/its/its/its/itself, fae/faer/faers/faers/faerself, min/mint/mints/mints/mintself, in/ink/inks/inks/inkself

~ 🍢 : d&d, writing, drawing, snakes, podcasts

━━━━━━━

› wren is busy right now! it is playing d&d, i dont wanna disturb its because when it plays d&d it always get serious about it, especially since it is new!

› wren needs some writing advice, do you have any for faer? fae needs to write a short essay about a story because fae has been having writers block all week and fae cant get rid of it by faerself!

› me and wren are gonna have a drawing computation! can you get me some text books? i have everything else but min got mints stuff by mintself but min forgot about me and i dont wanna make mint go back to the store! i heard you have a few blank textbooks!

› wren is thinking about buying another snake, can you help ink? in already has everything the snake in is looking for needs, but in has trouble finding the one in wants by inkself and inks finding skills arent the best!

› wren likes to fall asleep to podcasts, it says the voices usually comfort its and it also says that podcasts are also a bit fun or informative, and before it dozes off it has a good time with the few minutes it heard!

[pronoun-cafe]

hey! i go by carson, karl, wil/wilbur, n jubilee!! :] i use dre/dream/dreams, pog/pog/pogs, pog/pogu/pogus, cat/catjam/catjams, rot/rot/rotting/rottings, wil/wilbur/wilbursoot/wilbursoots, tub/tubbo/tubbos, n sof/soft/softs :p i like magic, plants, cartoons, legos, music, birds, n horror!

⨾hiya!!!!!

━━━━━━━

~ ☕ : carson, karl, wil/wilbur, jubilee

~ 🍖 : dre/dream/dreams/dreamself, pog/pog/pogs/pogs/pogself, cat/catjam/catjams/catjams/catjamself, pog/pogu/pogus/pogus/poguself, rot/rot/rotting/rottings/rotself, wil/wilbur/wilbursoot/wilbursoots/wilburself, tub/tubbo/tubbos/tubbos/tubboself, sof/soft/softs/softs/softself

~ 🍣 : magic, plants, cartoons, legos, music, birds, horror

━━━━━━━

› carson really is interested in magic, so dre got dreamself a little magic box! dre says its for kids, but dre is just starts so it could be good for dream!

› karls plant died because pog has so much to do and pog cant do it by pogself, so pog is gonna get some fake plants! pog says theres much more to choose from too!

› wilbur is just gonna stay home for awhile, wil wants to watch some cartoon while cat is home alone! catjams family and roomate is gone, so its just catjams pets and catjamself!

› jubilee wants this lego set for pogus birthday, people already got pogu everything else pog wanted, so why dont you get pogu pogus lego set? i'll send you what pog wants!

› carson fell asleep with rottings headphones on and they snapped, rot needs some more, can you drive rot there? rot will pay for rotself and gas, rot just needs a drive there!

› karl is thinking about getting tubboself a bird, do you have any suggestions for tubbo? tub wants something nice and chill, but still playful! tub might look online if tubbos friends donr have any suggestions!

› wilbur is watching a horror movie this saturday, do you wanna go with wil? sof says the reviews are good, but sof says if softs friends cant go, sof'll by okay by softself!

[pronoun-cafe]

Hello! I go by Kanny or Kan. My pronouns are ae/aer/aers/aerself, he/him/his/himself, and hedon/hedons/hedons/hedonself! I enjoy baking, drawing, and cosplaying!

⨾hi!!!!!! i love your name :)

━━━━━━━

~ 🍶 : kanny, kan

~ 🥗 : ae/aer/aers/aers/aerself, he/him/his/his/himself, hedon/hedons/hedons/hedons/hedonself

~ 🥯 : baking, drawing, cosplaying

━━━━━━━

› kanny needs to get some ingredients for aers cookies, kan is all out! do you wanna help aer? im helping out aers friends and ae wouldn't mind you tagging along with aer instead of aer by aerself!

› kan is trying out digital art! he hasnt done it before, but kanny is getting the hang of it! he got his pen and tablet as his birthday gift and hes been excited to try it out since he got it but he hasnt been able to until now!

› can you help kanny rip up hedons pants? kan is cosplaying and hedon cant do it hedonself! hedon will really appreciate it, and hedon will do you a favor in return!

[pronoun-cafe]

Hi! Currently I go by Enn or Binnie and use bru/bruma/brumalis/brumaliself pronouns (for now hhhh). I like drawing, eating, and chilling with my guinea pigs.

⨾hello!!!!!! i read that as eating your guinea pigs, but im glad you dont?

━━━━━━━

~ ☕ : enn, binnie

~ 🥖 : bru/bruma/brumalis/brumalis/brumaliself

~ 🍥 : drawing, eating, guinea pigs

━━━━━━━

› enn isnt having much motivation for art! can you go cheer bruma up? bru has been by brumaliself the last couple of days and i think bru just needs some happiness to get brumalis motivation back!

› binnie wants to go to a restaurant, im coming with bruma if you wanna come! bru cant ask you because bru is getting reservations, but bru doesnt wanna go by brumaliself and i heard the restaurant is 5 stars from bruma!

› enn is out getting some guinea pig toys for brumalis! bru wants to know if you'll petsit them, bru doesnt wanna leave them by brumaliself with all of brumalis pets there, and bru says brumalis guinea pigs are well behaved!

[pronoun-cafe]

hi!! my name is Marnie and I use she/them pronouns! I love Y2K/bimbocore fashion and I just picked the name Roxanne to be my chosen middle name!!

⨾hi!!! congrats! :D

━━━━━━━

~ 🍶 : marnie, roxanne

~ 🍜 : she/her/hers/hers/herself, they/them/their/theirs/themself

~ 🍞 : y2k, bimbocore fashion

━━━━━━━

› marnie needs somebody to talk to y2k with, she doesnt have many friends who like it, so shes mostly by herself! do you wanna learn about it with me and her? she knows alot about it!

› roxanne needs somebody to talk to y2k with, they dont have many friends who like it, so theyre mostly by themsdlf! do you wanna learn about it with me and them? they know alot about it!

› marine has her phone on silent, shes out getting presents by herself! do you wanna come with me and get her some presents? i know she really likes bimbocore and doesnt have many outfits, we can get her that!

› roxanne has their phone on silent, theyre out getting presents by themself! do you wanna come with me and get them some presents? i know they really like bimbocore and doesnt have many outfits, we can get them that!

[pronoun-cafe]

Oh of course! Sorry bout that haha :) (I'm the one who asked for Soren/Miguel) + I like playing the guitar and making my own songs + I give myself my own tattoos :)

⨾thank you!!! hello again :D

━━━━━━━

~ 🍵 : soren, miguel

~ 🥮 : he/him/his/his/himself

~ 🍢 : playing guitar, making music, tattoos

━━━━━━━

› soren is out getting his guitar fixed, he fell on it in his sleep so its a bit broke! dont worry, hes okay, too! he might need to get a new guitar, though!

› make sure not to call miguel! he doesnt have his phone on mute but hes making music and i dont wanna disturb him!

› i really like sorens tattos, he tatted them on himself! he might get another one this month, i hope he likes what he gets!

[pronoun-cafe]

Hello! Could you do one for Soren/Miguel with he/him pronouns? Thank you! :)

⨾hi! can you add interests? :)

[pronoun-cafe]

Hi there! I was wondering if there was an alternative way to say your pronouns? It's okay if not! 😊 (i have a stutter and really struggle saying my "k"s and my "Z"s)

⨾hiya!! you can write them or something, but it mostly depends on how you say k! or you can use other pronouns, or you can try and see if people still understand you! sorry if i didnt help !!!! :(

[pronoun-cafe]

Hi! I go by panic online, and I’ve only recently started experimenting with neopronouns. I was hoping maybe you can help validate */*/*s/*s/*self ni/nine/nis/nines/nineself choke/choke/chokes/chokes/chokeself and se/sem/seii/semi/semiself? (I apologize if that’s too much hhh) I like drawing, birds, music, and snow. Thank you!

⨾hii!!! i hope you get your validation, youre welcome :0 and no, nothing is too much! you guys should stop asking if youre giving me too much, give me like fifty pronouns or names and i wont mind!! <3

━━━━━━━

~ ☕ : panic

~ 🍛 : */*/*s/*s/*self, ni/nine/nis/nines/nineself, choke/choke/chokes/chokes/chokeself, se/sem/seii/semi/semiself

~ 🥨 : drawing, birds, music, snow

━━━━━━━

› panic needs a new notebook, *s drawing one is all filled up! * really likes to draw, so i think im gonna get * a new one for christmas, since * cant afford one just by *self right now!

› panics out bird watching, do you wanna go with nine? ni isnt too far away, you could get nis location right now! no, ni isnt by nineself, ni brought nines dog!

› panic needs some new bands to listen to! chokes spotify wrapped is the two same bands, can you recommend any to choke! choke will definitely appreciate it, since choke has trouble looking by chokeself!

› panic is buying a new jacket right now, se wants to make snowmen but its too cold and seii has a rip in semi jacket! you can text sem to get something for you at the store, though! but just sem because se is by semiself!

[pronoun-cafe]

Hello, I'm cyrus and i could really use some validation ! my pronouns are ny/nym 🦇/🦇s it/its fae/faer and he/him my interest are writing, poetry, art , homestuck , harry potter the owl house, steven universe, farm animals, religion and cats!

⨾hello!!!! i hope this is good enough! i tried my best with the pronouns since you didnt give the full sets :D

━━━━━━━

~ 🍵 : cyrus

~ 🥗 : ny/nym/nym/nyms/nymself, 🦇/🦇s/🦇s/🦇s/🦇self, it/its/its/its/itself, fae/faer/faers/faers/faerself

~ 🥧 : writing, poetry, art, homestuck, harry potter, owl house, steven universe, farm animals, religion, cats

━━━━━━━

› cyrus is really interested in poetry, right now ny is in nyms room by nymself and ny is writing! i really like what ny creates, i think ny has lots of talent

› cyrus likes the owlhouse, so 🦇 is making some fanart, i really like 🦇s art! right now 🦇 is drawing spike, 🦇's trying to draw from 🦇s memory, so i cant wait to see what 🦇 does!

› cyrus is rewatching homestuck again, it is in its room by itself binging it, last time it 'played' the game but it is into it again! it got inspired by the cosplays, which i dont blame it for!

› cyrus is starting to read harry potter, the last time fae read the all the books fae currently had fae was younger! its taking a long time for faer to finish the books, but sometimes fae takes breaks from reading them all by faerself fae gets faers friends and watches the movies!

› cryus has to rewatch the some episodes of steven universe because ny fell asleep while ny binged it, im glad ny got some sleep though! ive been watching with nym, so im gonna leave while ny rewatches those because unlike nym, i stayed awake for them!

› cyrus is getting a horse, 🦇 has always been interested in farm animals like cows or pigs or chickens! 🦇 even raised some chicken a few years ago, 🦇 was really good with the chickens since 🦇s family made 🦇s take care of them 🦇self!

› cyrus is studying religion! it picked up on it while waiting for its cat to arrive! it picked a shelter cat, which is nice of its! it has been super interested in religion though, its one of its favorite hobbies! other than playing with its cats, of course!

[pronoun-cafe]

hi! my name is henry bones, my pronouns are they/it/he/fae ! i like writing, seven deadly sins, pronouns, sykkuno, kpop, steven universe and farm animals !

⨾hello!!! :D i didnt know what to do with your name, sorry! ):

━━━━━━━

~ ☕ : henry, bones

~ 🍣 : they/them/their/theirs/themself, it/it/its/its/itself, he/him/his/his/himself, fae/faer/faers/faers/faerself

~ 🍑 : writing, seven deadly sins, sykkuno, kpop, steven universe, farm animals

━━━━━━━

› henry is getting more into writing since quarantine, theyve been writing more for fun instead of for their work! theyre writing more by themselves, and i cant wait to see what things bones write!

› henry is getting into seven deadly sins, i recommend it to it the other day! its really early into the show, but bones is super invested! im glad it like it like i do!

› henry is up watching a sykkuno stream by himself again, bones really needs to get some sleep, i know he likes him but im worried for him! i hope he gets his sleep schedule normal again!

› henry is getting more into kpop, fae really likes bts and txt! fae doesnt really know alot of bands yet, but im glad fae has an interest we all like instead of fae being by faerself for it! bones even has merch, which looks good in!

› henry is binged steven universe again, i personally dont like it but they do! its their favorite show at the moment, i dont know why theyre so interested in it but im happy for them!

› henry is going to faers friends farm this weekend, fae always has liked farm animals! fae is gonna be by themselves the weekend so fae can babysit the animals while faers friend is gone, which isnt a problem for bones!