Fixing The World, One Gentleman At A Time

Let's be civil, shall we?

[clever-and-unique-name]

Reparenting Affirmations for an Inner Child

I am so glad you were born.

You are a good person.

I love who you are and am doing my best to always be on your side.

You can come to me whenever you’re feeling hurt or bad.

You do not have to be perfect to get my love and protection.

All of your feelings are okay with me.

I am always glad to see you.

It is okay for you to be angry and I won’t let you hurt yourself or others when you are.

You can make mistakes - they are your teachers.

You can know what you need and ask for help.

You can have your own preferences and tastes.

You are a delight to my eyes.

You can choose your own values.

You can pick your own friends, and you don’t have to like everyone.

You can sometimes feel confused and ambivalent, and not know all the answers.

I am very proud of you.

– Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker

[propersuggestions]

damn it’s been a while since i was on here, what the fuck is happening my dudes?

[theerraticace]

Please reblog if you think that “they/them/theirs” is a valid set of pronouns.

Trying to make a point to my father.

[simpl-beautiful]

[shaebay]

[alchyhol]

This year for Christmas I want a more detailed information please login to your account

[ok-dingo]

nice try but I’m not gonna let you hack me not even for christmas

[alchyhol]

This is not my will but my phone has commanded it.

[w-r-o-u-g-h-t]

This year for Christmas I want a hand up ass hand up ass hand up ass hand up ass

[tw-evan-deactivated20170827]

this year for christmas i want a boyfriend

[gingermetuchenpi]

This year for christmas i want to make sure you hit the ground with a hiss of pain before the door slams shut.

[dashaibo]

This year for Christmas I want a new one for you to be happy with the fact that I could create an invoice for the most secure gaming experience in the world.

[riccan]

This year for Christmas I want a good time to time.

[bee-beep-assholes]

This year for Christmas I want a Christmas tree

[butchmime]

this year for Christmas i want a new name to the house was a good place

[spinelesssuggestion-blog]

This year for Christmas I want a relationship is the only thing that would make it a lot of fun

Um…

[propersuggestions]

This year for Christmas I want a little bit more than I ever wanna be and I want a man that doesn't care what he wants.

[storysuggestion]

How about: reverse racism isnt a thing for unpopular opinions?

A m e n Bless you child

[inner]

Dear person reading this, 

      You deserve a life full of happiness and positivity. So don’t let others get to you and believe in yourself.

[annoyingfeministbitch]

What “Ghetto” Names Really Mean

“Tinashe” -  Means “God is with us” in Shona ( An African language spoken by nearly 80 percent of people in Zimbabwe.)

“Lakeisha” - A Swahili name meaning “favorite one.”

“Ashanti” -  Name of a powerful African empire in West Africa.

“Tanisha” - Hausa of West Africa name meaning “born on Monday.”

“Zola” - Means “quiet, tranquil” in Zulu.    

“Amandla” -  Zulu and Xhosa word meaning “power”. The word was a popular rallying cry in the days of resistance against Apartheid.

“Zendaya” - Means “ To Give Thanks” in Shona

“Latonia” -  A Latin name. Latonia was the mother of Diana in Roman mythology.

“Lulu” - Swahili and Muslim name meaning “pearl” or “precious.”

“Ciara” -  Means “dark-haired” in Irish Gaelic

“Lateefah” - A North African name meaning “gentle and pleasant.”

“Mercedes” - Means “Gracious gifts/Benefits) in Spanish

“Kaya” -  Ghanaian name meaning “stay and don’t go back.”

“Amara” -  The Swahili word amara, meaning “urgent business.” Also the Hindu name meaning “immortal.”

“Shanika” - African Bantu name, meaning “young one from the wilderness.

“Zuri” - Means “beautiful” in Swahili.

“Onika” - Word of African origin meaning “warrior.”

JUST BECAUSE A NAME SOUNDS DIFFERENT DOES NOT MEAN IT’S “RATCHET” OR “GHETTO” THEY HAVE BEAUTIFUL MEANINGS.

DON’T BE IGNORANT, LEARN.

[goodluckrob-deactivated20221110]

Reblog every time it hits the dash.

[healingsuggestions]

you will find your home, you will find your place. you will find your people. give it a little bit of time but it will happen.

[propersuggestions]

If you live in NJ as a little PSA, there's this GSA forum in Perth Amboy that they have every year on the 19th I believe and it's super fun! I went as a group with my school's GSA but you don't have to be apart of a club to go, you'll meet a ton of awesome people there. Seriously I had so much fun there and met a ton of queer adults and other teens who are going through the same things and learned a ton of useful information. I highly recommend attending the Forum next year if you can or if there's one in your state, to go to it!

[propersuggestions]

You know your country is fucked when several of your friends' families are seriously considering moving depending on the outcome of tomorrow night.

[lovelysuggestions]

Hey guys, with Halloween comming up i wanted to remind everyone there is no need to partake in the clown trend. There are going to be kids out later than normal and there is no need to actually scare them, or anyone else for that matter. Halloween is ment to be fun and spooky, not traumatizing or horrify young children. If you know anyone who was planning to do this please please urge them not to

[cyclessuggestions]

Every Suggestion Blog (as long as it’s less than 721) that reblogs this will get a pokemon drawing based off their blog! (Colors/Theme/Content)

[propersuggestions]

Genuine friends won't buy your love with money, they earn it through time and talent.

[propersuggestions]

Everyone is artisan in their own little way; don't let them tell you otherwise.

[glorysuggestion]

it’s possible to enjoy the things you used to enjoy with your abuser without feeling gross, it takes time and vigilance but it’s possible and it feels wonderful and empowering

[propersuggestions]

Little reminder that some people aren’t worth the headaches they cause. You aren’t any less of a kind person for dropping people like that.