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creepish

Babe you’re like the silliest goose I’ve ever met

creekfiend

This is so funny and so human

funeralprocessor

Glad to know I'm carrying on an ancient tradition

anxietyproblem

aaliyahbreaux

I wonder how many gay people are actually transgender & dont know it because people thing being transgender is transitioning when it’s literally just not being cis.

aaliyahbreaux

like I had a friend tell me last night “all my life I wanted to be a girl. even to this day, like if someone told me I could transition & look like you or *insert another trans woman idk* I would do it in a heartbeat” and when I was like omg ur transgender he was surprised? like he was like wait just wanting to be a girl makes me transgender even if I dont do anything about it? and like its harder to pinpoint non binary people but if u have a desire be a different gender ur transgender. transitioning is a choice but being transgender is not.

divinegaeity-deactivated2023101

“One of the symptoms of being a girl is wanting to be a girl.” Don’t remember where I heard that but the quote is my life.

lumberjackloverboy-moved

This is one of the posts I can explicitly pinpoint as helping me realize that I might not be cis. The biggest symptom of being trans is wanting to not be your gender. It can also be dysphoria, it can also be euphoria, it can also be presentation, but wanting to be something else is all you really need.

aceofsquiddles

#wait so ur telling me#‘i dont want to have a gender’#can mean#‘i dont have a gender??’ I would also like to know… for reasons

accept-nothing

Confirmed. How to know you’re agender: You don’t want to be anything else. You look at the options for gender and gender presentation and decide to go back to bed

aceofsquiddles

Bold of you to assume I got out of bed

Nah but seriously thanks for the insight

avon-vila

So, if I look at gender and say “this is some bullshit and I want no part of it”, I guess that makes me agender?

saint-batrick

if that’s how you wanna identify, yeah.

feeling anything mentioned in this post doesn’t mean you have to identify as trans, but feeling anything in this post is literally all that’s necessary to identify as trans if you want to.

fuck gatekeepers forever.

zim-kinnie

👏if👏you👏don't👏feel👏cis👏you're👏possibly👏not👏cis👏

hasenfu

i mean this is literally what jvn said

deathcomes4u

This is one of those things where you can go 25+ years of your life not realising that actually no not everyone secretly wishes they were some mashup of male and female and that you are, in fact, genderfluid as fuck.

kyraneko

You can want to be the other gender.

You can want to be another gender.

You can want to divorce all connection to the gender you were born into.

You can want to keep it as an origin point that shapes your journey.

You can want to be more than one gender at once.

You can want to be more than one gender, at different times.

You can want to be no gender.

You can want to be sort of in between genders.

You can want to be both genders.

You can want to be rid of gendered body parts you already have.

You can want to keep gendered body parts while also being another gender.

You can want to be rid of them but not want the side effects of excising them.

You can feel dysphoria at being shaped like/viewed as/treated like a gender you don’t want.

You can feel euphoria at being shaped like/viewed as/treated like a gender you do want.

You can change your mind or adjust your goals or refine your wishes.

You can be stationary and fixed in your identity.

You can be fluid and changing.

You can be extremely gendered in your presentation.

You can be not very gendered in your presentation.

You can be androgynous.

You can be a little of both.

You can be a lot of both.

If gender is a line you can cross, as the words trans (across/on the other side of) and cis (here/on the same side of) indicate, you can cross it in any way you like, including dancing on top of it.

Be happy.

Be you.

violetwylde

This is an extremely affirming post.

silks-stuff

Bless tumblr for posts like this, because even though I’m older than a lot of people here this stuff still applies, in a way moreso because it’s stuff that I never had the opportunity to process in my actual childhood. So I’m processing it now. And this shit really helps, so thanks.

darklingduke

There's also the option that you can want to be a different gender, and you're not. Say, for example, you're AMAB, and you want to be something else. You don't want to be cis. So you explore your gender, you identify as female for a while, you identify as nonbinary, as agender. And none of them fit. None of them feel right to you. Because being trans is more than just "I want to be a different gender."

It's gotta fit you right. Can't force yourself into a gender just because you don't wanna be that gender.

(I promise I'm not gatekeeping, I'm just trying to help youths who wanna be trans and see this post and then are wondering why nothing fits. It is possible to not like your gender. But as long as you identify with it, and it feels like it is your gender, then there's not much you can do about it. Y ou don't choose your gender, unfortunately.)

gunsandfireandshit

John Green and his brother were created as part of a secret government program that aimed to create the world's first youth pastor for atheists

illustratus

Head of Dionysus, the god of wine, uncovered in an archaeological dig in the ancient city of Aizanoi, Turkey

spoonwizardd

gender is a performance and im getting heckled by those old gay muppets

milkflys

moonlights-shadow-warrior

squad-of-idiots

Kirishima: what'd you think of our first date?

Bakugou: it was good, i enjoyed it

Kirishima: would you say you had a...blast?

Bakugou:

Kirishima:

Bakugou:

Kirishima: i'll just shut up now

Bakugou: good idea

dear-ao3

#everything ive ever written

insanelyadd

Introducing! #LetSansRest Day on August 9th!

Hello I'm the creator of Let Papyrus Say Fuck Day and I have decided to make another holiday. :D

ARE YOU A FAN OF SANS UNDERTALE? Or at the very least are you tired of every image you see of Sans being one where he's being crushed to death with a Boulder of Angst? Do you think Sans should get a day off from being an Orb Of Suffering? Then I have the new Day for you!

#LetSansRest Day!

A day to draw Sans not being sad or existentially tormented! He's having a good time. A nice quiet moment to enjoy.

Fun prompts to inspire you:

Sans sleeping in a flamingo pool floaty going around a lazy river

Sans drinking cocoa and laying on an ottoman in front of a fireplace

Sans holding a baby animal of some kind at a petting zoo perhaps

Sans has fallen asleep in a laundry basket of freshly dried clothes

Sans sitting on his porch and drinking tea while watching the sun rise

If you must draw Sans crying to sustain your life force then if you participate in this day it has to be HAPPY crying or perhaps tears from laughing too hard.

This is meant to be a day for everyone who wants Sans undertale to go to therapy and feel better. People who want to put him in a hamster cage with plenty of things to prank for enrichment. People who want to win him one of those massive stuffed animals at the county fair.

If you want to participate please be mindful of some things:

I will be monitoring the tag to reblog things! I have ptsd and would appreciate if ships involving Papyrus or Frisk (and similar) with Sans are avoided. This is simply for my mental health and I greatly appreciate it. <3

Do Not post angst to the #LetSansRest tag. It is meant to be an angst free tag for him

Don't worry if you can't participate on the exact day! Just like with #LetPapyrusSayFuck Day you can use the tag and post to it any day! :>

Hope you're able to participate and have fun! <3

balkansoul-deactivated20220924

oh i’m “problematic”? name at least three problems i’ve caused

serial-kissing

humanmessofaperson

Oh good god it's gotten worse

Okay, so I just saw a tiktok saying "hey, ao3 is not tiktok. Do not censor words, especially in the tags." I stg people are losing brain cells. The tiktoker then proceeded to show an example of the tag they saw which was:

"s..cidal ideation"

I don't know who needs to, once again, hear this, but you are stopping the tagging system, and filtration system from working.

People censor words on platforms like tiktok to stop the algorithm from picking up their video and automatically taking it down or restricting it.

A tagging system works so that other people can easily filter the content they do and don't want to see. So if some had "suicidal ideation" in their filtered tags so that they won't see things containing that subject matter, by censoring the word suicidal, you have now stopped the tagging/filtration system from working and now the individual is going to see content that they had made sure to filter out.

Please stop censoring words and/or phrases. Especially in tags. You are literally stopping the system from working and doing its job. Ao3 (and Tumblr) is not tiktok. The tags are there for a reason. Don't censor them.