A Showcase of Male Submissives

A showcase of proud and happy male submissives, bottoms, and s-types who love submitting! For those who are tired of all their /m porn having indistinguishable men who look like somebody just kicked their puppy. Featuring posts about proud male subs, happy male subs, diverse male subs, and amateur male subs. Any personal anecdotes or photos welcomed with open arms. var sc_project=10908830; var sc_invisible=1; var sc_security="4c6018a6"; var scJsHost = (("https:" == document.location.protocol) ? "https://secure." : "http://www."); document.write("");

[annaofthebeyond-deactivated2018]

Male subs need to learn how to beg. I mean, seriously, you call that begging? Do you even know what you want to beg me for? Because I don’t see it in your body language or your actions, I don’t hear it from the words you choose. On the contrary, you’re still able to think so much of your vanity and pride that you can consciously choose words… They have to come from your innermost soul. Without forethought. Rip your heart open for me. Beg me, slave! Louder! No, you’re not in a position to demand anything from me, it’s obvious, that you didn’t get that! That’s why you have to learn what it means to beg a superior.

Beg me, show me your humility, show me you know your place, show me you know who’s able to grant you your hearts desire. Man! You’re not even near where begging begins. You don’t just “tell me” what you want. You damn well beg for your life, if I want you to!

[superegomaniac]

Hot.

[girlsrule-subsdrool]

People underestimate how difficult it is to really open yourself up to truly, deeply beg.

[superegomaniac]

Okay, but there’s more to it than that.  If you want someone to beg like that, you need to give someone the space to do it.

I’ll cut my heart open for you, if that’s what you want.  If that’s what you need.  But first you have to give me a room to do it in that’s clean and safe.

[containes-deactivated20140129]

[asubmissivestory]

There’s nothing in “the book” that says one can’t mix romance with D/s. The best romantic relationship I ever had was also the best D/s relationship. There was love, there was lots of romance, and there was a lot of whips and torture and pain. But the play always ended in beautiful moments where we’d cuddle in bed, talk about what we’d just done and share secrets that we’d never shared with anyone else. That kind of intimacy was the desert that topped off the meal.

[hshshxhxhxhhx]

• Using your safeword does not make you a bad sub.

• Not enjoying a certain act (i.e. tying up, pain play, etc) does not make you a bad sub.

• Not sharing the same kinks as your dom(s) does not make you a bad sub.

• Asserting your wants, needs and/or triggers does not make you a bad sub.

• Stopping a scene entirely and not wanting to continue does not make you a bad sub.

Bdsm is supposed to be fun. You can stop or alter things to suit your comfort. It’s ok to do this.

Any dom that tells you otherwise is a bad dom.

[bone-and-brawn]

Men: Your Consent Matters Too

Fellas, listen.

You don’t have to do anything sexual that you’re not interested in. Moreover, you don’t have to explain why. “No” is a complete sentence.

Not interested in getting pegged? You don’t have to. Monogamous and not into the idea of another partner? Okay. Not sure about period sex? Cool.

And if your partner decides to question or mock your maturity or your masculinity or your sexuality because you say no? It’s time to re-evaluate the relationship. See if you don’t deserve better than that.

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️

[pleasurewhore-deactivated201802]

The Disparity of Humiliation

Humiliation is a statement about how willing I am to debase myself for him. It’s about the contrast with who I otherwise am. I don’t get wet when he calls me a worthless cumslut because I believe I am lacking value, I get wet when he calls me a worthless cumslut because he’s pointing out to me how low I am willing to go for him. He knows I’m an accomplished woman, worthy of being treasured, and that it’s only for him that I will lower myself to ‘’worthless’’ cumslut in order to please.

When drool drips down my chin, when I spread my ass open to his gaze, and when I perform acts for him I can barely speak, they are statements about the lengths I will go to for his pleasure. These moments recognize the disparity between the me that belongs to the rest of the world, and the me that belongs to him

[girlsrule-subsdrool]

Reverse the genders and this is a perfect explanation of my feelings

[darker-ideas]

This!

I’m very much not into being told I’m worthless. I have self esteem issue that can be rather difficult to deal with. But I’m happy to debase myself for someone else when the motivation behind it is more about my willingness to be low for them than about just being lesser. 

This same kind of motivational scheme is why I like foot worship at all. Feet are, in themselves, just not sexy to me. I dont ever see a foot and go “damn, them some sexy toes.” But worshiping the lowest and most easily overlooked part of someone? Being willing to get on your knees and lower yourself? Being so into them that you want to show them every single part is important to you?

That’s kinda awesome. 

[proudhappymalesubs]

Proud, happy, and humiliated can all go together

[lace-deactivated]

A hot concept to me:

Having my sub gagged and naked, and have them follow me around the house on all fours for a couple hours. They’d have to kneel beside me when I cook or when I work on my desk or watch TV on the couch. They’d only be allowed to stand when they have to go to the bathroom, and I’d only take out the gag when I spontaneously want to feel their eager tongue between my legs or when I decide it’s time for them to kiss my boots, or each finger of my hand to show their devotion for their Queen.

And after the pre-set amount of time - if they were good and behaved well - I’ll choose their favourite way to get off and reward them with one or maybe even two orgasms, followed by a loving session of aftercare.

[girlsrule-subsdrool]

One single visible sign of boredom, and this would be their duty for a month. Can you be that devoted for a few hours? Think about it. It’s no easy task.

[msubsuggestions]

Not going to lie, I am intrigued by the idea of extended scenes like this which reinforce the power dynamic but don’t totally overwhelm you with kink.

Not that long scenes that totally overwhelm you with kink aren’t also intriguing, mind you.  They are also very much my jam.  But something about just being allowed to live in, to inhabit my submission…  It’s enough to get me a little shivery thinking about it!

[proudhappymalesubs]

"Inhabit my submission" is an awesome phrase

[paradisoestremo-deactivated2019]

[xprincessmolly-blog]

when your sub is begging you for something and you kinda just want to give in because they’re too damn cute:

[nerdy-domme]

To be fair, the excited face whenever I say yes to something that I’m asked is also worth it.

[girlsrule-subsdrool]

If one of your followers was doing locktober, how would you advise / tell them to make their self cum on the 1st of November?

I would say sorry but I’m not interested in chastity as a kink

[jon-carcosa]

I think this is interesting to hear for men interested in submission. The online trifecta of male submission is cocklocking, sissification, and cuckoldry. While these are all certainly valid kinks, for many couples in D/s relationships the submission doesn’t have to revolve around the male’s emasculation. Sure those are some good ways to remove the male’s power but for many women it is hotter for the male to submit in spite of his masculinity rather than because it was removed. I of course leave it to individual women to decide what they think is hot and to work that out with their partner.

[proudhappymalesubs]

An interesting post, since it can certainly seems that way online. However out of the 50+ Dommes I've met and talked to at actual real life events, the vast minority were into any of those three fetishes.

Like you say, they're very valid kinks for those (Dommes and subs) who like them... but there are many many many many more ways to live out a femdom dynamic.

[girlsrule-subsdrool]

Seeking DC - area Dommes in the 18 to 35 year old age range.

Message me! I’m trying to restart my (casual, vanilla meeting places) monthly group for femdom…. but I have a waiting list of 50+ men and zero Dommes. Newbies are welcome.

Please share and reblog!

[lifeinpoetry]

He looks at me and I want more.

My heart is a snaking vine. And god,

I want more.

— Karese Burrows, from “He,” This Is How We Lost Each Other

[paradisoestremo-deactivated2019]

[lonely-gfd-cutie]

Get you a freak...

who right in the middle of an intense scene will check on you to make sure she’s not hurting you (too bad) and that you still feel safe. 

[msubsuggestions]

Honestly, as a submissive, when my dominant checks in with me during a scene, it helps me to feel safe and cared for.  

Sometimes this can be an explicit question about the scene, like “How are you doing?  Is this too much?  Are your legs still okay?  Is it okay if I keep hitting you there?”  Sometimes it can be a question about your safewords, like “Do you remember your safewords, pet?  Do you need to use one?”  I have actually tossed out a Yellow in response to this prompting because it helped me to realize that I was cramping up from being tied in one position for a long time.  

Checking in doesn’t stick out as jarring or take me out of subspace or anything like that.  It just reminds me that the person doing things to me cares about my wellbeing and is worthy of my trust and my devotion.  It inspires me to take more for them if I feel I can safely do so.

So please, if you are a dominant, check in with your submissive from time to time.  If you are a submissive, don’t be afraid to speak up if you need to.  Be safe, and have fun!

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

Where do I start?

Look at how confident, and downright radiant, he looks.

Look at how happy and beyond proud she looks.

This picture is pushing so many of my buttons at once. It warms my heart in ways I can barely explain…

A man, a sub, in lingerie is SO fucking beautiful! A man, a sub, in lingerie is a sight to behold..

Never ever will I get tired of looking at my babyboy. My beautiful boy 😍

I dedicate this post to all my followers who are as much into this as I am.

[creativesubuniverse-deactivated]

the leash of freedom

Go ahead, get down on your knees, with that collar around your neck, with that leash in her hands, with nothing but eagerness, and you’ll find out - despite the unlikelihood - what true freedom means. The mad, exciting freedom your soul’s been craving all along. Submit, and leave it all behind. You’re hers, all hers, and nothing else matters. Not anymore.

(image taken from here)

[sensualspiral]

Are Submissive men weak?

I was asked today what is it about submissive men I like, are they not weak? So here are my thoughts about this…. outside of the fantasy of the internet or the male constructed image of what a dominant woman is…..

A truly submissive man is rarely weak in any sense, nor are they lazy, or stupid or a doormat.

Relationships, connections with and submission from a submissive man come in many forms., Here are my experiences, observations and the traits I like.

1. Often very intelligent, life’s thinkers… this appeals to me, clever minds need to be switched off. They also usually appreciate a clever woman and are not threatened by that.

2. True gentleman, they open doors for you, pull back chairs in restaurants, give you their coat if you are cold. I personally love this, it makes you feel looked after.

3. Your pleasure is theirs ….. this covers a wide range of things from making you laugh to making you orgasm, usually giving in nature rather than taking. There is nothing hotter than a man finding happiness, pleasure or arousal, by facilitating yours. They are usually appreciate being guided or for a woman to take the lead completely, without seeing it as Criticism or some kind of assault on their masculinity. Getting laid is not usually high on their agenda, getting you off usually is.

4. They see the beauty you have inside and out and usually put greater value on the beauty inside.

5. They appreciate the things you do for them, and notice when you do.

6. They love making you feel better or good. Usually they notice when your not feeling good too and do their best to help.

7. They are Attentive -Foot rubs, massages, bringing you coffee, stuff that just needs doing. They usually like to talk, share dreams, ideas and generally just spend time with you.

8. They will take over when you need them to… they understand that need and even the most Dominant of dommes need to just check out sometimes, submissive men will help you do that, simply because that’s what you need …. they like to meet your needs.

9. They are usually very passionate, about life, their interests, you!

10. They like to be showered with affection and praise and will do things to get that.

11. Hold you in high regard and tell you so, the love and devotion a submissive man will express to his chosen dominant is a beautiful thing.

12. They are comfortable with their masculinity and their submission, they adore the dominance of femininity.

13. Usually fans of a corseted woman, a big plus for me.

14. Usually protective of their dominant, they usually insist that others treat their lady with the same respect they do.

15. Often sensitive and feeling

16. Value cuddles and intimacy

17. Thoughtful gift givers, even if the gift is their time.

18. They worship you, this can take many forms from kissing your feet to telling you they feel lucky to be in your life.

19. Motivated, usually in most aspects in life, life’s doers.

20. They are not intimidated by your confidence, sexuality, success, ambition, achievements, they usually find that a turn on.

I could go on and on, but I find no weakness in a submissive man. Quite the opposite - I see strength in someone knowing what makes them happy, is confident to ignore the stereotype of “manly” behaviour, has complete respect for women and sees my needs equal to or greater than his own…

I give thanks to the universe for creating such a glorious creature as the submissive man and I’m sure many other dominant women do to!

[proudhappymalesubs]

This is just one possible list of traits- but I agree, when I think male sub, I definitely don't think weak! I think they're stronger in some ways that me, in fact.

[submissivegames-deactivated2018]

The Princess and the Pea

“I need a tuck-in!”

The call from the bedroom would have confused anyone that didn’t know us. We don’t have kids. That was my wife calling from the other end of the house in a sing-sing voice. 

I got up from my desk and padded barefoot down the hall to the door and paused to stare at her. 

She had tossed all the covers aside and my eyes traveled up her sexy bare legs to the pink nightie that accented her hourglass figure, and up to her hair held in some loose pigtails of all things. She looked adorable, beautiful, and sexy all at once and my brain tripped on itself, unsure of how to process it all. 

She looked up from her phone and must have recognized what she saw there and liked it. A delighted and mischievous grin spread across her face. Her legs moved, rubbing against each other, drawing my attention and instantly exciting me. 

“booooy…. I need a tuck-ins and a goodnight kiss. I’m getting up early tomorrow.”, She said, and after a brief pause placed a finger on her forehead, letting me know it wasn’t ‘that kind’ of kiss goodnight that she wanted tonight. 

I was a little disappointed, but also a little relived. I did love kissing her goodnight between her legs for as long as she liked before she fell asleep. 

As I pulled up the blankets though and kissed her forehead, her hand flashed out and grabbed the front of my sweats, giving a squeeze and making me wince, the spikes in the silicone chastity cage biting into the head of my penis. 

She giggled at my reaction, “Thought so! The pea is all locked up tonight for princess!” 

I blushed and finished tucking her in, feeling myself swelling in the cage. It was a new favorite game of hers, guessing when I was in the cage and calling me out on it. 

“Don’t stay up too late playing!”, She said, squirming deeper into the blankets, still giggling. I gave her a pat on the bottom beneath the blankets as she turned beneath them. 

“I won’t. Just going to knock out a few games.”, I replied as I turned off the lights and left the room. 

Or, that had been my plan before I’d tucked her in. Now as I sat down at my computer I was considering tumblr, and if I was feeling masochistic or not. 

I had put the cage on after my shower for no more reason than because it was there. I didn’t really have a game plan, but one was starting to form. Two hours? Unless someone contacted me and ‘persuaded’ me to leave it on longer?

So I know what you’re thinking. What on earth is the story here? Is she my Domme? An I a slave, sub, or what? How is it that I’m deciding how long to keep the cage on?

Doesn’t fit in with your typical story, does it? Sort of breaks the norms and goes all over the place. But then, I think that’s what we’ve come to love it. 

See, she’s submissive, a bit of a little, sometimes a brat or a princess. 

While I’m a switch, sadist, masochist, caretaker. 

Seems like it would be a lot to deal with, a lot of crossed wires, but as we’ve come to know that we don’t have to slot ourselves into these porn story roles we’ve both been happier. 

I can be a caretaker for a brat while wearing a spiked chastity cage myself. 

I can kiss my princess goodnight between her legs seemingly subservient, but grab her legs and hold her beneath my tongue until I’ve forced so many orgasms from her that she passes out instantly after. 

She can feel taken care of ‘and’ owned, while at the same time giggle as I blush because She’s read a submissive post I’m writing over my shoulder. 

She can do the laundry in nothing but an apron, a good little girl, while I do the dishes in nothing at all, an attentive sub. 

The power play is there, but it’s such small shifts, so incredibly intimate, and yet all the more powerful for it. 

She gets to be the little, the sub, the brat, while I get to be the sadist, the slave, and the caretaker and somehow it all works. 

Who says you can’t have your cake and eat it too?

Ignore the roles, ignore the lines in the sand, and do what makes you both feel good. That’s what’s important. 

Have fun with it.

[proudhappymalesubs]

Make your own dynamic!