The Only Way To Know Is Ask
The only way to find out what someone wants or what someone's fantasy is is to ask them. Straight up. My go-to questions for breaking the ice are "What are you thinking about?" or "What's on your mind?". It always sounds genuine like I'm really curious. Some other good options to get the client talking are "What's up?" "How are you doing?" "What are you up to?"
These questions are great for several reasons. First and foremost, it breaks the ice. Second, it gives you a relative idea of what the client's mindset is. Do they want to have some pillow-talk beforehand or do they just want to skip to the dirty talk?
Sometimes you'll get a client who's called phone sex before and they explain exactly what they want. But, oftentimes, you get someone who doesn't want to give you anything to go on. They just refuse to talk to you. And, more often than not, you get clients who are somewhere in the middle.
For now, let's focus on those somewhere in the middle. I can do another blog about non-talkers at a later time.
Let's say you get a client who says "I wanna be your cuck bitch". Okay, there are so many things this could mean and that's why this makes a great example.
There are so many things that being a cuck could mean. A lot of times, BBC comes to mind, but that's not always the case. Some people don't care about race as long as the cock is bigger.
Some cucks want to watch, some wanna be locked in chastity, some just wanna know about it, some want to participate. There are also varying degrees of humiliation that could come into play. And, still, some don't want any.
You should never assume what someone wants just because you've had other cuck calls in the past or you know what a cuck is. This definition is different for different people.
So, asking questions is super important. Not only does it give you a better feel for what the fantasy is, but it also gives you a more in-depth look at the client. It's also not a bad tactic to get them to extend the call, either.
If a client says "I'm a cuck bitch" then you should ask some questions. Don't be afraid to do that. You're a PSO, not a psychic.
Some good ones you may want to consider using are "What does being a cuck bitch mean to you?" It's also important that you reiterate things the client says to you exactly as they say them. It shows you're listening and hearing them.
I usually come right out and ask what I want to know directly but still remain conversational. "So, do you wanna watch, Name?" "Yeah, well, maybe I should lock you up, first." And, then you "read the room" so to speak.
Gaige their responses to the things you say. If they seem a little reluctant or unsure, change tact. "Or, maybe I should just put you in a corner and tell you not to touch yourself."
These may seem like statements, but it's all about the tone you use.
Remember, you're there to provide a service and that service is making your client happy. And, what you think a cuck should be is almost assuredly not what the client thinks a cuck should be. So, just ask if you're ever unsure of anything. They will thank you for it because it shows you care about their experience and about them.
Speaking of questions, my Ask Box is open for anyone who wants to ask anything.
Good luck!