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[psychemoss]

Sorry I haven’t been active much, I’ve got a lot going on in my personal life. Hoping I can get back to posting soon. And here’s a reminder that I do a bit more on my TikTok!

[psychemoss]

I disappeared from all my main accounts for over half a year and now I don’t know how to do social media someone help I feel like an old man 

[psychemoss]

i hate terminology for aspd and npd because everything in it is just... bitter.

i hate that ‘psycho/sociopath’ is the only way people can know what you mean when you say you’re antisocial or have aspd.

i hate that ‘antisocial’ was taken over by prosocials.

i hate having to say that the most respectful word when referring to a narcissist online is pwnpd because everything else is too hard to spell or has negative connotation.

i hate that ‘narc’ is offensive and is almost always used in an extremely weaponized way.

i hate that we’ve been so removed as people from the average person’s mind they have to be reminded that we’re people when they speak of us. we’re human and we shouldn’t have to carefully watch other’s language to know when we are respected.

[psychemoss]

i am at a party. “watch this!” i say, standing up. my heartrate increases 50 beats per minute and i faint. everyone claps

[psychemoss]

do you prefer moss or eco

I prefer to go by Moss, ‘The Eco System’ is just a pun system name for us that we mostly use for ourselves! Thanks for asking!

[psychemoss]

Me adding another post to the 49 drafts I have: One day when I have spoons the world will see my genius :>

[psychemoss]

Hi, I'm interested in organizing an anthology about cluster B experiences (with cluster B contributors only ofc) and am currently trying to gauge interest. Would you be willing to share this poll with your followers?: polljunkie(.)com/poll/tejtpz/cluster-b-anthology

sure, if anyone wants to fill this out go ahead :)

[your-aspd-dad]

To conclude this year’s Cluster B Appreciation Week,

Happy Cluster B Creators Day!

[June 7th, 2021]

Today is a day for those in the Cluster B community who are creators, be it that they make art, writing, or otherwise, as well as to celebrate characters we feel represent us accurately, canonically or not. If you’re Cluster B (or have a Cluster B creator you want to promo!), feel free to reblog or comment on this post to promote your blogs, patreons, or otherwise! In addition, thank you to anyone who took time this week to participate! Love you all!

- Mod Moss

[psychemoss]

If anyone wants to support me, in my carrd I have listed my Patreon and other socials! Other than doing social activism I’m trying to become an independent game dev and I’d appreciate any donations!

[your-aspd-dad]

I forgot to prepare and now the day is almost completely over everywhere, but

Happy Cluster B Support Day!

[June 6th, 2021]

Today’s supposed to be about sharing resources for Cluster Bs, whether it’s tips for coping or actually good studies, but I didn’t do that in time... I’ll see if I can find some old posts I’ve made about it to reblog. I’m so sorry! If anyone wants to share resources for Cluster Bs in the reblogs, feel free!

- Mod Moss

[psychemoss]

Why do coincidences.... yeah

[your-aspd-dad]

Happy Cluster B Comorbidity Day!

[June 5th, 2021]

Cluster B disorders rarely occur alone. Having any personality disorder can make you high risk for developing a second, particularly within the same cluster. Today is for Cluster B people with multiple pds, Cluster Bs who are also psychotic, Cluster Bs who have systems, Cluster Bs who have just a few other disorders and Cluster Bs who have many others. Each and every one of you are valid and important.

- Mod Moss

[your-aspd-dad]

Happy Histrionic Appreciation Day!

[June 4th, 2021]

HPD tends to be forgotten or written off during discussions about Cluster B. Today is a day for the people with HPD, and to acknowledge the validity of their diagnosis.

Dear Tumblr histrionics, it’s okay to live your life for you.

It’s alright to respect yourself and your bodily autonomy.

You don’t have to put yourself out there to deserve to be happy, and it doesn’t make you manipulative to seek out attention!

Each one of you is so brilliant and fantastic in your own right.

I hope you have a beautiful day!

- Mod Moss

[your-aspd-dad]

Happy Borderline Appreciation Day!

[June 3rd, 2021]

BPD’s taken to receiving mixed feelings from the mental health community. Today is a day for those with BPD, to see both how far acceptance has come and to bring hope for more in future.

Dear Tumblr borderlines, your emotions are valid.

You aren’t weak or pathetic. 

Reaching out to others doesn’t make you bad or abusive!

I know it’s hard sometimes, but I also know you’re capable of getting through it!

I hope you all have a lovely rest of your day.

- Mod Moss

[your-aspd-dad]

Happy Antisocial Appreciation Day!

[June 2, 2021]

ASPD is almost always conflated with extreme criminal versatility. Today is a day to recognize and appreciate those with ASPD and acknowledge that there is more to our disorder than just that.

With that said,

Dear Tumblr antisocials, your disorder does not choose your path for you.

You are able to be in charge of your choices.

Remorselessness does not mean you’re inherently bad, lack of conscience doesn’t mean you can’t do great things.

I’ve seen how hard some of you try, and I’m so proud to be a part of this community.

I hope today is a great one for you!

- Mod Moss

[your-aspd-dad]

Happy NPD Appreciation Day!

NPD is commonly getting the short end of the stick in recovery spaces. Today is a day dedicated to those with NPD, because they deserve a place in this world too.

That having been said;

Dear Narcissists of Tumblr, we see you.

No matter what people say, you are not inherently abusive.

You are capable of recovery, and it’s okay to struggle. It doesn’t make you lesser to need help every now and then.

You are able to do so much and I can’t wait to see how you succeed!

I hope you have a fantastic day, and I wish you the best of luck in your journeys, wherever they may take you.

- Mod Moss

[real-uwu-hours]

Question for my npd followers: do yall consider the term ‘narc’ offensive or anything? Like when I say it it’s literally just because my dyslexic ass can’t figure out how to spell narccissist SEE? I CAN’T DO IT HSBDNNF

[superrglue]

I can't reply from this blog but as a narcopath w dyslexia same and also it seems a lot of other narcissists call themselves narcs too :-)

[real-uwu-hours]

Yea I wasn’t sure if it was reclaiming or something? I don’t have npd (I’m aspd and bpd bitch) so I wanted to make sure I wasn’t insulting yall on yall’s awareness day LOL

[psychemoss]

I just realized I commented instead of reblogging---narc is largely considered an offensive term (though many do reclaim and a lot consider other Cluster B’s allowed to use the term), a better universally allowable term for shortening is pwNPD (”people with NPD”)!

[psychemoss]

I saw your autism facts post (good post) but in your card, you refer to autism as ASD and describe it using deficit-based, pathologizing language. Is that how you see yourself as an autistic person or is that simply outdated?

Hello! I'll admit I’m not extremely familiar with what my intent was with each of the descriptions there (amnesia, unfortunately)---I’m relatively certain that I chose “ASD” over “autism” to try to make it better match how I shortened the names of the other disorders in the list and that’s about as far as I can figure there. I do want to update it now that it’s been brought to my attention so I might spend some time working on that soon!