❀ Valerian -> V or Val(e) for short
❀ Transmasc -> he/it
[they/them is also okay]
❀ Bodily 18
❀ any gender can interact I love them all
[tho i will probably post mostly mlm & t4t things]
❀ virgin puppy sub with an oral fixation from hell
[top or bottom but always subby <3]
❀ I physically cant cum might be anti depressants, or autism or trauma, idknow but i just cant sooo
❀ slighttt Masochist & paraphile
❀ MDNI -> this means bodily minors
❀ DNI anyone who thinks actual minors and animals can consent
[other then that no dni follow your own]
❀ i do reblog blood and dark kinks untagged so be wary <3
❀ praise me please please please please
❀ discord -> puppyvalerian
❀ asks, anons, and dms are completely welcome and open to anything!!! Please pleaseeee send me anything on my knees begging for attention
[i will almost always respond buuut im not always around so you might have to wait a day or two sorry <3]
-> I dont send photos but I *may* post things from time to time and if I like you enough maybe youll get some too <3
anon list: 💮, 🐶, 🖤, ❔
Tags
I queue a lot of posts btw with “this post is queued”
#❀mutt barking -> my posts
#❀val things -> pics or audios and such that feature me
#❀biting you -> reblogs
#❀barking at you -> answering asks
#❀puppy barking -> anything i do when regressed both sfw and nsfw (reblogs, posts, and answers) so filter this out if you dont want to seeeee
Extra
❀ have DID wont talk about it on this blog but just know im very traumatized so give me a break sometimes <3 but this does mean im not around all the time if im not posting off a queue im probably not around
❀ I’m literally just a punk goth teenager and/or a dog feel free to treat me like one
❀ Things you can call me -> pup, puppy, dog, doggy, mutt, pet, kid, etc
[Anything masc or neu, degrading or not, including slurs]
❀ I sometimes regress -> my regression can either be sfw or nsfw, mind the tags <3 [if nsfw my kinks/paras and limits stay the same but I do prefer nicer/sweeter treatment then]
❀ Anatomy terms -> genuinely anything idmind!
Kinks/Paras
[green means favorite]
❀ pet play -> again I’m just a dog/pup
❀ ownership, collaring, stuff like that -> just the dog stuff again pft
❀ power dynamics -> like teacher and probably other specifics in this list pfft
❀ cnc/dubcon
❀ intox/forced intox
❀ forcemasc
❀ rape/noncon
❀ primal play
❀ teeth/biting -> (giving & recieving) again oral fixation
❀ overstim
❀ voice kink -> its soooo stronggg love voices smuch
❀ abuse -> emotional/physical/sexual
❀ pain play
❀ impact play -> i just want to be slapped pft
❀ hematolagnia/blood play
❀ wound play
❀ bondage
❀ corruption
❀ asphyxiation/choking
❀ praise
❀ degration
❀ conditioning/coercion/manipulation
❀ boot worship @///@
❀ autassassinophilia
❀ knotting -> not k9
❀ somno
❀ hoplophilia/weapon play -> anything except guns
❀ self harm -> this is mainly cutting for me but techncially includes like self impact play pft
i'm pro-recovery for self harm and i only make text post about cutting but will show pictures if asked specifically
❀ fauxcest -> drooling over dads and big brothers
❀ size difference
❀ embarrassment
❀ humping @///@
❀ dumbification -> i like being a dumb mutt
❀ dehumanization
soft limits
-> stuff im kind of into but only with certain people and certain ways so ill still post about it just keep this in mind
❀ guns
❀ religion/worship/god stuff
❀ bladder control -> just for the control aspect
❀ spit & other bodily fluids -> not on face & no piss
❀ breeding -> not pregnancy, i have tokophobia so careful with this
❀ free use
❀ stalking/kidnap
❀ hypno/brainwashing
❀ Mindbreak
❀ forced regression
Limits
-> you interact if you are into this stuff im just not! and i filter most tags that are related to them!
❀ scat
❀ feederism
❀ emeto/vomit
❀ vore
❀ raceplay
❀ feet
❀ ab/dl
❀ K9 stuff
❀ piss
❀ musk -> im sorry all my musk enjoyers but my sensory issues can not handle it </3
Of course all lists are subject to change
If a kink doesn’t appear on any of these lists it probably means im neutral, forgot it, or haven’t heard of it. Feel free to ask me!
like who has been putting all this pressure on you to get you in this state? nobody should be doing that, you're just a sweet dumb pup. if there's one thing i can't stand it's animal cruelty.
so c'mere pup, let me get a good look at you. oh, no, that's no good at all. you look like you've been running the streets for days, maybe weeks. never even knowing where your next meal is coming from. that's way too much weight to carry on such little shoulders. yes, this is for you. go on. you can sniff it, you can eat it right up. that's a good puppy. wow, you were hungry, huh?
well, that's one problem dealt with. now we'd better put you in the tub and get you all wet and warm and soapy. doesn't that feel so nice? aww, so cute - yeah, go ahead, you can chew on my hands a little, i don't mind. no, sh sh sh, it's okay, don't be scared. you didn't hurt me and i'm not mad at you. i like a pup who gets a little over excited. you're doing just fine.
okay, let's get you out of here and get you dry. here comes the big fluffy towel. don't want you catching cold, so we'll sit on the rug in front of the fire until you're dry. i know it's so difficult to keep from squirming when you've got all that puppy energy inside you, but that's okay. that's why i'm here to hold you bundled up tight and make sure you stay nice and still. here, have a finger to chomp on to take your mind off the wriggles. that's it. you're doing so well. such a good puppy.
oh. what's this? puppy's nethers are looking all swollen. is puppy sick? does puppy need attention? if i touch puppy gently, will it - oh, puppy looks so confused. such a very wriggly puppy now. good thing i've got you all bundled up in this towel so you can't hurt yourself. it's alright. i just need to make sure there's nothing the matter down here. touching puppy so carefully, so gently, trying to figure out what the issue is. hm, puppy seems to like that a little bit, huh? that's a good sign. tells me there's not any injury or pain.
hush now, puppy. there's nothing you need to do. is that special stroking making you feel all calm and droopy? yes, no more wriggly puppy limbs now. that's a good pup. you can just let it feel nice, and let yourself go all floaty, and maybe gradually start to fall asleep. the fire is so warm and it's so nice to be wrapped up tight in a towel and chewing on fingers with your puppy parts getting all achey and tingly-sweet, isn't it?
that's right, puppy. close your eyes. chewing slower now. forgetting for a moment, and then chewing again, and then forgetting again. just drifting. such a sweet puppy. so cute now you're all clean and warm and sleepy. tomorrow i'll give you a collar you can be proud of. you're going to look so smart and dapper in it. i'm going to take very, very good care of you. you'll see.
ahhhhhh!! i need this real life soooo much pleaseeeee please ill leave me door open i promise! pleaseee this would be so much better wish i could just be a puppy
what is this pfftt you always say? it sounds like asthma or a balloon squeezing out air. maybies you are obsessively farting with your mouth? what are you trying to express? nobody is talking like that for reals. is it a tick? do you have other ticks like squeezing your eyes shut and jerking your shoulder? it could be tourrette syndrome. is it? did i guess right? that is so cool!
pft its like a laugh! like the start of a laugh kind of, idknow where I got it frommm, probably saw someone else use it once and stole ot pfft and no its not a tic, i dont have any tics and i dont have tourrettes syndrome thats a weird thing to assume based on a small typing thing i dooooo
J = Jack Off: How often do you masturbate and what’s your favorite way to do so?
likeeee once a month if that pfftt and I enjoy like rubbing & humping kind of stuff just non-penetration related is my fav!
M = Medical: Have you ever done any kind of medical play? Share stories!
U = Uncut: Do you have a preference or are all cocks built equally?
no preference! <3
Y = Yuri & Yaoi: Are you in to it? Does 2d get you going?
I like yaoi! but i dont usually read it, just see it on here sometimes pfftt but i wouldnt say it gets me going pfft (but to be fair thats kind of hard to do)
A = Anal: Is Anal more fun than frontal penetration?
B = Brat: How obedient do you like people to be in the bedroom? Is disobeying fun?
C = Cum: Turn on, turn off, or favorite?
D = Denial: How long can you edge before it can’t be taken it anymore?
E = Exhibitionism: Do you like being seen getting off? Ever done anything explicitly hoping to get caught?
F = Fucking Machines: Have you ever had a chance to ride a fucking machine? Would you?
G = Glory Hole: Would you ever go to a glory hole? Have you been to one?
H = Humiliation: Do you like to humiliate/be humiliated? Any stories?
I = Ice: Are you in to temperature play?
J = Jack Off: How often do you masturbate and what’s your favorite way to do so?
K = Kitten: In to pet play? Do you prefer kittens or pups?
L = Latex: Latex, leather, or neither?
M = Medical: Have you ever done any kind of medical play? Share stories!
N = Nope: What’s your biggest turn off?
O = Orgasm Control: Would you give up your orgasms for somebody? Would you take them from somebody?
P = Pubes: Full bush, trimmed, shaved, waxed, what do you do? What do you prefer?
Q = Queening: Self explanatory. In to it?
R = Rope: What’s your favorite means of tying somebody up?
S = Switch: How often do you switch or are you exclusively one role in the bedroom?
T = Teasing: How much is just the right amount of teasing before somebody gets dicked down? And what are you favorite means of teasing?
U = Uncut: Do you have a preference or are all cocks built equally?
V = Vanilla: What are you favorite ‘vanilla’ things for when you’re not in a particularly kinky mood?
W = Wildcard: Answer any question submitted to you but you can only give Yes/No answers
X = xvideos: Have/Would you ever upload videos of yourself online?
Y = Yuri & Yaoi: Are you in to it? Does 2d get you going?
Z = Zzz: Have any fantasies involving sleep?
A safe word is used to pause or stop play. These need to be something easy to remember and understood. The most common ones are the stop light system (Green= good to go, yellow= slow down/change what youre doing, red= stop) but its not the only way to go.
Now personally im the type of dom that basically any words you dont normally say during the deed is a safe word. We also have the non verbal safeword of a double tap to whatever body part can be accessible, as well as a snap (for when hands are tied). You can never have too many safe words.
One of the biggest red flags a dom can have is when they say or imply they desire you to safe word. You shouldnt want to make someone need to stop, you should want to get them close however.
(This will be covered more tomorrow when I talk about impact play)
Safe words are not just for kink and are not just for sex either. "Tapping out" of a conversation shouldnt be such a novel concept.
A great example from my personal life is my ex girlfriend. (Lets call her Betty) Betty lied to me about the experience and knowledge she had within kink and didn't truly understand why safe words are so important or when they should be said. One day while we were playing (heavy impact play) Betty decided to push her limits (which is perfectly ok when your dom consents to it but this was Not discussed) and didn't safe word when she needed too.
Now I know most of us have experienced sub and/or dom space, (I can cover this in another lesson if anyone wants) so we all can understand that when you get deep enough into that head space the rest of the world falls silent. So I was heading into that deep dom space so much that I didn't realize what was happening until it was too late.
Ive noticed something about people like Betty, the kind of person who feels that need to be the best at everything regardless of how its hurting them. That once they've pushed their limits beyond a certain point they lose the ability to admit defeat.
Once I realized, (about 2 spanks after her limit had been reached) that she was no longer enjoying herself I safe worded. I called an end to the session despite her trying to coerce me (this included shouting, pouting, crying and her essentially throwing a fit and not in a cute way) into continuing. At that point it wasn't fun or enjoyable anymore. I as a sadist and as a dom dont want to actually hurt you. I want pain to be pleasure. I want to lift you into the floating clouds of sub space and keep you there through the pain. And Betty had pushed herself past that into the pain.
Ill talk about it more later but self harm via dom is a kink. Its also one of my limits. That is where Betty took this session.
Consent is key, and you should absolutely know your own limits, but you need to respect the limits of your play partner as well.
