#TMITuesday -- What Am I Into?
My blog tends to overrepresent what the boys I have are into. I tend to enjoy playing in the space of what a slave says is their interest, twisting it around and making it something that serves me.
If you asked me, though, what I am into independent of what a boy likes, this is the list I would give, but without any order…
Control / Power Exchange
- are you interested in letting me decide what happens, in giving me your body and mind for my pleasure, in simply allowing me to do as I will? Awesome. Please do.
Master/slave lifestyle
- I say lifestyle instead of roleplay because I prefer it to be something that exists outside of a scene. I am always Sir, and you are always mine, and even if you’re sitting beside me playing Battlestar Galactica the collar that symbolizes your ownership stays on.
Body Worship
- massage me, kiss me, pleasure me. Show me how eager and obedient you are in a reverent display of affection. Let me lay back and relax, you do the work and I enjoy the benefits.
Rimming
- I do enjoy rewarding a chaste boy with proper pleasure (ie: ignoring his nub) but this is more about you being a seat for me. Nothing makes me cum faster than a tongue pleasing my ass.
Spanking
- the catharsis of being spanked until you get held into my arms bleary eyed cannot be denied, but for me spanking just promotes a proper mindset in a boy thats so much easier to take advantage of.
Electro
- for punishment or pleasure watching a boy being held hostage to a piece of technology that literally takes control of their own muscles is hot.
Storage style bondage
- from mummification to caging to being made to trapped in a closet awaiting my use, the degradation and humiliation of this style of bondage makes me very pleased. You wanted to do something like a free boy? How about thinking of how controlled you are in darkness and sensory deprivation instead :)
Teasing / Denial
- I love being condescending. I love stroking my cock inches away from a chaste boys lips. I love telling them to stroke their cock while it stays soft and imprisoned and watching them whine and writhe. It really helps hit home who’s in charge.
Hypnosis / Conditioning
- Its not about what you want, but what I can make of you. Its a total surrender of one’s sense of self. It tends to be overwhelming for a lot of people unfortunately but the effect is to die for.
Helplessness / Dependence
- this goes straight back to control but highlights how a boy is incomplete without the care and guidance of his Sir. When you remove simple activities from a boy and then force him to rely on you, there’s a connection there to be nurtured.
Trust / Removal of Privacy
- I could go on and on about this because its a pretty rare kink but the synopsis is that western society bombards boys with messages about independence and having the freedom to do what you want. Removing a slaveboy’s privacy helps to separate them from all that rhetoric just the same way that chastity does. You are not a free boy, you are owned, the rights a freeboy has to control his own life and be his own man are not for you.
Pet play
- not really sexual, but super adorable and cuddly :)
Remote control devices
- technology is making these more and more realistic to have a boy plugged with a vibrator connected wirelessly to my phone. I love the concept of having a boy know that its time to come home when his ass notifies him through intense vibrations with no words needed.
Chastity
- yepp. Boys who cum get caught up in a flow of being interested and then not interested, horny and then not horny. Best to eliminate that potential training hazard don’t you think?
Domestic Service
- make my life less stressful by making my house clean and organized and you will have a happier Master to serve.
Humiliation / Objectification
- Again feeding into the disassociation of the persona that a slave has to put on for the public, acts that humiliate and objectify strengthen a happier submissive outlook.
Voyeurism / Group Use of a slave
- Yeahhhhh, let me relax and watch as the product of my training serves other men and inspires jealousy that he’s going home with me? Perfect. Also, I was taught to share my toys…
Watersports
- humilation? Check. Objectificaion? Check. Convenience for me not to have go upstairs? Check.
