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I no longer know what to do

so. Pupkit and I are no longer a thing....

Idk if I just wanna turn this into a blog for my sub+little space or what.

mansons-horror-queen

I hope I’m not the only one!

courtmae

deepvisualspace

lace-deactivated

Doms can be soft

Doms can be sensitive or self-conscious

Doms are allowed to cry

Doms can deal with mental illnesses, like depression or anxiety

Doms need aftercare

Doms are valid even if they don’t act dominant or leading 24/7

Doms have feelings, too, and are allowed to show them

Doms need to trust their sub, as much as the other way around

Doms might get triggered during sessions

Doms can get mentally or physically abused by their sub (!!!!)

Doms might need the care of their sub sometimes

Doms are HUMAN and therefor you - as a sub - shouldn’t shame them for being exactly that, just because in your fantasy you always imagined a dom to be a certain way and act certain way. You - as a sub - need to accept that sometimes your fantasy is exactly just that, and it’d be abusive and unhealthy to force that image onto a real human being.

Doms like to be in control, we like to do it sexually and sometimes also in a not sexual way. But we are still humans. We have needs and insecurities, and as a sub you should always accept these and take care of your dom, and never force them to do something they don’t feel comfortable with.

We always talk about abusive doms and fake doms - it’s time we face the cruel truth that there are plenty of abusive and fake subs.

coolguyhsupage

This is, perhaps, one of the top 5 best things I’ve seen on Tumblr.

instructor144

This post wins the internet today.

yuizuh

Rb if you’re grateful for all of your followers

even if you have 1

Even if you have 10

100

1000

Etc.

sft-injuns

not an imagine but <333

Reminder!

I have a blog for my little side over here at https://softboyblu.tumblr.com/

thatlaurenlady

Do you really like thick girls? Or are you just talking about big boobs and ass. Cause if you’re not expecting thick girls to have tummies and big arms, I think you got the game fucked up.

humorstar

“WHY AM I GETTING TURNED ON BY THAT”

— me every single time (via suspend)

candycoatedplastic

violentlyhedonistic

Clicker training is such a fun way of dehumanizing someone. It’s nearly impossible to resist becoming conditioned to it - especially when those clicks are the only time you get any kind of affection, or even any food for the stubborn new pets. Hating yourself for the excitement and strange pride you feel when you hear the click and get a treat. You don’t mean to be so obedient, you just unthinkingly follow commands now. The part of your brain that knows you’re really just a submissive pet in need of an owner wants treats and love and to be my good pet. More and more, you won’t be sure where that part ends and you begin. That’s alright though, because you just heard a click and there’s a treat being pressed into your mouth and a hand petting your hair and that’s all that really matters anymore.