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One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.

Took a whole lot of time to myself and forgot I had this little corner of the internet. Been a while but the motive is the same

#here to protect my peace #even if it means doing the hard thing and saying no #sat complicit in people taking advantage of me #I don’t think kindness or softness is a weakness.#others do apparently

vacationtolocation

theprettiestinpink

The “uh uh uhffuckk” while you drill them into your mattress 🥴

guccipleasure

uchihaculture

remanence-of-love

Saw a post about soul ties and god. No thank you

#sometimes I’m scared there’s a soul tie between you and I.#I doubt there is one honestly. But you never know #and that sucks #you

Perhaps it’s cowardice too though. I think about you sometimes and think what it’d be like to tell you to your face that I never needed you nor did I enjoy your company towards the end of it all.

#but a small part of me is afraid of you and the way you treated me when all i wanted was even a smidge of your understanding #idk. you’re out of my life now. and I don’t intend to have you in it anymore

Goes to a certain limit — no one wants someone who’s flaky and always cancels, or can’t be trusted atp — but this, god. Hard fucking repost on this.

Not against high maintenance relationships/friendships/situationships, but they are just. not for me. Or maybe you made me like this

#came on my fyp when I was thinking about how grateful I am to NOT have you in my presence anymore #and this goes to show how fucking immature some people are about everything.#relationships are maintained on trust and fun and UNDERSTANDING.#not inserting yourself into every second of my waking life.#got this from tiktok

I want myself to always remember that not everyone deserves my time. Also that it goes vice versa

#don’t be a mangia cunt guys #but also remember that mangia cunts can go die.#don’t let people walk over u but don’t walk over others

remanence-of-love

Today I thought about you when it rained

#bittersweet.#perhaps it comes with healing #the thought was neither positive not negative. it was just a thought #i don’t yearn for you. i don’t think i ever have. but i don’t hate the idea of you anymore i think #hope you’re doing well. respectfully stay out of my life though

schuylerpeck

schuylerpeck / instagram: hiitssky

wovi

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mortifying ordeal, etc. 🕊

(claire schwartz / coco mellors)

wovi

white oleander (2002) dir. peter kosminsky

#love indeed does humiliate you #both for better and for worse

I hate the fact I’m not the most confrontational person because there are way too many things I want to address to some people but don’t know how to even go about that

#because like. fuck you actually #you’re irritating and say shit that you know isn’t the truth #and you talk as if you’re the shit while simultaneously complaining about people who do exactly as you’re doing #hipocrasy is so real in you. it’s embarrassing #you complain about your friends and talk shit about them freely as if you don’t need them to function #you act like you’re better than others and don’t need friends #when in reality you’re so dependent on others and seek validation from the outside rather than focus on yourself #and what actually sucks about you is that you hate when the people around you try to do things for themselves #like? it becomes a whole competition? to see who’s better? actually fuck you #you irk me and give off way too many red flags and i need to actually converse this with you before i end up hating you #as if i don’t already <3

1anonyymous1

ignoring people is self care

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