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Salah satu kengerian yang sangat mungkin terjadi pada kita adalah: ketika kita "pernah" merasakan nikmatnya hidayah, namun ia dicabut lagi.
Itulah mengapa doa di awal Ali Imran begitu mendebarkan, "Ya Tuhan kami, janganlah Engkau condongkan hati kami kepada kesesatan setelah Engkau berikan petunjuk kepada kami..." (QS 3:8)
Tetaplah Hidup
Pengorbananmu begitu besar, bahkan terlalu besar. Lebih dari yang pernah kubayangkan hingga nalarku tak mampu memahami kenapa itu bisa terjadi, dan terjadinya kepadamu. Orang yang paling ku kenal sepanjang waktu.
Kamu sudah sekeras itu pada dirimu sendiri. Sampai-sampai, aku tak lagi merasakan kelembutanmu yang dulu. Kerasnya kepalamu, kerasnya hatimu, dan kerasnya tatap matamu yang tak seceria dulu. Kamu menatap sinis kehidupan ini yang seolah tak berpihak, tapi aku sangka bukan hidup yang tak berpihak, tapi kamu pun tak berpihak pada hati dan jiwamu sendiri.
Tak berani membuat keputusan untukmu sendiri.
Tak berani untuk melawan kerasnya hidup.
Tak berani untuk keluar dari masalah yang jelas-jelas kamu hadapi.
Tak berani mengambil keputusan, padahal jalan keluar di depan mata.
Tak berani mengatakan yang sebenarnya.
Tak berani untuk menjadi dirimu sendiri, yang kukenal
Tetaplah hidup, jangan kamu jiwamu sendiri. Hingga ragamu harus menjalani kehidupan hari demi hari tanpa arti. Tatap mata yang kosong. Hati yang kering dan sepi. Tetaplah hidup. Kamu begitu berarti, hanya orang-orang yang menyayangimu yang benar-benar menghargai mimpimu, tujuanmu, dan dirimu.
Mereka takkan membunuh semua itu.
Tetaplah hidup. Untuk dirimu, ©kurniawangunadi
Karena beberapa hal ditunda, seringkali manusia merasa gagal dan tidak beruntung. Padahal, bisa jadi di dalam pengetahuan Allah yang meliputi segala sesuatu, manusia itu sedang diselamatkan dan terlindung dari keburukan kehendaknya yang tidak ia ketahui. Padahal, bisa jadi di dalam balutan takdir yang rahasia, manusia itu sedang diarahkan kepada arah langkah yang membawa keberkahan meski saat ini yang tampak dari zahirnya adalah sebuah penundaan yang mengecewakan.
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—It is okay to not be okay.
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Baca lanjutannya di sini.
As a wife and mother of several children, I must give you mothers and future mothers a little reminder
Seek knowledge my sisters. Do not rely solely on your man to do everything as he is mostly outside the home/ working. It is you the children will spend the majority of their time with and it almost means that you have the greatest influence and an enormous responsibility. Children are much smarter and pick things up much faster than we think, so you need to teach them right from wrong and wrong from right very early.
Teach your children about our prophets, avabout sahaba and sahabiya, stories about some scholars, tawhid, quran, tell them how we Muslims feel today and how we are treated, how we should never give in or "refine" Islam to fit in, adab, akhlaq, tell them that the goal is akhira and that dunya is temporary, that one should always strive to be the best servant to Allah one can become and a follower of the sunnah. Do not put the children in front of movies, music and such that will harden your children's hearts, do not let the iPad be your children's parents.
One last thing.... Do not forget that as a parent, you must implement what you teach because the children see you, they look at you and see both you and the father as role models, so don't be a bad one. Surround your children with loyal Muslims that has the same goals. Do not give up! I know it's tough, I know that you will sometimes feel like a failure and that you are not doing enough, but do not give up.
May Allah make it easier for every Muslim parent, may He give us righteous children. Children who will have gheeeah for Islam, children who will benefit the ummah. Ameen
SELAMAT PETANG
Hidup ni bila cerita kelemahan org lain dan buruknya diri org lain memang seronok sampai lupa diri sendiri juga byk kekurangan. Itulah sifat manusia akhir zaman. Bila berdepan dgn orang yg suka mencari kekurangan orang lain dengarkan saja. Layankan sikapnya. Tapi cukup kita simpan cerita dan aibnya jangan sampai menyampai, jangan sampai kita pula yg menambah dosa.
Once kita tak lagi berkawan dan kita pula diburukkannya serahkan saja pada Allah swt.
Kifarah tetap ada pada mereka yg salah.
Jangan bawa diri kita pada pertelingkahan. Setiap perbuatan akan ada hisabnya. Allah swt tak pernah tidur tak pernah salah menilai. Hiduplah dalam ketenangan dan kebahagiaan yg diredhai Allah swt sentiasa.
Ada orang, hobinya memang suka cakap tentang orang. Tak boleh nak kawal.
Ada saja yang tidak kena di mata dia. Mengadu tentang itu, mengadu tentang ini.
Kalau kau layan orang macam ini, memang cari penyakit.
Kau kena ingat, manusia yang suka cerita tentang orang lain pada kau, akan cerita tentang kau pula pada orang lain.
As simple as that!
Jadi, berhati-hati. Kalau jumpa orang macam ini, lari. Selamatkan diri sebelum kau jadi mangsa seterusnya.
Melibatkan diri dengan drama mereka, akhirnya nanti kau juga yang sakit kepala.
Betul. Dalam hidup ini memang semua manusia akan teruji. Tapi janganlah sampai masalah itu kau yang cari sendiri!
Hidup ini perjuangan. Mahu yang elok-elok, mahu yang muluk-muluk, berjuanglah.
Jangan mata pandang ke atas tapi kaki kau melekap ke tanah!
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1. You wear abaya and hijab but with perfume. (A leaking bucket)
2. You're following the Sunnah and have a beard but you don't lower your gaze. (A leaking bucket)
3. You pray all of your prayers on time but you have no khushu at all. (A leaking bucket)
4. You're very kind to people and speak with them gently but with your family you're always harsh. (A leaking bucket)
5. You honour and treat your guests well but when they leave, you gossip about them and talk about their flaws. (A leaking bucket)
6. You give alot of sadaqah to the poor but you humiliate them and hurt them. (A leaking bucket)
7. You stand up for tahajjud at night, fast and reads Qur'an everyday but you cut your family ties. (A leaking bucket)
8. You fast and have sabr for the pangs of hunger and thirst but you swear, insult, curse. (A leaking bucket)
9. You help others but you're doing it to gain something from them and not doing those acts of kindness for the sake of Allāh's Glory. (A leaking bucket)
10. You post reminders and have thousands of followers on facebook and instagram but you're doing it for the fame, not to please Allah. (A leaking bucket)
Do not gather all your good deeds in a leaking bucket. You struggle to fill it whilst it easily runs out through the leaking holes!
May Allah SWT make us do all of good actions for pleasing HIM alone and may HE be pleased with us always.
أمين يارب العالمين
“Play with them for the first seven years (of their life); then teach them for the next seven years; then advise them for the next seven years (and after that)." Ali ibn Abi Taalib radiyallahu anha.
*First Seven Years
In the first seven years, your goal is to build a strong connection to your child. This is the foundation, the base from which your relationship with them grows. If this is rock solid, the remaining years will be much easier. If this foundation forms poorly, the next years will be more challenging. If you have young children, this (first seven years) is the time to roll up your sleeves and invest, heavily, in your and their future.
*Next Seven Years
This is the time to teach them everything — aqeedah, halaal and haraam, fiqh, all the things they need to know to survive throughout their life. Qur’an and seerah are also very important. This is the time they are sponges, ready to soak up anything and everything you tell them, teach them, show them, and do in front of them. If you built that solid foundation in ages 0-7, they are now more than willing and happy to learn from you.
Teach them sports, too; Rasulullah (salallahu alayhi wa sallam) said: “Teach your children swimming, archery and horseback riding.” They gain many benefits from it, including physical fitness, learning teamwork, and sportsmanship.
*The Final Seven Years
Once your children hit 14, they are probably already mukallaf (full adults Islamically, and accountable for their actions) — this happens at puberty, or at age 15 at the latest.
At this age, you are mostly out of the picture. Children achieve independence; their personalities manifest; they look more to their peers than their parents and families. During these critical years, befriend them, advise them, and do what you can; understand that they are now full adults, and the choices are theirs to make, right or wrong.
If you worked hard during the last two periods of seven years, you will already be that trusted confidant, that advisor, that go-to person when they need help or advice. Be part of their lives, and advise them as best you can ❤
Our hope must be greater than our pain.
