Bisexual Lesbian Incoming

26 ~ white ~ bisexual/lesbian/queer/gay/whatever ~ cis woman (she/her) ~ opera singer ~ my beloved partner is @pastelma.tumblr.com

[werewolfoffeverswamp]

my sister and her husband go see new movies a lot and a place near the theater they go to does $5 margaritas on monday so they’ve started doing marg movie mondays where they go see a movie and get a marg but they call the margaritas different things based on what they’re seeing. as far as naming goes “wuthering margs” was a little bit of a miss for me but it was preceded by “margipliers” when we saw iron lung so thats kind of a lot to live up to

[molabuddy]

3 hours of sleep = i hate people who laugh

0 ours of sleep = waouw 🌼🌼🌼🌼🐎

[molabuddy]

we all need to take better care of our selfs or we might Pass away

[soaphoe]

this tweet is absolutely taking me out

#UseYourButt

[hydrattan]

I was feeling agitated and artblocked yesterday so I decided to give my brain a rest by watching TV and then the next thing I knew these were in front of me

[durmishkan]

Kristof Kintera - all my bad thoughts

[elexecution]

they need to invent the opposite of an nda called an fda where u have to tell everyone everything

[ilovedirt]

subpoena

[virtualgirladvance]

tumblr

[earhartsease]

alcohol

[beltsquid]

war thunder forums

[mattymouse16]

The best magicians don't reveal their tricks.

[h0pelessnecromantic]

I think the interesting thing about Obsession is how subjective it seems to be depending on who you go into it identifying with.

There are some obviously incorrect takes - “bear is the victim”, and some takes informed by personal trauma that I just personally, didn’t see in the film - “bear is a clear cut perpetrator”.

I’ve been thinking more about it and reading other people’s takes and on my initial watch I wanted to like bear. I liked that they didn’t portray him as actively malicious. I think it would have been too heavy handed if they did. The more I reflect on it, the more I see him as almost the embodiment of weaponized incompetence, only I think he’s so fucking oblivious he doesn’t even know he’s doing that.

I think he’s selfish, cowardly and kinda dumb but I also think HE fully believes he’s kind with good intentions. At the beginning he doesn’t think the wish is real and he seems genuinely concerned about taking advantage of Nikki, then he thinks things are good. Until they clearly aren’t.

I think reason it works is because in his mind he never set out to destroy or possess Nikki. I didn’t see bold-faced darkness until the “what’s so bad about being with me” scene. That’s the point where he can absolutely no longer deny it. And arguably maybe the phone call.

But I think it works because he’s not hateful and malicious, he’s stupid and selfish and puts his wants above Nikki’s personhood - ultimately finally doing what he needs to do and only leaving her alone with the horrible mess he created. Like this dude isn’t a monster, he’s anyone who isn’t careful to check their biases and their wants.

[iwasbored777]

I think that Obsession portrays toxic and manipulative relationships where the abuser is manipulating people around them to make the victim look like the toxic one in the relationship - the way Bear looks innocent to their friends and they're all worried about him and they think that Nikki is crazy, while Nikki is actually the one being used and abused here without her consent, but they can't see that from their perspective. Usually, abusers are sweet and nice to everyone except their family/romantic partner, and most people find it hard to believe that someone who is so kind can be capable of hurting anyone so they think that the victim is falsely accusing them.

Sarah represents the third person's perspective. She cares deeply about Bear, and Nikki's scary behaviour makes Sarah sympathise with Bear and try to help him. But by helping him, she ends up being murdered by Nikki and Nikki immediately tells Bear "it's your fault for this. You wanted this". Nikki's words in that scene sounded almost as if the real Nikki was saying that to Bear because her actions were the result of his wish and she wasn't responsible for them - he was. Usually when a third person tries to help the manipulator and connects with them they soon end up a victim of their manipulative actions because they didn't know what the manipulator was capable of until they got closer to them, just like Sarah suffered the consequences of Bear's wish here even though she was just as innocent as Nikki. And if Bear had a crush on Sarah and not Nikki, he would have done the same thing to Sarah.

The title goes both ways - Nikki was obsessed with him because of the spell, while Bear was already obsessed with her.

[derangedoctopus]

The ending in "obsession" is the most horrifying part to me because much like real life,the man gets off scott free and the woman is left to deal with all the mess

[le7ger]

GUYS I MADE IT!!!!!!!!

[furiosa-femininst]

“You should smile more”

Oh okay

[nosfera-tits]

The thing about Obsession 2026 that gets to me is that the initial wish is a spur of the moment decision. Men don’t always control women with intentional, well-planned actions. Bear was not initially trying to control every aspect of her life, he didn’t even think it would work. He didn’t think of it as an act of violence. And at no point does he put his hands on her, or anyone. But because of his flippant decisions, spurred emotional immaturity, violence befalls everyone involved, including himself. He indirectly killed Sarah, and Ian, and (directly killed) himself, and he is the reason Nikki has cuts and contusions on her face, and probably has multiple concussions and broken bones…not to mention the level of mental and emotional trauma dealt to her. At every turn he makes the selfish choice. And from start to finish, the movie is easily able to convey three things: 1. Loss of autonomy is a form of violence. 2. Men ruin everything. 3. Liberty is not the same as freedom.

[staghunters]

Obsession (2026) dares to ask the question: Is it okay to read a passage of your hansel and gretel incest fic out loud at the social?

[quadruple-agent]

little detail about obsession (the movie) I havent seen pointed out yet.... my partner actually noticed this, but after the wish Nikki dresses more and more not like herself. We see her in comfy casual clothes, a bit on the more revealing side, and as the entity "dates" Bear she starts wearing headbands, high collared shirts.... with the exception of the party. Interesting what he warps her into, and how he never really seemed to love her for being truly her in the first place. Felt like a romcom turned horror and I loved it

[fanofspooky]

Inde Navarrette as Nikki (Obsession 2026)

[serendipitous-posts]

Just saw the interview where Curry Barker explained that it's totally possible to get a normal wish from the One Wish Willow, and I love the way they did that so much. The reason Obsession happened isn't because it's trying to twist Bear's desires into something evil. It's not even because he phrased his want wrong. Obsession happened because Bear got his hands on a magic item that could do anything in existence, and chose to force someone to fall in love with him, which is an inherently evil thing to do.