Queer as fuck!

Sika • 31 • queer • married• mama 👶🏽 Denmark 🇩🇰 Instagram: sikaskaalum

[words-of-emotion]

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[littlestonedslutt]

Who wants next? 🤭💖

[nokauteador-deactivated20190921]

[camdamage]

Long time no talk anyway I got top surgery

[mybodyprogress2021]

Idk who needs to hear this but your tummy isn’t ruining your outfits, you look hot

[sustancy]

[makkleyn]

[fuckyeahinteriordesigns]

[hatin]

via weheartit

[missedutora]

[poetry-siir]

He who has overcome a trauma has learned to live.

[sejayshade]

The highlight of everyone’s year thus far. 👑

[truthaboutbeingamom]

Being a mom means so many things. It means you’re the last one to get ready in the morning. You’re the last one to leave the house. You’re basically always running late. It also means you get to watch the beautiful child you created grow and learn 🖤

[placedeladentelle]

Adele by Figleaves  / 32-40 B-G

[asexual-domme]

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

[oceanofquartz]

[just-shower-thoughts]

Fresh water can be the blandest or tastiest thing in the world depending on your mood