Queer coding is in everything...

lover of saphic women and women in general tbh soft trans masc in gentleman form

[potato-lord-but-not]

things you make after thinking about your girlfriend for too long while down with a cold

[whenfatecollides]

stealin' kisses from your misses ♡

[queerly-exposed]

Asking Google: Why does the literal thought of my ex partner cause me to have a panic attack

[heiserosandhesapollo]

"How to be a Trans Man (According to the internet)" (2022)

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You must be masculine, 

but not in the traditional, threatening way.

You must cut your hair,

but only in a fashionable undercut.

You must bind, eventually get top surgery,

but never dream of having a penis.

You must have a common, boring name,

but nothing as common as "Aiden."

You must continue wearing makeup,

but nothing too fruity.

You must have a deep voice and stubble,

but don't go on the evil testosterone. 

You must still understand cis femininity,

but never again call yourself a lesbian.

You must be silent, submissive, sanitized,

but never claim to be oppressed.

Above all, you must let people treat you as a woman,

but reap all the benefits of male privilege. 

[just-shower-thoughts]

Taking off your belt in public, no matter the context, always feels creepy.

[queerly-exposed]

'"Can't you sleep if I keep yu safe in my arms?"

For at moments, such is the blindness and folly yet withal the redeeming glory of love.'

Radclyffe Hall, 'The Well of Lonliness' (1928)

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I think Sarah Lancashire played the fuck out of Catherine Cawood and I will never get over it

[queerly-exposed]

In the words of some meme 'she lived. She served cunt. She died. Got resurrected. Served even more cunt'. A true acting icon

[queerly-exposed]

"Give me a pot and let me turn cannibal. I will feast on her with greater delight than he. If she is his titbit then I will gourmet her. Come here and discover what it is to be spiced, racked and savoured. I will eat her slowly to make her last longer. Whatever he has done I will do. Did he eat her? Then so wil I. And spit her out. I am not seeking revenge."

Jeanette Winterson, 'Gut Symmetries' (Granta Books, 1997)

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miriam adeney

[queerly-exposed]

Feel Good-

Homebrewed review and my own turmoil

Despite how good it is I cannot rewatch Feel Good, I just can't bring myself to do it. Seeing a character that you see yourself in so much, the odd flaws and strangeness. The outright love they can receive but trauma they have endured too. It is absolutely a brilliant show, so fantastically produced- but still too difficult for me to rewatch.

An ex partner of mine watched it during a troubled time in our relationship. She, at the time, reflected on how she saw herself in George- a newly out bisexual in a relationship with Mae. The ups and downs of their relationship, the obsession and addiction. It felt so real to me that in some ways it was like watching a remake of some of my memories or even me in a different dimension.

Potentially, one of the most painful reasons for me not to be able to rewatch the series is that Mae and George are able to bounce back, create a new sense of being and themselves. However, 7 months down the line and away from each other, my own story cannot bounce back.

[golddustdyke]

not to be naive but it still shocks me when people are so apathetic and cruel towards others like .. you’re literally rotting on the inside … , hope you feel better soon ?

[queerly-exposed]

Sending a 'I'm happy for you message' makes me feel immediately better because it's a lie lmao

[queerly-exposed]

I don't want passion, the all consuming rage of love, I don't want it all. I never asked for this grief, worse than death. Taunting me. Too much love to give and I never asked for it.

[bakwaaas]

people are so used to online content being curated for their consumption that they forget tumblr isn’t like that… this is my diary. I don’t post for other people. if you find the stuff I post depressing or annoying or too much or u don’t agree or whatever whatever…. that’s fine it’s not For You? it’s for me. there is no audience I’m performing for. feel free to unfollow me if u don’t like, I’m not a carefully crafted online persona I’m a real person

[marlagraysonn]

We Stan a funny,snarky queen, Absolutely loved the two Ann Walker workshops yesterday

[queerly-exposed]

For goodness sake not everything is kinky horny sad time

[queerly-exposed]

Stayed in the town I went to uni because I was meant to live with my love. Now I see her and her new boyfriend, speaking to me like to shit on their shoe. Don't change your trajectory for people