Rape Culture

[redactivist]

John F O’Donnell “Mansplains” Rape Culture in America (x)

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2012 - Tens of thousands of Indians took to the streets and clashed with police to protest against rape and the complicity of the police force in letting rapists go unpunished. [video]/[video]/[video]

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– rorablue.com

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My teen boys are blind to rape culture

I've told my sons why dismantling rape culture is so important to me, but they will never truly understand how survivors of it feel.

I never imagined I would raise boys who would become men like these. Men who deny rape culture, or who turn a blind eye to sexism. Men who tell me I’m being too sensitive or that I don’t understand what teenage boys are like. “You don’t speak out about this stuff, mom,” they tell me with a sigh. “It’s just not what teenagers do.”

My sons are right about that much. Teenage boys, by and large, don’t speak out about slut-shaming or rape culture. They don’t call each other out when they make sexist jokes or objectify women. It’s too uncomfortable to separate themselves from the pack so they continue to at least dip their toes into toxic masculinity. In their discomfort with action, they remain passive, and their passivity perpetuates the same broken system that sentenced Brock Turner to only six months in jail.

My sons are part of the problem.

[micdotcom]

Members of fraternities are three times more likely to commit rape than other male college students. (x)

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Kerry Burke

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A JUDGE is under investigation after shockingly probing a victim of an alleged sex attack as to why she “couldn’t just keep your knees together”.

“why didn’t you just sink your bottom down into the basin so he couldn’t penetrate you?” and “why couldn’t you just keep your knees together?”

Disgusting, an apology and courses will never be enough, this man needs to be fired. And I’ve seen so many people on facebook say shit like “This makes Canada look so bad” who the hell cares about our countries reputation, a 19 year old homeless woman was harassed by an old man about “not doing more to stop the rape” fucking pig. How did he even get his job? How did he not think what he did was wrong before everyone attacked him? If our most educated citizens can be this misogynistic what does that say about our rape culture? 

[r-a-p-e]

An awesome metaphor about consent.

[r-a-p-e]

I was raped over the summer by a friend of mine, and I finally came to terms with what actually happened. I cant file a report since I have no evidence, and can't even remember the date that it happened. I'm just so fucking mad that he's out there serving our country, while I'm at home wanting to die. I've talked to authority and all I can do is go to therapy. I hate this so much. I don't know what to do any more. I've told my parents but The flashbacks just get worse and worse.

I would suggest you to file a report, even if you,re missing pieces of the puzzles.Reach your parents or friends for support. They’re here for that.

[r-a-p-e]

Years ago, my (now ex)boyfriend, forced me to have sex with him. I was into clinical depression and of course, on ADs and benzos. That night I slept over at his home, just to have some time together, he wanted to have sex, but I didn't want, I just wanted to die so much I was down. I was on my meds and just wanted to sleep. Once asleep, he started to touch my privates, and it woke me up. After refusing a few times, I finally gave up and let him have sex. I felt so disgusting... Was it rape?

Yes, it was rape.( X ) You did not provided a clear agreement and you refused multiple time before giving up. He should’ve accepted your first negative answer. He, obviously, didn’t. 

[r-a-p-e]

Have you heard the Korn song 'Daddy'?

Yes

[r-a-p-e]

I was on skype with my internet friend and her dad came in her room and started groping and wrestling her even though she told him to stop and no. She tried to mute her mic and turn off video but wasn't able to in time and I saw the whole thing. She refuses to tell anyone and I don't know anyone to tell bc she lives far away... what should I do? :c

Be present for her. Try to talk to her about it and maybe she’ll change her mind. But no matter what, be present for her because you can’t do much if the victim don’t wanna tell anyone.

[r-a-p-e]

Within the state of Nevada, Prostitutes don't have the authority to refuse customers unless there's an "acceptable reason" approved by management. Why isn't there an uproar about this?

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Culture du viol, ressources

- Mythes - Blâmer les victimes - Consentement - Éduquer les garcons - Drague et violence - Banalité du viol - Représentations / érotiser la violence - Affaires emblématiques - Parler du viol / silenciation - Harcèlement de rue - Slut-shaming

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[r-a-p-e]

I am so worried I have to face my rapist on Thursday at court it's so hard to have to testify he's going to be there. He's always said the same thing he always said that I wanted to have sex but it wasn't like that I said to stop that it hurt that I am a virgen & he didn't care. I will always feel like it was my fault ..

It's not an easy process to face your rapist in court and to testify but it's the right thing to do. . When you'll be in court, don't think about what he feel or think because he didn't cared about what you thought or felt when he raped you.To lock him up, they just need you to tell them the truth and Thursday will be your chance to prove them that he's a liar and he deserve to face justice. Everything will be alright. Trust us. :)