Too Gay to function

Hey I'm Reid, XXX cycles around this fireball. Don't expect to see much of a theme for my blog except there is going to be gay shit.He/him

[llamagoddessofficial]

Me: Ugh why does my cat always meow at me until I come and stare at his full food bowl? It's ridiculous

Google:

Me:

Me: [holding my cat's face with tears in my eyes] im sorry i ever doubted you my son

[jakemorph]

[pangur-and-grim]

It’s interesting that her eggs are kinda messed up, but !!! She’s healthy and that’s all that matters :] I’d like to pick your chickens up and hold them gentle like hamburger..

like this?

[pr1nceshawn]

[dismalchant]

[queercultdump]

Jan Švankmajer

[petfinder-names]

[tothearkmoved]

[hoenngarbage]

I love lesbians woxjebaixiwozufjwiixkcod

[petfinder-names]

[frostios]

catboy walter white

[libre07]

[leninthesixth]

doctors hate her! This woman is experiencing symptoms that might point to a health problem and wants doctors to do something about it

[whitepeopletwitter]

[coolestfinch]

yea i support trans rights

[coolestfinch]

trans rights to kiss me on the mouth

[webcomicname]

[afronerdism]

Forgiveness is such a trap and I honestly highly recommend not forgiving people who’ve done irreparable damage in your life. Despite what people say, you don’t need to forgive someone to have peace in your life.

[quietstorm-thundathighs]

I love this song

[xphilosoraptorx]

Forgiveness isn't for the other person, it's for you. Holding on to anger and resentment can fuck you up, both physically and psychologically.

So yes, you absolutely do need to forgive too have peace in your life, and science backs this up.

[afronerdism]

It actually doesn’t in fact a lot of therapists talk about forgiveness as a trap and you don’t need to forgive in order to let go of anger and resentment.

I encourage you to read Toxic Parents by Dr. Susan Forward but I’ll include some of what she says about the forgiveness trap here:

“One of the most dangerous things about forgiveness is that it undercuts your ability to let go of your pent-up emotions. How can you acknowledge your anger against a parent whom you’ve already forgiven? Responsibility can go only one of two places: outward, onto the people who have hurt you, or inward, into yourself. Someone’s got to be responsible. So you may forgive your parents but end up hating yourself all the more in exchange.

I also noticed that many clients rushed to forgiveness to avoid much of the painful work of therapy. They believed that by forgiving they could find a shortcut to feeling better. A handful of them ‘forgave,’ left therapy, and wound up sinking even deeper into depression or anxiety.

Several of these clients clung to their fantasies: ‘All I have to do is forgive and I will be healed, I will have wonderful mental health, everybody is going to love everybody, we’ll hug a lot, and we’ll finally be happy.’ Clients all too often discovered that the empty promise of forgiveness had merely set them up for bitter disappointment.”

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