"that doesn't sound sincere- it sounds rehearsed" is one of the most devastating and fucked-up statements you can make to anyone in the neurodivergent/ADHD/Autistic/Schizophrenic/Disordered Personality sphere. yeah bitch it's rehearsed. because i wanted to get it right when i said it
I’ve recently discovered how much better life can be when we normalize this. My best friend and I have started saying “hang on, I’m scripting” when we need a minute to mentally rehearse during big conversations (and “bear with me, I’m doing improv” when we’ve reached the end of our script and start to struggle with words lol)
unfortunately very true. Doing Better does not always mean never being upset or never being triggered or never having trouble. often Doing Better means experiencing those things and being able to keep going/cope healthily/move on. if you’re in a bubble with no sensation, if you’re numbing yourself out, that’s not what recovering really is. it won’t help you have a happier life it’ll just make your world smaller and smaller until you can’t fit anywhere anymore. gotta learn to make peace with the hard stuff too, that’s the only way to keep going
trans women.. are women *walks into sunset* *pauses* and um- trans men are men- and also non binary people are non-binary, agender people are agender, and neogender and uh- uh- *stumbles into the sunset* trans people are whatever gender they want to be..! *sun consumes me*
PSA the "si" in shared YouTube links stand for Seal Indicator. This means there is a nefarious seal tracking your information and will give YouTube your data in exchange for fish. Please remove the part after "?si=" before you click on it or share the link with others because it is a tracking token!
would like to add that the stuff after ? isn't always a tracking token, sometimes it contains important info for the link to actually work (e.g. it could contain the video ID). however, try opening a link without the ? string; if it works then there's no harm in getting rid of it 🦭👌
i fought my art style and then forgot i didnt actually plan what alta would look like when they were younger so i had to change their appearance three times
i was going to attempt to render this but im not too hapy with it!!!!!!!!! i will hopefully redraw this in the future!!!! especially since i actually tried thinking about the composition
i love both and i want to draw in both i love how cute and big eyed people appear in older anime but i love drawing the way i do now aswell
but what if i draw so much in one style i forget the other do i just explode what happens
Hey... would you be interested... in an unstable chatfic... even if it had lots of oc's (i gave them families!!)... and i think it's funny but it probably isn't...
I've been considering putting it on ao3 for a while but idk if it would just be a one shot or part of a series cause i don't really wanna make it a chaptered fic but i don't wanna break it up in my notes app
UGHHHH
Anyway. Chatfic. Yay or nay??
CHATFIC YAY!! more chatfics are always well appreicietaed youre saying thye have families?!??!?? ohohohohnyynkthdhkfososbw thatll be fuuuun /gen