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sizzlingsandwichperfection-blog

one of my central ambitions for the next twenty years of my life is to know less about The Discourse.

sizzlingsandwichperfection-blog

Like I don't want to have an opinion on the Super Mario Galaxy movie.

sizzlingsandwichperfection-blog

My prayer is this: Dear God, free from all thoughts of the Paul Brothers.

floristicgrave

kyberinthevoid

I hate that “chat” now makes people think of chatgpt. no. I’m asking my imaginary greek chorus twitch audience.

helpless--romantics

Transmascs wake up, new bottom surgery just dropped

tlirsgender

Things people hate hearing:

You are capable of harm

You have some level of power and agency

Ergo it is your responsibility to communicate your needs and boundaries

If you lie to someone about something being okay when it isn't, that is on you

Something being a trauma response doesn't exempt it from harming your relationships and the other people in them

Enabling your trauma responses will not make them go away, and it is your responsibility to work on yourself for your own wellbeing as well as the people around you

Being A Victim cannot be a pillar of your identity forever, and being victimized does not make you incapable of harming other people (see above)

You are not a mouse in a jean jacket you are an eel with a gun / adult human being who can use your words even if it's Scary

Having a personality disorder doesn't make you evil but you have got to get off of Personality Disorder Tumblr (see above, re: enabling)

tlirsgender

Deep sigh. You want me to ~be compassionate~ here's the compassionate answer: your trauma will tell you you're a helpless child forever and you need to Not Think This Way for yourself (living under the assumption you're still in danger whether you actually are or not) and everyone else who has to tiptoe around your Sensitivity. That's how you break the cycle and you can only do this by accepting responsibility for your actions. And it seems like a small semantic thing but imo step one is calling yourself a survivor instead of a victim. Self identifying with your victimhood helps No One. You lived, now get up

bgm05

laying an egg hard and loud

bgm05

will the person who tagged this “stephen colbert” please approach the bench.

ddeerlybeloved

just did a really good job of cutting a bagel there's no weird thin or thick parts it's all even all over. this is huge for me

diet-cokesiut

Think you could take a 10x10 inch cock? Asking for a friend 👀

like is it a cube or am i misunderstanding

pilgrimattinkercreek1974

Oh ok so it turns out ive been borrowing grief from the future ! it turns out ive been preparing to lose the things i love rather than basking in the light of them while they last. Maybe i should nt do that