This is a RadNormal positivity blog focused on former/recovering RadQueers, XenoSatanists, TransID, ProFiction, ProShip, DarkShip and other similar communities! I'm pro-recovery and I believe people have the right to try to change for the better if they genuinely regret their actions and take accountability for any mistakes they may have made.
I don't really like the term "anti" when it comes to anti-radqueer, anti-proship, etc because it's often associated with harmful behavior, and I feel like those communities themselves coined the term "anti" to antagonize and portray people who disagree with them as "oppressors." I think we should make greater use of the term and tags RadNormal🌈🌺 and help our community grow. However, I will continue using "anti" tags for now, since it would be much harder for people to find my posts without them.
About Me!
You can call me Yumi!
My pronouns are NORMAL/NORMALSELF/ACTUALLY NORMAL/NORMAL ACTUALLY and i DON'T accept any other pronouns/j
Ok he/him
I'm trans, gay, demiaroace, and gray-asexual.
Former pro/darkshipper and radqueer, now RadNormal🌈🌺.
Media I like: Hi Hi Puffy AmiYumi, The Amazing Digital Jax Circus, House of Puso and Brawl Stars
Do Not Interact! (If you interact with 🌈🌺, I will interact with you!)
People with any paraphilic disorder that poses a risk to others
Pro/neutral/complex contact regarding the "3 big paras", incest, or any form of non-consensual relatonship
XenoSatanists ξ⛧
RadQueers🍓🌈 or any similar BlankQueer identity
TransID or any similar BlankID identity
Anti-RadNormal, @anti-radnormal <— stop block evading, this is a very ugly thing to do, buddy.
Psssst…. Hey Radnormal community… we should totally come together to make an organization/website educating ppl on what it means to be radnormal… and why radqueers aren’t as ‘harmless’ and ‘just chronically online’ as they say…
Can we not romanticize children and adults or ANY ILLEGAL relationships
Can we not romanticize race, disabilities, identities
Can we not romanticize people who ACTUALLY WENT TO JAIL AND GOT CHARGED WITH THESE CRIMES!!!
I feel people don't bring this up as offen but omfg people just praise anyone at this point there in jail for serious crimes and your fucking cheering them on and giving them money.. and regardless if they went to jail or not just doing something illegal like felon or extremely bad that should shamed and ran off the Internet not being fucking celebrated by braindead morons.. - radsar 🌈🌺
“Bro can you stop talking about radqueers? You seem obsessed.”
I will not stop until the last pedophile gets erased from the internet. Until the last experience of a child being groomed in chatrooms or on roblox is nothing more than a distant memory. Until victims like myself are taken seriously, and people (aka full grown adults) stop complaining about restrictions.
So I am obsessed. I’m obsessed with ensuring they have no place online until they’re a better person. However for many, that’s impossible, so I’ll just hope they leave and never return.
Hey i really like the radnormal term and see the potential in the community! I’m a recovered radqueer that got groomed into the community that also fell into said community due to loneliness and desiring friendship and mental health issues.
One of the things that drew me to those tags is positivity posts and love and the thing im concerned about with radnormal tags is that they might get overrun with hate. I’m very anti harassment and I’m worried we might just make the tags really hateful and i hope that might not be the case because it’ll draw people into the radqueer community again.
I have a question too though and that’s about thought crimes. I have ocd and one of the main ways it was easier for me to accept the radqueer community was that i sometimes get intrusive thoughts that are paraphilic in nature and when i was in the radqueer community those thoughts almost entirely went away because i wasn’t overly anxious. I was anti contact in the rqc and I’m anti porn so i never sought anything out and i was very opposed to it. But being told it’s okay and seeing positivity instead of hate really helped.
I know the issues with rqc and those positivity posts. its a really slippery slide and a lot of people making those positivity posts arent doing so with the best intentions and i dont want to be in a community with predators.
But yeah i was just wondering like. How do we as a community handle thought crimes and
Well, some of the beliefs of RadNormal include being rude toward ppl who are harmful, anti-harassment towards minors and neutral toward harassment while leaning away from it (I don't recommend it that much if you're like super ultra 200% anti-harassment under any circumstances). However, although I do believe ppl have the right to hate predators, and that many predators are harassed for understandable reasons, I also worry that the RadNormal community could end up focusing too much on the "hating" part
After all, RadNormal is also supposed to be a safe place for ex-members. If we're ALWAYS going to b hateful toward every single radqueer, proshipper, etc.. then we probably won't even have any ex-members to begin with lol </3 (In fact, that's one of the reasons why I'm creating my own label)
As for thought crimes, I don't believe in them and RadNormal probably either :/ Intrusive thoughts are just thoughts (bad and unwanted thoughts, but still thoughts). The problem is when someone begins to encourage, romanticize, or defend those thoughts in ways that could cause harm or increase the risk of harmful behavior (or when those thoughts stop being just thoughts and become actions, but that's kinda obvious i guess)
The "trans" prefix doesn't mean "wishes they were (x)", that is how transphobes define being trans. If you think you are "Trans-age" or "Trans-capybara" or whatever else, you are not actually a different age or a capybara, you just think you wish you were those things, or feel you should be. Transgender people are the gender they claim to be, they don't "wish" they were another gender, they are that gender.
The entire concept, even putting aside the weird bigoted stuff with "Trans-IDs" about disability, ethnicity etc, is just bigoted regardless. Using "Trans-" to mean "wishes they were but aren't really" or "believes they should be" is transphobic. End of.
To begin, let’s define what “transid” actually is. According to the official transid website, “A TransID person is an individual who uses identities different from those assigned to them by society based on their physical appearance or bodily experiences.” I will be using this definition as well, with one minor change. “A TransID person is an individual who uses non-gender identities different from those assigned to them by society based on their physical appearance or bodily experiences.”
As for why I made the change, transid advocates often lump transgender identities into their label, and have a tendency to use them as a shield for criticism. However, the core difference between transid and transgender is that gender is an experience based on an internal sense of self, and transids often attempt to claim experiences based on cultural, neurological, or otherwise external things.
The transid.org website lists 18 categories of transids. Because I am thorough, I will be going through each of these below the cut.
!WARNING! certain sections may discuss triggering content, such as:
Bigotry (present in all sections)
ED/weight discussion (in “transbody” section)
Violence (in transharmful and transharmed)
Sexual violence, including rape myths and stereotypes (Especially present in transharmed, mentioned briefly in transharmful)
Transracial/Trace
Perhaps the most mainstream transid, and the one I was able to find the most scholarly works on (including Jana Cattien’s "Against ‘Transracialism’: Revisiting the Debate", which I found very helpful in formulating my arguments). Transracial is defined as, “An umbrella term for those who identify with a race that differs from one's ancestry.” the problem with transracial (at least to me), is two things:
1. The false comparison of race to gender
2. The robbing of the term from transracial adoptees.
To begin, race and gender are not remotely as comparable as transid advocates will have you think they are. Studies in neuroscience and psychology show that gender is based in an internal sense of self, separate from biological sex. One study on transgender individuals showed that brain activation when seeing bodies aligned with their gender identity is the same as cisgender individuals, regardless of whether that body matches up with their biological sex. Racially identity is conceptually different, based on external factors such as ancestry, culture, and history.
It is because of this very difference that the second issue with transracial comes in. The term itself was stolen from transracial adoptees. A transracial adoptee is a person raised by parents of a different race or ethnicity. These people (especially people of color adopted by white families) struggle with identity, racial isolation, and systemic trauma. Stealing this term and changing it to mean something its not only furthers this isolation.
Back in 2015 ex-NAACP chapter president Rachel Dolezal “came out” as transracial, and transracial adoptees spoke out about this. An ABC news article from that time quotes somebody saying that, “‘Many members of the White press have appropriated and co-opted a deeply meaningful, historical term - transracial - from the adoptee community,” Kevin H. Vollmers, Executive Director of Gazillion Strong, told NBC News. “They’re treating ‘transracial’ as though it’s a new thing. As a transracial adoptee, this is, at the very least, a slap in the face,’”
Transbody
Transbody is defined as, “a label for those who identify with having a body type, organs, or some other physical features that they do not currently have.” While this generally falls closer to the “harmless but also useless” category of transids (as opposed to the “genuinely dangerous/bigoted) there was one thing I found concerning while looking through the list of “transbody” identities.
A label known as “edweight,” defined as “a term for those who are transweight because of their eating disorder, or whose transweight identity is otherwise affected by one's ED.” To reduce behaviors of eating disorders down a simple “transweight identity” and not behavior indicative of concern or worry is disturbing. Keep this pattern of reducing mental disorders to identities akin to transness in your head for now, it’ll be discussed upon later.
Transfashion
Transfashion is defined as, “Those who want to be apart of a different aesthetic or fashion.”
In the previous section, I described transids as falling under a spectrum from “useless but harmless” to “dangerous and or bigoted.” While I have nothing to say about this particular transid, I’m going go over my problems with these “harmless but useless” types of ids, and I’ll reference it back when we get to other categories like it.
Radqueers tend to hide behind these identities when transid is critiqued, ignoring the real problems surrounding them.
To add onto that, grouping “identities” like these and real groups like transgender people together under one label is inherently minimizing. The experience of somebody who wants to change their fashion style is nowhere close to the experience of a transgender person.
Because I don’t wish to repeat myself, I will be saying “See: Transfashion,” whenever a “harmless but useless” transid comes up.
Transharmful
Transharmful and its counterpart (transharmed) is one of the more controversial identities within the radqueer community, and for good reason. Transharmful is “an umbrella term for those who identify with some view or lifestyle that carries inherent harm, such as violence or bigotry,” Basically anybody can understand why this isn’t okay.
However, I’d like to bring up a few points against this that most people might have not yet considered.
There is a huge problem with people who identify with being murderers and rapists (the most common themes amongst transharmful people, as almost all of them behave around the same) and trans people. In a world where trans people are consistently painted as dangerous predators by those in power, it’s actively harmful to the transgender community to pretend like transharmfuls are a part of it.
These identities also cause harm to people with intrusive thoughts about hurting others by treating it as an identity, instead of acknowledging that you are not your thoughts. This line of thinking can be harmful to those with OCD, or intrusive thoughts in general.
Transplural
Transplural is defined as “is a large umbrella term describing anyone with the experience of feeling like they should be plural or desire to be plural. It falls under the transid umbrella, and can refer to any form of plurality, including traumagenic, endogenic, disordered, and non-disordered plurality.”
My arguments against transplural are similar to my arguments against endogenic systems, but I’d like to address transplurals who wish to transition into CDD systems. Using neural imaging scans, it revealed that alters within did systems exhibit different patterns of brain activity, even when compared to actors attempting to imitate DID. So no matter how hard these people try, they cannot actually transition to having a CDD.
We will talk more on the neurology of different mental disorders when I get to transdisabled, as I feel it’s more fitting there.
Transsex
…is another pathetic attempt by the radqueer community to rope transgender people into their bullshit, but this time with some added intersexism as well.
Transsex is almost always used by radqueers to identify as transintersex, despite the fact that doing so actively ignores the lived experience of intersex people. Radqueers often argue that it’s akin to transgender people seeking gender affirming surgery, but thats simply not true. Intersex people and transgender people may have similar experiences in some areas, but they aren’t the same.
Transabled
Transabled is a term that leeches off of Body Integrity Dysphoria, where an individual experiences an intense desire to be physically disabled (e.g., amputation, paralysis).
Radqueers have taken this idea and distorted it into something its not. The transid.org website frequently references BID in their definitions for transbled, despite the fact that BID is specific to physical disabilities (particularly amputation), and not mental conditions.
I will admit that you can acquire certain physical disabilities (often through through acts of self harm or mutilation) and doing so would make you physically disabled (general you used) (and please keep in mind that amputation (what radqueers would consider “transitioning” for biid) is considered a last resort)
The same cannot be said about mental health. In the transplural section, I mentioned the neurological differences in the brains of people with did. This is true of many mental health conditions. I’ve provided some links on these differences in the sources. Mental health conditions do not come out of nowhere.
Within the trans disabled community, theres the concept of null-disorder, in which a person identifies as not having a disorder. While I can sympathize heavily with the desire to not experience mental health issues, the radqueer community is so anti-recovery anyways I doubt anything good (like pushing for help or resources) is coming out of those “nullids”.
Transcharacter/Transperson
transcharacter: see transfashion.
As for transperson.. well.. /j. (On a serious note, transperson reminds me of the bah packs of real people. Theres definitely a way that this could be used against people with paranoia of being replaced or watched.)
Transgender
I despise that radqueers tried to bring transgenders into their bullshit, and normally I would just skip this section, but I did see something in their list of transgender identities. “Transtransgender,” where a non trans person identifies as being trans.
In my eyes, this is transphobic, as it implies that trans people are not the gender they identify as. If you are a cis male identifying as “transtransmale,” you are just a cis man.
(NOTE: I am trans. This is not me saying that trans experiences are the exact same as cis experiences)
Translocation
Transitioning to a different location? I’m trans livinginaworldwithnoradqueers,,, /hj. But seriously, this is another harmless but useless. See transfashion.
Transpower/Transskill
Say it with me, harmless but useless!
Transspecies
While I don’t know much, word of mouth has told me that transspecies was a term stolen from alterhuman and therian spaces by radqueers.
Transage
This one is complicated because I can understand feeling like your mentality stuck at a certain age due to PTSD or age regression (however I doubt that is why a lot of radqueers identify with that). When I talked to radqueers about this, they seem to have gotten the idea that age is a social construct. This is not true. Your age is defined by the amount of time you have existed, not your maturity level or intelligence or anything of that matter. While certain maturity levels, cognitive functionings, or behaviors are associated with certain ages, that is because of observed patterns of behavior of those age groups.
Adding onto the trauma aspect, being stuck at a certain mental age due to traumatic experiences isn’t an identity in the way radqueers frame it as. It’s something you can (and deserve to) heal from. (General you used).
Transexperience
Harmless but useless (most of the time). Several labels concern me, but mostly because the cross into ideas mentioned above.
Transharmed
Transharmed, and identities like it, equate the lived experiences of abuse victims into an identity.
(I’m going to be speaking mainly about people who identify as transharmed for any form of sexual abuse, as that is the most common form I see these people use the label). As if being a victim of abuse is a queer label or identity.
I’m going to be quite blunt here, a majority of “transharmed” people identify as such due to a kink or fetish for being treated that way. And frankly, I would rather these people go into kink or fetish communities than claim to be victims. Unlike the radqueer community, these spaces contain safewords, guardrails, and bar minors from entering.
Society is filled with rape apologist and victim blaming logic, and claiming to be a victim of a crime you are not only hurts real survivors who are often accused of lying.
To add on, I’ve noticed from observing the tags that a lot of “transharmed” individuals fall back on rape myths or other harmful rhetoric. This only further contributes to my theory that these people do not listen to victims of abuse.
In the case where a transharmed person actually has experienced that abuse before, that is not an identity. It is something you can, and deserve to, recover from. Even if somebody isn’t mentally ready to recover, internalizing being harmed as a core part of your identity will make recovery harder if they choose to do so. A major step in my own recovery was teaching myself to be a person again.
Transmentality
Can fall between the range of “harmless but useless” (Just play it…?) to “Paradox of tolerance case study A”. The radqueer community should really learn about the nazi bar analogy.
Transreglious/Transfaith
Generally harmless but useless UNLESS the identity is specific to cults. Then it falls under the same criticisms I have for transharmed.
Transtime
Harmless but useless unless you are specifically transtime because you wish to return to an oppressive time period. Then see my opinions on transharmed/harmful.
Sources
All definitions and lists of transids found on https://transid.org.
Majid, D S Adnan et al. “Neural Systems for Own-body Processing Align with Gender Identity Rather Than Birth-assigned Sex.” Cerebral cortex (New York, N.Y. : 1991) vol. 30,5 (2020): 2897-2909. doi:10.1093/cercor/bhz282
“Adoptees to Rachel Dolezal: You’re Not Transracial.” NBC News, 17 June 2015, www.nbcnews.com/news/asian-america/adoptees-rachel-dolezal-youre-not-transracial-n377121.
Transharmful:
“You Are Not Your Thoughts.” International OCD Foundation, 10 Nov. 2017, iocdf.org/blog/2017/11/10/you-are-not-your-thoughts/.
Transplural:
Lebois, Lauren A M et al. “"I Am Not I": The Neuroscience of Dissociative Identity Disorder.” Biological psychiatry vol. 91,3 (2022): e11-e13. doi:10.1016/j.biopsych.2021.11.004
Schlumpf, Yolanda R et al. “Dissociative part-dependent biopsychosocial reactions to backward masked angry and neutral faces: An fMRI study of dissociative identity disorder.” NeuroImage. Clinical vol. 3 54-64. 12 Jul. 2013, doi:10.1016/j.nicl.2013.07.002
Transsex:
While I’m normally against linking tumblr or social media, I do recommend searching up intersexism and listening to what intersex people have to say.
Nadeau, Nadia. “Successful treatment of body integrity dysphoria with amputation: A case report.” Clinical case reports vol. 12,4 e8720. 27 Mar. 2024, doi:10.1002/ccr3.8720
Donovan, Alex P A, and M Albert Basson. “The neuroanatomy of autism - a developmental perspective.” Journal of anatomy vol. 230,1 (2017): 4-15. doi:10.1111/joa.12542
Horn, Karen, et al. “Neurobiology of Mental Disorders.” Fundamentals of Clinical Psychiatry: A Practical Handbook. Ed. Marsal Sanches and Jair C. Soares. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 2025. 27–38. Print.
Transspecies:
Again, I’m going on word of mouth here, if anybody could provide some sources on radqueers taking transspecies from alterhuman communities, please reblog!
Transage:
Dictionary.com. “The Definition of Age.” Www.dictionary.com, 2018, www.dictionary.com/browse/age.
Marie, Simone. “Emotionally Stuck at the Age of Trauma: Signs, Causes, and Healing.” Psych Central, 5 Jan. 2022, psychcentral.com/ptsd/signs-trauma-has-you-stuck.
Clinic, Cleveland. “Age Regression: What It Is, Causes, Signs & Treatment.” Cleveland Clinic, 16 Jan. 2026, my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/age-regression.
Transharmed:
"Victim Blaming" (PDF). Canadian Resource Centre for Victims of Crime.
Bieneck, Steffen; Krahé, Barbara (June 2011). "Blaming the Victim and Exonerating the Perpetrator in Cases of Rape and Robbery: Is There a Double Standard?". Journal of Interpersonal Violence. 26 (9): 1785–1797.
“10 Myths about Sexual Assault.” CRCC, clevelandrapecrisis.org/resources/resource-library-2/featured/rape-myths/.
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Just saw a radq victim saying that darkshippers and proshippers are ok and that they recognise this as a victim and ‘dont care’
💔💔 i just hope u heal twin
As a victim of grooming IRL these people fetishizing trauma such as this are the scum of the earth and need serious help
If you consume content like this you need fucking help and to stop wth
And dont even argue w me abt the fact that it ‘helps you cope!!!1!!1!11!’ because thats bull fucking shit and you know it, constantly reliving your trauma is not going to help you heal, you will just end up traumatizing yourself all over again, and possibly pushing yourself AND other vulnerable people into even more fragile mental states
"I am .. pro-recove(r)y AND I don't want to interact with people who could actually harm me or others"
Ok but anyone could harm you or others. That is not unique to paraphiles. In fact a majority of people who sexually abuse children aren't, by definition, pedophiles, because they're not attracted to them.
Ok but I'm specifying that I'm ok with paraphiles who don't harm ppl
+ I'm almost sure my DNI says something abt being harmful in general, unless i forgot to put it there lol
Hello! I don’t mean any disrespect to you but I wanted to bring something up about a post you made a couple of days ago and inform you incase you of something you may not have known!
I will preface that it’s about the post where you were talking to someone who claims to be “Transdid”? I too am against people who claim to be Transdid, Endogenic, Willogenic, anything of the like, however something you said seemed a bit uninformed? You used alters talking similarly as a sort of gotcha and to point out how badly they were doing at faking. I don’t say this with any malice whatsoever but that mindset can hurt real systems. Alters will not always have a vastly different way of writing or typing, sometimes only having little variation or even none at all. This is especially true for systems who may have little distinction between alters, some PDID systems, or for a vast amount of other reasons!
Again, I have no malicious intent with this! I just thought you would want to be informed since you seem like you care a lot about misinformation not being spread!
I'm sorry if I expressed myself poorly, and I hope I didn't offend any system in the process/gen
What I meant was that, when comparing that TransDID person's post to several of their other posts, the supposed "alters" showed no difference in role, personality, way of speaking, behavior, or anything similar (not just in the way they typed).
My point was that they were doing a very poor job of pretending to have real alters, because they didn't even attempt to write differently in order to portray a different personality. (I admit I should have been clearer, and it probably just came across as a bit dumb lol)
As far as I know, each alter generally serves a different role or function within the system. Because of that, I don't think it would make much sense for someone to have a "system" where every alter acts, thinks, speaks, writes, and reacts exactly the same as all the others. Like, if Timmy can't handle a situation, how could Timmy2 handle it any better if they're exactly the same and behave exactly the same lol
And again, I'm sorry for the way I expressed myself and thank you for correcting me/gen
I used Google Translate for this post, so if anything is poorly translated or if it sounds weird it's all Google's fault/hj/silly
