Me,Myself & I

[the-crows-nest-tarot]

[jehovahhthickness]

Stop dating abusive women 2018

[jessnesquik]

Hardly any women are gonna reblog this tbh 🙃

[jehovahhthickness]

A lot of women behave like this and think this ain’t abuse

But let a nigga slap them, damage their clothes and pour a drink on them, all hell will break loose.

EVERYONE CAN BE A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC ABUSE!

[thesunsword]

Buddy has the soul of an angel and composure out of this world

[goldaquarius-deactivated2018070]

Just in case anyone wants the context: He has been making music in Chicago, he recently performed to a large audience and met London on da track, who offered him an opportunity in LA. She didn’t want to leave Chicago because of her business there. He told her that she doesn’t have to go, he just needs to do this for his music. She got upset because he straight up told her that he valued his career over their relationship and she did this. 

Now I’m not a relationship expert, but I will never understand how some of y’all expect people to put you above the shit they have to do. Always put your career, your job, your livelihood first. This was all kinds of fucked up, really fucking abusive and manipulative, he should definitely go to LA with or without her. 

[chrstabellathornofthebriars-blog]

Many women *WILL* reblog this, because part of feminism is acknowledging that women are just as capable of being abusive as men. Acting as though women cannot be abusive is misogyny, and relies on the misogynist tropes that women are frail, and innocent in comparison to men. Any true feminist must acknowledge that neither of these things are necessarily true and that a woman is in fact capable of being abusive whether it’s to another woman, a man, or a nonbinary person. The reason we focus on abuse from men towards women is that it is more prevalent, and institutionally encouraged, justified, and allowed without consequence, while a woman even “talking back” to a man is to be “put in her place.” Don’t bring your weak, fragile “Few women will reblog this” shit up in here. We know what abuse looks like when we see it.

[mondaynightrollins-deactivated2]

Oh my God this infuriates me. Women are just as capable of abuse, IF NOT MORE SO, because they hide behind the blanket ‘women can’t be abusive, because they’re women’ it’s total bullshit, and needs to stop.

MAN OR WOMAN, you DO NOT let any other human being lay their hands on you like this, you deserve better. You ARE better.

[raevanmun]

What I’ve been up to

Well... after fighting the inevitable decline in my ability to work and deal with my Fibro, I decided to quit my good, safe, well-paying job for the uncertainty of self employment.  I tried to take a part time job, but it turned into a full time one and the boss was both lgbtqia-phobe and plenty vocal about it and a horrible ableist beast who shamed a co-worker with M.S. to not take her meds before work, because they made her “look like a junkie.” The boss was already stealing tips from folks and making me complicit by adding them to my tips without my knowledge. I found out, after she took me aside to tell me what a good job I was doing and how I was better than everyone else.  It rankled me terribly, she’d already given me a big raise. It made me feel dirty and terrible. So, I quit. As a result, I have been doing some consulting for a couple local businesses to me in my small town, but it isn’t really enough money to make ends meet. Which has left me to make good on some of my creative threats about how to make money enough to support myself.  I started two podcasts. One is personal, to me and my weirdness, perhaps an oral history curation of the sometimes odd shit I post here on my personal blog along with interviews with friends about pop culture, politics etc.  The other is called “Handmaids&Harlots” and I am doing it with @andijelly. It is a weekly podcast about “The Handmaid’s Tale” on Hulu and “Harlots” on Hulu.  Neither is currently monetized, my personal one because I can’t think of anyone who’d pay to hear me talk about my opinions. Most people I know get them for free anyway. “Handmaids&Harlots” however, is likely to start taking “Listener Support” if we can break the Audience size of 100. We’re about half way there. Listener Support will simply be a donation on the honor system.  And finally, next week I am launching a live Tarot Stream via Twitch. It will be every other day: Mon/Wed/Friday during the week, for three/four hours. I haven’t settled on hours, but all feeds will be posted via youtube after they’re finished.  Coinciding with the Twitch Stream, I am opening up a Patreon. The rewards and tiers are well set up I think, @seraphai helped me put that together. If any of you are interested the following links are good to give any of the above things a “Look-See” or a follow.  @andijelly and I would love your support for our podcast, and I too would appreciate folks interested in the Tarot, who want readings either streamed or private to check out my Patreon and Twitch. 

Handmaids&Harlots

Handmaids&Harlots Podcast @HandmaidsH on Twitter

The Crow’s Nest Tarot

The Crow’s Nest Tarot - Twitch @NestTarot - on Twitter The Crow’s Nest Tarot - on Instagram The Crow’s Nest Tarot - on Patreon The Crow’s Nest Tarot - on Tumblr

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[slobbering]

[trb752]

White Gold, Sapphire, Emerald, Pearl and Diamond Egyptian Revival Scarab Brooch by Knoll & Pregizer of Germany, 1925

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[raevanmun]

it me

[rojh]

[theredmoon]

The Blooming

For those who are unfamiliar with The Blooming, a full explanation is under the cut at the bottom of the post.  For those who are interested in signing up for any of the following: Guild Recruitment/Symposium Booths Pop-Up Performances Merchant Stalls Please use the following links to sign up! Guild Booth Merchant Booth Pop-Up Performer Now, for the nitty-gritty please read on under the cut!

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[raevanmun]

Eh

I felt like creating today, but then I came here. I look at my feed, I look at my discord conversations, I go to my WordPress and I am overcome by a feeling of wrath and disappointment that chokes. I guess I am carrying around some stuff mentally, emotionally that is poisoning the well. It is hard not to be resentful, even when I am well aware that it is myself who put expectations upon situations and people. Those expectations are problematic for a lot of reasons.  We’re all responsible for our own expectations. We create them based upon desires, based upon our own understandings of things and personal values. But no one is required to meet them, even if they suggest that they are able. I’ve found out repeatedly, (so apparently I am self-abusive and dense) that people rarely if ever meet our expectations, except of course when we expect them all to let us down and not be as “advertised.” For me, this is a big red flag that I need to blast everything back to the foundations and figure out how to rebuild or even if I should rebuild, want to rebuild or have the resources to rebuild. It blows. But, heh... that’s life right?

[poemswords]

[raevanmun]

This hits super hard. It applies to pretty much my entire online life: roleplay, gaming, etc. I need to start doing this like it is a mantra, every single day.

[tiernanogphoto]

slip slidin’ away

southern wisconsin today’s hike

[raevanmun]

Ah, yes. Winter in the Homeland. Lovely photo.

[poemswords]

[raevanmun]

Raerys vibe about @ouroandar

[raevanmun]

First Steps

It was a crisp afternoon, the sun over Quel’thalas high and bright, but shedding little of its renown warmth upon the patchwork carpet of the forest floor. She would have much preferred Ouro’s company, even for this, or perhaps more so for this virgin voyage. But, he like many others had heard the beguiling chimes of Zandalar and Kul’tiras. The money was too good for him to pass up, the lure of…

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[raevanmun]

Feeling foolish

I feel really foolish. All this work I’ve done on migrating tumblrs and leveling my main and tonight, to be absolutely honest, I am wondering why I bothered. Part of me wants to just cash in the chips, drop both subs, hand off or disband my guild and walk away from it all. I don’t know if it is just a mood crash, or I am am finally sick and tired of the state of my role play and just too tired and too jaded to do anything about it.

[howlingowl-wra]

The Howling Owl - Poetry & Story Night

Calling all poets, storytellers and coffee lovers!

The Howling Owl is a premier faction neutral coffee shop located in Pandaria and owned by Alaris Sunspell and Romarique Valeriant. Each month we host an event that allows our patrons to recite poems, tell stories, or even share music for the others in attendance to enjoy. These can be original works or can simply be their favorites. Real world adaptations are fine too!

Location: The Howling Owl (Mistfall Village, Vale of Eternal Blossoms, Pandaria)

We will be in the main tavern, the biggest building!

When: Friday, January 11th, Doors will open at 6PM WrA server time

Drinks and snacks will be served until 6:30PM when readings will start. Afterward, drinks and food will be served again. Feel free to mingle and stay as long as you like!

All races, factions and other servers are welcome!

!!Raffles!!

We will have raffles for those on WrA server for both Horde and Alliance side! 100g a ticket, limit 10 tickets.

Alliance side raffle items:

Minion of Grumpus (1st prize)

2nd and 3rd prize have choice of: Darkmoon Cub Enchanted Torch Sentinels companion Mechanical Pandaren Dragonling

Horde side raffle items:

Mechano-Hog (1st prize

2nd and 3rd prize have choice of: Enchanted Lantern Chatterstone Pheonix Hatchling Fledgling Warden Owl

If you’re interested in attending and/or would like recite a poem or tell a story, send a message to @sunspell-wra or @romariquev or join our Discord server here!

@wowrpevents @the-royal-courier @wraconnect @wrahordeevents @wracentral

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Happy 44th Birthday, Bradley Cooper! (January 5, 1975)