your past trauma and experiences with misogyny aren't an excuse to be vile, actually. i'm sure it was awful for you and i'm sorry for that. on the flipside, it makes you a pretty terrible person to turn around and make others feel like shit simply for existing. "i was hurt because of my gender, so i have to redirect my anger and make someone else feel bad about their gender" is not the flex you think it is. i truly hope you educate yourself and maybe find some psychiatric help to unpack those thoughts. have the day you deserve in the meantime.
no. im not hurting others the same way i was hurt, because men who pretend to be women chose their bullshit. i did not. i was born that way, i had no preknowledge what my life was gonna be like as a woman.
as opposed to men and no, there is no such thing as a trans child, otherwise we would have had these protections along with gay rights.
don't get me wrong, i think there are some ppl who think they are trans and suffer, but simply not for being trans, its cause they're misdiagnosed as trans.
i'm allowed to say a man in a womans dress is a man, his feelings don't override his rights, theres no such thing as trans rights, cause every human has rights of self expression, religion and sexual identity.
trans rights are literally just privledges, privledges for men to enter womens spaces, breast feeding sessions, sports, healthcare accolades, and so much more on the basis of a feeling and a goverment issued paper. women don't even have the right to exclude these men, lest they be fined.
guess what, the recent happening in the UK regarding so called "trans rights" is the goverment actually enforcing a law that was always for women, transwomen are not women, by law. they still received the rights to enter womens spaces on the basis of being bullied by the public.
women lost their jobs, were fined diciplinary actions for simply saying, they are uncomfortable with biological men in their spaces(see the sandy peggy case, the bloke entered womens changing rooms and kept asking her repeatedly if she was gonna get undressed; Sandy peggy is a confirmd rape victim from an older case BTW)). NHS sacked her for simply asking not to have men in her spaces, as a rape victim. she took it to court because the NHS did not follow the law.
and in fact, it was women who had to take the meaning of what is a woman to the high court of the UK and the high court DECLARED transwomen are not women.
how can you not see the misogyny against women here? how can you go and say women like me who don't want men in our spaces are evil and vile and whatnot? you can not be pro women and exclude women like me for men who dress up as women. that is not how it works and never will.
and right now, in my country, our very own troon cases are causing problems for women. women on X calling men what they are, are being silenced by laws and much, much worse.
transwomen are men, they will never be women. like i said, the entire notion that men could ever be considered women because they grow fake tits or have fuckholes installed is misogynistic and vile and i will NEVER accept them as anything other than men.
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